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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he flirting and playing with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - A guy I've been talking to for a while asked me if I have ever had a proper bf. I said no and then he said I deserve a perfect man because I'm lovely and he'll be lucky when I do get one. I'm so confused what he means! He has been flirting with me and now he says he doesn't ... (74 words)

Husband says he didn't buy extras at a strip club, but he spent a lot of money.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age - My husband went to a strip club (more than once) and spent alot of money. He says he had beers and a few dances, but no extras. I'm having a hard time believing his story, but don't want to end our 38 years of marriage, if he is telling the truth. Any insight is appreciated. ... (57 words)

He asked about my sexual history and now he's become extremely jealous.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for coming up on 5 months. We love each other very much and have been discussing moving in together. However,last night we had the conversation of 'past' relationships/flings etc. Before I was with this guy, I was married and in an open marriage (it ... (369 words)

I want to study abroad but my husband really wants to buy a house.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear friends, I have come to a crossroad. I married very young, at the age of 21 to someone I thought really appreciate me for my adventurous spirit and strive to always be better. Just to give you the necessary history, I earned an associates degree shortly after we were ma... (346 words)

Boy trapped in a girls body! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i need help i think im transgender.ive felt like this since i was very young from the age of about five ive acted like a boy i used to hate wearing girls under wear so would wear shorts underneath my trousers.ive recently came out as being a lesbian but still dont feel any... (170 words)

He kisses me and cuddles me but he calls me a friend. I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - OK so I have been out of the dating scene for quite some time. I met a guy and we hit it off immediately... we text and chat to each other constantly... he rings me at least once a day which I really enjoy his phone calls. we have spent a few weekends together and whilst we ... (212 words)

Should I ask him if I can kiss him or just do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So every year, me and my family go to this fete which my grandad sort of runs. Last year, I was working on a stall and I had to work with a family friend of my grandads, he is my age. We hit it off really well, he brought me candy floss. But nothing happend. We were 15 and ... (336 words)

I'm scared of asking people out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm scared of asking people out is my problem here, My friends will laugh If I get turned down so will hers Wont be able to be friends Weird everytime we see each other What can I do so that I am not scared of asking people out and being rejected by them? Very simple ... (74 words)

Should I just stop talking to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so here we go, it mite get a little lengthy but bear with me please. So I am 17 and was with a 21year old. (Please no comments on that) We we're together about 5months and grew, unexpectedly, very strong feelings for each other. We had a rough relationship with the age ... (251 words)

Is he a twit or does he fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a guy at school. Hes a twat. He teases me and stuff but he asked me out. I said NO, but now its end of term and the teases me again. I dont know if its him being the moron he is or if hes building courage. Hes nice but he thinks hes the bees-knees. Honastly he loves ... (88 words)

I've got myself into a state over a guy once again! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

18 July 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, I have got myself into a bit of a state over a guy once again. My long story cut short goes like this... Christmas 2010 a guy from college started talking to me out of the blue, i went along with it, we got along well, we only ever spoke during text for the whole of the h... (590 words)

She hasn't called me back in over a month but still claims she loves me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I and my girlfriend have had a couple of good time before but she is no more to be in the frame again. she has refuse to call me for about a month and half now. all the response i got when i call her is "i am busy". i dont know what is going on with her whether she is now ... (90 words)

I'm tired of always having to tell them to stop or back off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend that I'm deeply in love with. But I'm also the type of girl that gets along better with guys than I do with girls. here's the problem, every time I meet a guy that I want to be friends with he either ends up liking me way too much, wants me to leave my ... (180 words)

Is he spending too much time with his female best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Now, it might be a little long so please bear with me. My boyfriend and I have been together for a while, and at first, I really didn't mind him spending time with his female best friend because well...they're best friends! But now, it's starting to affect me because I'm star... (271 words)

Newly married and having sex problems already!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married since April of 2011 and I am the experienced one and he was not he has come a long way but he can't seem to handle me wanting sex every day I used to like it multiple times a day. I am ok with getting it once a day but he seems to be getting ... (267 words)

How do you know for sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been talking about getting married. he wants to ask me to marry me. i love him so much. we have been together for 9 and half months now. is there any one that feels the same way? that my boyfriend wants to know how he got so luck to have angel like me ... (171 words)

