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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he taking advantage of me? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4644 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - A man that I was seeing for 3 months has gone overseas. He has been gone for 4 months and I knew as soon as I started dating him that he would be leaving very soon to take this trip. We were crazy for each other so we went ahead and kept dating anyway. Everything has been fine ... (724 words)

Is he worth fighting for? He said he doesn't want a relationship.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So. Hey everyone. Here's my story. I know this guy since about three years and I've had a number of crushed on him since about a year and a half ago. I never acted on them because I had a boyfriend at the time but no matter how strong I fought the feeling, I usually got butt... (541 words)

How can I tell him he's too rough during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm very sore after having sex with my boyfriend and I don't know how to tell him. Not just in my private parts, but all over my body. My upper and lower back hurts so much! I'm 26 years old and he's 48 years old. He's a heavy and muscularly type of guy. I haven't had a lot of ... (196 words)

I want to get back with my ex, but he continues to test me by dating other people...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating since April 2010. it has always been a little rough because we are quite different and we would fight quite a lot. About two months ago a friend of mine just moved back into the area and her and decided to hang out spontaneously. M... (744 words)

Husband won't talk to me except to criticize, and I am at my breaking point.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is bi-polar and a manic depressant. He refuses to talk to me about anything. He will small talk about something someone else does. when we use to talk about problems, he would and does always make it about him only and its all my fault because he get mad. He rem... (333 words)

Want to rekindle relationship with ex but she now just wants to be friends. What to do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

26 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, To make this as short as possible, I was with my girlfriend for a year and I was a real jerk to her, I wasn't showing her love or caring for her most of the time. After 1 year I came to my senses and realized what a jerk I was and apologized and asked for her for... (328 words)

Horny guy is testing my sexual willpower!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, he is 30 years old and I am 28 years old. We met for a conference, flirted for a six weeks and we are going different paths because the conference ends in a fortnight. He is cute and turns me on with his stares. Problem is he is very horny and has made me as well. I ... (96 words)

How can I make a move on this guy I like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

26 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi people I'm a 17-year-old guy leaving school next summer. I haven't kissed a girl in ages, and I don't really want to any more. There's a new boy that joined my school a few months ago who's cute, gorgeous and really hot, and I can't stop fantasising about him. I've tried to... (134 words)

How odd is it for dominant men to be submissive in the bedroom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is a very big guy, about 200lb, 6.2ft and very muscular (lifts weights). His parents were physically abusive at worst, uncaring at best and both abused drugs and alcohol -- his father was particularly brutal. Tough life, to say the least. He's currently doing a ... (299 words)

I like him, and he likes me, but neither of us is ready for a relationship. So where do we go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this guy on a online dating site and our date was just perfect and he was everything i wanted in a guy..he was staring into my eyes all night it was perfect then after our date we got the bus home and went our seperate ways..then we was txting each otherevery day until ... (250 words)

How can I stop my 13-year-old brother from starting to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice on what to tell my brother. He is thirteen and i have recently discovered that is thinking about having sex. His mates are apparently doing it and I've told him i am sickened by this and all the other usual blah like you're underage, its illegal, you will get ... (142 words)

We're bi-sexual & in relationships, she's making advances, I just want to be friends, how do I tell her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so im 100% bisexual and in the past i have had as many girlfriends as i have had boyfriends. anyway im 19 and i have a boyfriend and we are very much in love. will be our 2 year anniversary in november and we already live together and do everything together ( i will admit ... (400 words)

After this, do you think I will hear from him again??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

26 July 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Me and a guy i knew from school (we're 24 now) used to have a casual thing when we were both single. I'd never done "casual" sex before and after a while i began to have feelings for him. At one point i told him that i didn't think i could be casual anymore and he said that a ... (487 words)

Why do I feel so strongly about this guy??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel so strongly about this guy. i really like him.? I really like this guy at work. He's really friendly and lovely. He stares at me when am not looking and looks away when I catch him. I gave him my number, we were chatting on the phone for over an hour a... (173 words)

When a man takes longer with sex, does that mean he has had sex recently??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend lives away and we see each other ever weekend, when we have sex he usely comes quick, last weekend i had sex with him and he toke longer than normal, i do trust him but i have heard that when a man takes longer it can mean they have had sex recent ... (55 words)

My family dislikes my bf, I love him, they do crazy things to break us up, should I move out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, my sister and my mother hate my boyfriend!and i feel like its creating a gap between us and this makes no sense!when i ask them why they dont like him their only reasons are because he doesnt have much money all the time to take me to expensive places,because weve ... (311 words)

