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writes:I went out dancing with my girlfriend and her sisters. She and I are just starting to date. Another girl come up and ask me to dance I said no out of respect but my girlfriend, half drunk said to go ahead. Does this mean that she does not care about us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2013): She either trusts you or she doesn't care about you.
I've been clubbing with my boyfriend and a couple of girls started hitting on him and dancing with him. We know each other well enough that it wasn't an issue when he winked at me cheekily and danced with them. He and I even had a laugh about it afterwards although our friends were horrified that I was ok with this.
In itself, the incident you describe doesn't reveal much. Don't stress about it too much. See how the rest of the relationship is
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 April 2013):
 Did you ever see the movie the King and I? Anna explains to the king (remember this was 1865) that women can dance with strangers.... and the king was shocked that strange men could touch women in that way....
it was DANCING for god's sake not sex....
it means NOTHING... maybe it means she wanted you to dance and have fun... if you want to know ASK HER.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2013): I agree with your thought process on this but I would dance with the lady for a couple minutes then excuse yourself and grab your girlfriend and make her dance. She is half drunk so I believe it would make her feel really special. Once this is done take her home and give each other some private dance lessons. I am sucker for romance and believe that cementing a relationship is important. At the right moment tell your sweetheart, hey I only want to dance with you in the future and I am sure that she will understand what and how you feel about this and those words will probably never
come out of her lips again. Good-luck...
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reader, HeresBoo  +, writes (24 April 2013):
 My partner said the same thing and his reasoning was 'you're just dancing, I don't care! It's a bit of fun, just don't grind' :) she might mean the same thing. Expressing that she is not possessive :) make sure, though, if you feel differently, she knows :)
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (24 April 2013):
 I think it was her way of "showing" or trying to show, that she isn't a possessive & jealous type.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (24 April 2013):
 No--a)half drunk b) she wanted you to have fun and maybe she had a reason-bathroom, tired of dancing? I think girls and guys have different views of dancing. In my view, dancing is recreational, for fun, and has no attachment to commitment. But I know one time I asked my bf if I could dance with another dude since he wouldn't dance with me and it was a BIG FIGHT, so maybe men see it as more of a commitment/associated with love thing. So I wouldn't take this event too seriously!
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reader, loony10 +, writes (24 April 2013):
lol no darling, it just means that she trusts you. this other girl didn't ask you to have sex with her, she asked for a dance. she knows you won't do anything inappropriate. she's OK with you dancing with other people although you may not be. she knows that a dance is not going to ruin your relationship.
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