What should I do to save my children from this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have been active on this site and giving advices as well to those who seek emotional help but at this point in my life, I would like to seek some enlightenment of making decisions. When I got married, my family disowned me and until this date ... (827 words)

He's being weird with me now after I said I didn't like anyone at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I really like at work. He always tries to make a convo with me. He stares at me when he thinks am not looking and he looks away when I catch him staring. But now he's been weird with me cos he asked if I like anyone at work and I said no. He say... (166 words)

Boyfriend ruined my expensive pot, should I make him replace it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - When I moved into my first apartment I invested in a really expensive ($200) cooking pot. My mom has several that I grew up cooking with and they have lasted her almost 30 years each, still going strong. I LOVE mine and treat it carefully. I now live with my boyfriend and one ... (161 words)

Am I wrong to be trusting him? It all seems too good to be true!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm inexperienced with guys and I can be really naive. So in really worried that I've been too believing with this guy.So I met this guy and we started talking so before I left he came up and hugged me his excuse he just felt like it. So that night he sent a friend request on ... (147 words)

I'm inexperienced sexually compared to my wife. How can I know if I'm satisfying her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

18 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently got married, and I don't have a lot of sexual experience for my age (early 30s). Although my wife has quite a bit of experience sexually, we didn't have sex before marriage because she decided awhile back to abstain until marriage. Due to my lack of experience co... (257 words)

I like my best friend's brother! Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I guess I'll start by saying that I really like my best friends brother. He's 2 years older that my . Me and my friend have been friends for seven years which means I've known him for seven years and this is the first time it hit me like this(how much I like him). I Have ... (153 words)

I don't feel comfortable letting my boyfriend see me in full light!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I still feel a bit awkward about the idea of letting my boyfriend see me without a stitch on during the daytime, or with the lights on after dark. I'm pretty comfortable about most of my body being unclothed but when it comes to the parts hidden by a bikini... He thinks it's... (196 words)

Is he reducing contact because he is losing interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a guy for nearly five months and up until the last few days all has been going really well. He has always been really good at initiating contact and texts me loads of times in the day. He will regularly text me to tell me what he's doing or what film he is wa... (211 words)

My GF is a massive cheater and now she wants to keep me out of my daughters life! What kind of person is she??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my girlfriend in May 5th, 2006 the day her husband went to vacation in the carribean. We had sex the same day, she has told me they were heading to splitville. When her husband came back from Haiti, I was at the airport and I saw them kissing, i have said to myself w... (420 words)

Some questions on sex in the shower and why can't I orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya All, I have some questions on sex. 1) I've heard some women physically can't orgasm. Is there any way to know if you can't climax? I've been sexually active with my boyfriend for 8months now and he knows my body and what i like better than i do; so why can't i orgasm? ... (340 words)

Can't seem to forget aboug my ex and move on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I wake up this morning after along dream about my ex girlfriend and I. We've been broke up well over a month. She stone cold dropped me and would never fully explain why. Of course I did what I should've never done. I panicked, became desperate and needy, and I also ... (267 words)

Husband of 17 years left last week, already wants our kids to meet his girlfriend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

- My husband of 17 years left me last week and the children (aged 12 and 14) were naturally upset. Well me too, but this question is about them, not me. He has moved in with another woman, who he apparently met in the pub about 2 months ago - she has her own house about 5 mi... (374 words)

How can I tell if he's verbally abusive? He's always so angry.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age - How do you tell if you are being verberly abused by your husband??? Also when we are out with other people he ignores me and doesnt include me in conversation. He is under a great deal of stress. He owns three rest/bars and has several incompetent employees. He gets very ... (80 words)

He was cold and indifferent when he broke up with me, what does his email mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all. My boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me today cuz we fight too much. He thinks im too jealous and doesnt want to be with me no matter how much i pleaded.. He was so cold and indifferent. Before he used to cry i send him an email after i left: I will mi... (332 words)

Having feelings for someone else, should I leave my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I have been in a long distance relationship for nearly 6 years. When I was younger it was because we couldn't afford to move closer, and now its because he's been in uni and we can't afford to live together. So we have been apart, we see eachother once or twice a ... (184 words)

In a happy relationship with a man but fantasising about women! Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 19, I have been in a relationship for over 2 years and I love him to pieces. I just want to know why I keep having fantasies about having sex with other women :s. I'm not a lesbian. Is it normal? Please help me Thanks. ... (55 words)