Happened eleven years ago & I am fuming over a stripper, should I let it go??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i just found out after 11 years, that the stripper cut my soon to be husbands clothes off of him while three of his "friends" (one was his brother and "best man") held him down!! then she had them lay him on the floor while she "danced" over the top of him??? (it was a private ... (239 words)

Could my attraction to women be a passing thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Okay lately i've been finding myself attracted to women. When i watch women porn it seems to turn me on. I've been hurt real bad by my ex boyfriends in the past and i just got this feeling of dating a woman. But they say a woman can hurt you 10x worse than a man. But i'm ... (76 words)

Should I take him back after what he did??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my ex boyfriend for 5 months. He was in the army during the week, and during most of the weekends he was home. When he was here in the weekend we spended most of our time together. He was so in love with me that i had to tell him to not f... (1042 words)

Should I try and call people after I got so badly drunk and see how they react to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am ashamed of myself. I am in my mid 30's and got drunk at a party, acted very stupid and said so many things that I wouldn't normally say. All I remember is that it was pretty bad and my inhibitions had dropped very low and I would have said anything. The people I was with ... (315 words)

I really can't stand her ex being in her life...am I being difficult?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is still hanging around her ex and it really hurts, but I don't want to resort to leaving her, because I do love her and believe that she loves me too. What should I do about this? You see, me and my girl are in a long distance relationship, although we know eac... (1134 words)

I don't want to be somebody who is never happy with what they have....but I dream of being with another man!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I just turned 30, well, geeze, I'm not sure what's really important to outline here, but here goes: I've had long relationships throughout my life with the most recent being 5 years now, but I've never made it past 6 years... maybe that's just coincidental. Anyway, I am a har... (765 words)

It's my boyfriend's birthday in a month. Any hints on what to get him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 16 year old girl and have been dating my boyfriend for a couple of weeks now - its his birthday in a month and I have no idea what to get him. Any hints would be great!... (39 words)

I feel like my girlfriend is slipping away from me. Am I losing her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

26 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so my girlfriend of 4 months had recently gone on a long holiday with her family. its been a month since i've seen her so far and i wont see her again for another 3 weeks. I'm literally dying. I miss her so much, i see couples everywhere and im balancing trying to have fun ... (194 words)

If your fella cheated and left but still said he cared and looked out for you, what would you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - If your fella cheated on you and then got into a relationship with her, but months later is telling you that he is looking out for you and still cares about you what would you make of it? I do not want him back at all as I believe I deserve better but what do you think she ... (92 words)

My fiance's butt stinks....how do I tell him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

26 July 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I have been dating my fiance for four years now. And theres this small little issue that KILLS me, and grosses me out and i dont know how to tell him without it hurting his feelings. I'm really embarassed to talk about this, but...something needs to be done! My fiance is 2... (248 words)

She says she loves me but rarely takes my calls or calls me back....I'm so confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 20 years old, and am in love with a single lady of 31, she is a working class lady and am not, since i am a high school leaver, the problem i have with her is that she hardly pick my calls and never calls back when she sees my missed calls. But she says she loves me, am ... (89 words)

How can I move on? It's like I'm obesssed with getting him back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

- im driving myself insane wanting an ex back who treated me like utter crap. When Im with him I dont even want him. And now hes gone I miss him like crazy even though I know if we got back together it wouldnt work out. Im itching to text him or call him but I know he will just ... (148 words)

He cheated and will not stop calling. What does he want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - he cheated Im trying to not think about it but he will not stop calling,and I dont know why. We have a 8 month old together and I know if I answer he will say he is calling in regards to her, but he calls me from morning until night non-stop, at times when he knows the baby is ... (117 words)

Do I tell my guy friend that his girlfriend is a complete tramp and people are laughing at him behind his back because he is dating her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a male friend who has been dating this woman for about the last 6 months seriously. He and I had a past, but now we really are just friends and it is cool. He has always been hesitant about relationships since he was burned by who he thought was the love of his life ... (238 words)

I want to be with him so bad but I don't know if I should go back on the roller coaster ride...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i has been broken up for 2 weeks now. I've been through a hell of a lot of bs with him. From him cheating on me multiples of times, hiding our relationship from 2 dozen of females on facebook, lying to me a lot, disrespecting me, and more. So i broke up with ... (270 words)