We are engaged but he hasn't even told his parents about me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - please help! I have been with the same guy for a little over 2 years. We have been engaged for over a year of the 2 years we have been together, but he still hasnt told his parents. he doesnt plan on getting married anytime soon. He says it will happen in the next two years. ... (139 words)

Any cute ideas to surprise my girlfriend when she gets back from her holiday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is on a cruise for a week and I haven't been able to communicate with her at all. Any cute ideas to surprise her for when she gets back? She's very into the whole cute, romantic idea things. We're both 17 and I don't really have a budget. I just want her to come ... (68 words)

If we are just "friends", why did she get all dressed up to go out with me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

18 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Agony Aunts, I know this girl and I like her, but she said she just wants to be friends. I was heartbroken at first but then said to myself, I like her enough so why not just be friends. So we made an arrangement last week to see a movie, as friends. When I got to h... (186 words)

Does he like me back or am I reading too much into these signs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, There's one guy I like but I don't know if he likes me back. I've known him for nearly a year now, we've been good friends, but I didn't really see him often because he lives on the other side of London and I was busy with college and he's busy with universit... (896 words)

If she doesn’t like boys, why is she still with him? Should I wait for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I’m a gay guy stuck in a sticky situation, no pun intended. I’ve been hanging out with one of my friends from high school recently, and she told me how she doesn’t have feelings for guys anymore, and she introduced me to her boyfriend, whom is bisexual. We instantly ... (404 words)

Somewhere along the line he decided he didnt want a relationship but is still trying to string me along.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - About 5 months i started seeing this guy i met through a mutual friend. When we first met he chased me so hard and it took a little convincing before i just let go and went for it. As i was trying to get over previously being mucked around by someone. Whenever we met up we got ... (933 words)

Can being nervous mean a man can't keep an erection?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently went home with a man I've had a crush on for the past year or so. He is twice my age and we've known each other in a strictly professional capacity, so it was quite unusual and exciting to have the chance to sleep with him. When we got to bed, he had trouble ... (259 words)

How do you say sorry to your partner for not being there when they needed you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Which is the best way to say sorry to your gf/bf when for not being available in their time of need??? I know some things are just not forget but how can we make it little less hurting for them. I feel really bad for caring less for the person whom loved me the most. I don't ... (76 words)

She dumped me...but why does she keep coming back into my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone; Well hope someone can help me truely. I was in a relationship with my ex for 5 years and 2,5 years of it we were living together. I met her when she was 17 and i was 21 now she is 22 and im 26. In the 5 years she has dumped me 7-8 times out of blue. We never ... (534 words)

I know he must think alot of me but I am still convinced he will cheat on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 17 and my boyfriend is 23 so bit of a big age gap, but i love him alot and im really worried as he lives a long way a way - meaning 160 miles. In the past ive been cheated on and hurt REAL bad and it took a long time to even consider having a relationship with my boyfrien... (204 words)

I let go of a wonderful man for my cheating ex...how can I forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My story is very similar to many people but I will make a long story short... Last year, I sensed my boyfriend of 4 years was cheating on me with my former best friend so I ended the relationship and moved on quite quickly. My ex-boyfriend tried to get back with me and confesse... (375 words)

I sometimes cringe at the thought of sex. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have to admit that I sometimes cringe at the thought of sex. I've been with may partner for almost 2.5 years, and yesterday he got really upset when I turned down the chance to be intimate. He says I always have an excuse and it's very annoying to him. But I can't help it, I ... (448 words)

How do I catch THAT fish?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

18 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - The saying 'There's plenty of fish in the sea', followed by 'I dont care, I want THAT fish!' My problem is that the above saying very much rings true to my situation at the moment (in regards to a girl). Any suggestions on how one catches THAT fish? I'd be interested... (162 words)

I'm terrified of losing him. Or am I too paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

- Hi, I have been going out with this guy for nearly a year. We were totally full on to begin with as he was away travelling. We moved in together in April. In the last few weeks I noticed he has cooled off a little bit and I have been trying extra hard to get a bit of attention ... (231 words)

Apparently her boyfriend has the same name as mine does. Is this just a coincidence?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i've been with my Boyfriend now for 9 months and i love him to dealth. About a week ago we had an argument but sorted it all out, problem is since we had the argument a week ago he's started texting me a little less but texting an old friend from where he used to live, ... (212 words)