Does sex feel the same for a man no matter what woman he's with?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Not long ago I read a question asked by a man, if sex for women was different with different men. He then went on to say that sex for a man is in general the same no matter the woman he is with. So, it doesn't matter if a woman is good in bed or not? Do guys all experience t... (125 words)

I have a great relationship with a fantastic girl, but I cant stop checking other girls out, out of habit!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

26 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys... Need an advice :) For about four years I haven't had a gf, then two months ago I met this fantastic girl I can't stop being crazy about, we started a relationship, which is by the way going pretty great, but there's one thing that freaks me out. I can't stop c... (141 words)

I don't feel I can continue in this relationship, but I cant bear to hurt a child in the process....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age - I am really struggling and just don't know what to do. And this is from someone who always has a solution for everything. I feel I need to end a relationship to survive - but I can't bear to hurt a child. I have been with my Partner for two and a half years. We felt l... (1605 words)

How do I get the confidence back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I am female age 30 and had quite a few sexual partners (most of these in relationships), I used to be pretty good at sex, but I had one bad experience and it really put me off and made me not want to do it for ages. The last time I did, it was a few months back ... (165 words)

Paid online jobs to help people with their problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone know if there are any paid jobs where you can help people with their problems online, or would it be voluntary ?. I have been thinking recently that i'd like to have a job where i can help people, and, of course, being on dear cupid made me think of it too. I have ... (92 words)

Finding her very difficult to read....what should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

26 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there I work with a woman whom im very attracted to. We see each other occasionally but it always seems to be hit and miss on how she reacts to me. Some days I can go up and talk to her, and she will make me feel welcome and is happy to talk for a while, smiling and aski... (415 words)

Is getting a nose job a good idea?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I know this is a relationship website, but i really really need some advice as to what to do and how to deal with what people will think. I know i shouldn't care about others opinions but i really can't help it!! Basically, since i was about 11 i'm 19 now i have wanted to g... (312 words)

What is going on in his mind? Will he contact me again? Should I contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - After 1 year my ex returned to me. He dumped me for another girl. I was very hurt at that time. But when he came back to me I forgave him.He loved me a lot after reunion. But dont know what happened to me I always blamed him for his past. He tried to convince me that it was ... (290 words)

He is back in touch with the girl he cheated on his last girlfriend with, what do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi i've been in this relationship for 10 months now and everything was going good at the start but he's changed and started to show his true colours... here is the twist he's been in care for 12 years and has been abused by everyone in his life his mum passed away last agust ... (175 words)

How do I make it clear that I want him to take my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have the most lovely boyfriend and we have been dating for a while now. We can get a bit frisky when we are alone and I know that we work together. The thing is that I would like to move it to the next level and would like to do "the deed". The thing is that he won't do it. ... (165 words)

His debt is ruining our lives and relationship....what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner is in SO much debt and is very very stressed. We don't go out and we don't do anything as there is no money. he is self employed so his income in quite low, and whatever income he has goes on paying back the debt and other bills. I have been with him for about 5 ... (243 words)

How do I moderate my behaviour and be a good girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Sorry for any rambling but here is a quick low down of my situation. Basically,I have a boyfriend who is kind, sweet, ect. ect. I am not in love with him and doubt I ever will be but we are really close and I genuinely like him a lot and he knows this. I'm not one of those gi... (149 words)

Any suggestions on how to get with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (M) age 30-35 - I'm trying to get with this girl I met while me and my friends were out clubbing. She's one of my friend's friends. We've seen each other twice and both times it just ended up with us grinding on each other on the dance floor. I just don't know what to say or how to say it, if ... (64 words)

No sex and he is in touch with his ex's.....what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age - My husband keeps in contact with past wife and girlfriends then tries to hide it. Our sex life is batting zero and has been for the past 2 years. It seems as though he wants to live in his past. What does this mean... (44 words)

Loyalty in relationship constantly being questioned

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello again! My relationship has been rocky lately, and it's been due to my accepting a part-time job at a bank. He used to work at a credit union last yr but lost the job. He blames me for losing it because he'd start arguments with me and try to rush off the phone when it was ... (154 words)

Why is arrogance so appealing? Should I become more arrogant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi! I m a 25yr old, have average looks, good physique, sound financial position, and have a good behaviour(as people around me say). I never disgrace someone, never think anyone is inferior to me, never show off my attitude to anybody. Some of my friends or people around m... (638 words)