Looked at boyfriend's phone.....now I'm struggling to trust him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Once I read my bfs phone (I know, but don't judge me, I did have valid reason) and read some really inappropriate stuff to a girl he once dated (photos, sex talk and other stuff you don't say when you have a gf - it was his relationship with her that made me look). We had a big ... (183 words)

Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, my ex and I have a crazy relationship. Every time he's left me, he's come crawling back. So we decided to try to patch things up, but I didn't want to make it official until I saw changes. We got into a small argument a few weeks ago, and ever since then I haven't heard ... (180 words)

Is my husband having sex with someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my husband havent had sex in about 3 days on the 4th day we had sex he came extremly fast and it was thick kind of gooey like...is that a sigh of him having sex with with some one else?... (42 words)

Am I bi or a lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I'm a lesbian but I'm not sure. I feel like once I know I'm a lesbian, I'll feel a lot more comfortable than I am right now (know as bicurious). So let me tell you a little bit about myself and help me come to a conclusion one way or another :) I'm 13. I liked boys... (207 words)

I asked her to give me more oral, and then found out her ex's used to force her to give them oral and now I feel terrible....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem and I want your imput on how to deal with it. Im afraid I may have been sexually assaulting my girlfriend, but its a complicated situation So me and her were dating for 11 months and I knew she had some problems in the past with several guys but she refuse... (294 words)

How do I move on? It's been over a year now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my exboyfriend broke up with me over a year ago and I just don't know how to move on. I am still very depressed and I just keep thinking why he didn't love me as much as I loved him. He got back with his exgirlfriend and I am completely devastated by that and keep comparing ... (122 words)

I helped him to get back on his feet and he repays me by cheating on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I know I can never tell anyone this because its too disgusting and bizarre but when I graduated high school, maybe the stress of the transition, I became interested in a homeless man. I know its horrible and disgusting and just wrong, I helped him get on his feet I had brother ... (198 words)

I like 2 different girls who might like me too, but they are both in relationships!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So... I'm interested in two different women at the same time, and I think they think I'm funny and might consider a relationship with me, except that they're both in one two, though both of theirs is bad... Any ideas? And I'd like to remain friends with whichever I don't end up ... (54 words)

Is this abuse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really really really need some help. Ive been in a relationship with this man for about 8 months, although there was a break in between there when I broke up with him for about a month for the same reason Im concerned about now. He is constantly arguing with me and if i dont ... (333 words)

I feel like my ex only wants me for sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when your ex boyfriend say this to you , does he want to keep you in his life or just use you for sex? You know I took the virginity so there's a lot of girls that don't last with the guys that took the virginity so keep me around. Does that sound like he only ... (62 words)

I'd like to date him, but my mother says he'd a bad influence!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, Teenage girl confused here. I started working with this guy who goes to my school. He's going to be a senior in high school and we've been mayjorly flirting. Even our boss tells us to stop flirting. Everyone at work thinks we're dating. I kinda want to date him. But... (187 words)

I've met one neighbour. How do I go about meeting the rest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - A couple of months ago I posted a question regarding me wanting to make friends with my Japanese neighbors from across the street here is the link: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-would-like-to-be-friends-with-the.html Update A couple of days ago I finally spoke to one o... (157 words)

Is there a way we can be together without sneaking out of my house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and my boyfriend want to hang out more but neither of our parents approve of our relationship so anyone have any suggestions on how we could? he lives like 10 miles from me so its not like we can walk, but he has a car. He lives in a little town and I live in the country. ... (197 words)

H'es cheated before.. do you think he'll do it again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend lives a couple hours away and i only get to see him in the summer and at some basketball games. He has cheated on a girl before but that was his first time cheatin on someone. Its been awhile since he has cheated but im afraid he might cheat on me. He says he ... (73 words)

Dating for three weeks and he says he loves me and means it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I`ve had a boyfriend for three weeks. He never leaves my side and he always tries to be with me 24/7. Hes happy around me but not when hes with other girls. My boyfriend is now telling me he loves me and he really means it. Im starting to feel the same but is he really telling ... (72 words)

Do I keep my baby and raise it with a man who won't even let me finish school because he is afraid I will "meet" someone new? Or do I abort it and go back to the guy who possibly fathered my child, denies it, yet wants to rebuild our relationship? ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not on here to be judged. I'm here to get honest heartfelt opinions from people who don't know me. Here is my story, I'm 18 years old, high school drop out, been through the bad and the good. My life is not one to be judged, I was in court battles between my parents for 1... (718 words)

I'll cry at almost anything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4667 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't really know what my question is. I guess I sort of want to know, why I'm always so emotional. I'll cry at almost anything. I honestly watched a movie just less than 20 mins ago and it made me cry soo much. Then I went on Facebook and saw that all my friends are going to ... (167 words)

Is it love, or is it loneliness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Love or loneliness? When I finally decided to tell her my feelings, she asked me if I really liked her or if I really liked being with her. Honestly, I couldn't think of an answer, and I still can't answer that. She says that she was worried that was I too lonely which is ... (131 words)

Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4667 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So i was just wondering if this guy likes me. A simple question, but i find it very hard to read people so i would just like a opinion. So i met this guy about a month ago and we always been kinda flirty with eachother. Then again, we both just flirty people so it works. Any... (547 words)

How can I get the courage to be more forward and keep men's interest without seeming clingy or slutty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24 a virgin and currently single. Have been for the last two years. I have gone on several dates in that time and none of them progressed into anything. . . I'm getting really discouraged. I'm not the type to be very physical on a first or second date, I will have to like ... (468 words)

He pushed his way into my life, but he's selfish and unsupportive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4667 days ago

18 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know who is more selfish, me or the guy I'm seeing. We both just broke up with other people about 3 months ago. I was with my ex for 3 years. He was with his for almost a year and a half. Yet, all he does is talk about not wanting to hurt his ex anymore, or move on ... (411 words)

What's the deal with this guy? Should I just leave things and walk away?

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18 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I like a guy who's friends with someone i dated 5 years ago. We met recently a couple of times and got on really well. He said he would let me know when he's back in the country as he works abroad to meet up again. I was aware he returned to the country a couple of weeks... (232 words)

Is a smile all it takes to break the ice?

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18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy who i've seen and even though we've never spoken, his behavior/body language and the way he looks at me, it's clear that he's attracted to me! But he comes across too shy to do anything about it. Well i'm the same, but figured if i want something to happen ... (197 words)

Stress is damaging our relationship and our sex life

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18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi... My boyfriend and I have been in a very long, and for the most part, very good relationship. We have been having an absolutely awful couple of weeks...both on his part and mine. Lately, I feel like he has been very selfish and inconsiderate in many ways since I started ... (262 words)

Can we survive a long distance relationship?

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18 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Well me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 months. We have gone through a lot in those 3 months. Its been pretty bad. I started to hear rumors about her. That she was cheating on me(I found this out around after our first month). I started to believe them! It was ... (101 words)

Have you ever left someone even though you loved them deeply, since you just had different beliefs?

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18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I come from a big family. We were very close but I feel a little far from them now. My boyfriend was an only child. There is a birthday at least every 2 months in the family, and especially if it's the kids we like to have a party. There are also other events such as weddings... (406 words)

Is it a break or a break up??

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18 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - On Friday my girlfriend, who is about to be 18, told me that she thinks we needed to take a break over the weekend because she wants to make sure she wants to be with me 100%. She told me that she loves being with me and is happy with me, but sometimes when she is by herself ... (440 words)

He'll be there and I'll be here, why did he wait to ask me?

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18 July 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Well hi, I am so frustrated, I need advice or just some opinions on my situation. Please help. So, me and this guy started talking over a year ago. After a week of talking he told me he liked me, then after two weeks of hanging out and constantly talking we started dating. ... (397 words)

How do you overcome and push past relationship and commitment fears?

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18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you overcome and push past relationship and commitment fears? Because I really want to, but whenever i feel i'm getting close to a guy, i guard myself and start pushing him away. I try not to do it, but most of the time i do it subconsciously and will find excuses not to ... (275 words)

My ex distanced himself from me, is this because he took interest in another girl?

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18 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. I'm almost 18 and I was with this guy for a year almost. He was the nicest, sweetest guy at first and we had such a laugh. He made me so happy. Anyway we argued a lot, he didn't like me speaking to other guys and would always question who they were. I loved him with ... (364 words)

Is leaving something to the imagination actually a way to attract men?

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18 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys any insight here, I asked my boyfriend why he thinks my friend gets so much attention from guys on our nights out compared to my other friend. And was a pretty confusing answer to what i expected... Both girls are absolutely model gorgeous! The first girl, the one wh... (249 words)