Trying too hard to make everyone else happy is making me depressed! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4650 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Any help is appreciated. So my girlfriend and I broke up and we have always been on and off but recently we've been really great. She says we act like friends and its true shes my bestfriend, but I feel like she wants to just jump into another relationship and it hurts, sh... (206 words)

Bad breakouts and a messed up menstrual cycle....any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 21 female and for the last two years my skins been going crazy. i used to have great skin but now i breakout on my chin and around my mouth all the time. my menstrual cycle is all messed up too. i started taking just this year, took yaz and that didnt realy do much then i ... (122 words)

I have a boyfriend but am crushing on a friend. Do I act on it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm in a very happy relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years. We love each other and don't ever plan to break up. However, I've had a crush on one of his friends from school for longer than I've been with my boyfriend, and it's really been bothering me lately. The other guy ... (148 words)

He chats and tells other girls I'm just a helper. I love him, but I love me more!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I really need advice, I m with a guy and I m happy, he says he loves me, and sometimes he says I'm the most wonderful thing that happened to him, but I know he still chatting, and looking for girls, and even said to one of them that I'm just a roommate a helper, that I want ... (89 words)

Too good to walk away from

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age - Dear Cupid I have met a man who I have fallen in love with - and to use an over used cliche, I have never felt like this before. I do not love him, I don't know him well enough for that - but I feel that I could and I want to. I want to show him how to love again, and for ... (202 words)

Does he really want to take things slow relationship-wise, or does he just not want me for a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - About 2 weeks ago I got out of a long-term relationship. I met a man shortly after who I absolutely loved spending time with. The third day that we hung out, we had sex, and it was beautiful. But I'm falling hard for him and I want a relationship out of this. I enjoy his ... (161 words)

Do I introduce my LDR boyfriend to my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my LDR boyfriend is finally with me, and only here for a short time. Do I introduce him to my parents? I met him online, and they knew about him before but were very negative about the whole issue and told me to dump him immediately. They dont know I am still with him. ... (102 words)

Will I ever meet someone who won't cheat on me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I just broke up two days ago. Prior to this we were having some problems, but we talked about it and things seemed to get better.Three nights ago was our anniversary,he never gets weekends off from work, but he requested off. At thw last minute my mom told me ... (326 words)

I had my first kiss and it was horrible?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a big problem. I have been with my bf for over a year, and its been LDR. The tension has been building between us, and he was finally able to come home. We are both inexperienced, and gave each other our first kisses. It was terrible. I felt nothing, and I ... (132 words)

Should I just have sex with him since I may never see him again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - He is 29 and I am 30. I fell in love with him for the past one month and I thought he was too, but now I am not sure if he feels love or lust for me.He wanted animalistic sex(no kiss, doggy style) and I refused. I deliberately but not openly avoided him for two days. Today I ... (276 words)

I have a great sex drive and my husband has almost none. How can this work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age - I was wondering if anyone can relate to being sexually frustrated. I have a great sex drive always have and my husband has next to no sex drive. He says he's very attracted to me and thinks I'm sexy but we hardly have sex. When we do its great but once every two weeks is crazy. ... (58 words)

Should I be worried about my flirty fiance and his 2 women friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4647 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 31 yr old mother to 4 wonderful little boys..I recently got divorced after 2 yrs of seperation from my childrens father. I am getting remarried next month (August 2011) to a man who loves me very much. Ok here goes..even though I know that my fiancee loves me I am very ... (138 words)

What can I do to make the situation with my friends better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - at school i have about 6 friends, i get along fine with all of them, but recently they're starting to get kind of annoying. its like im starting so see the bad side of them and its coming more and more obvious as time goes by. there are way to many arguments in our group an... (159 words)

I get the feeling a boy is going to ask me out soon and I cant stop looking up questions about dating! Why do I feel this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4650 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well ive never had a boyfriend and i get this crazy felling that a guy is going to ask me out and it makes me look up questions like; how to be a girlfriend? what do boys look for in a girl? how to make out? how to kiss and more.... but its making me crazy someone please ... (66 words)

How do I move on from this jerk who got me pregnant and now wants nothing to do with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone! You may remember me from the guy who got me pregnant on purpose and then completely got disrespectful and wanted me to have an abortion... anyhow, I'm now 10 wks preggo, I've seen the guy a few times (being dumb) because he has acted like he wanted to be involved ... (169 words)

Men/boys are confusing! I need help figuring this one out.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4650 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at my internship. Recently, I notice that whenever we talk, we would always smile at each other; he would maintain eye contacts when we talk. Last week, he took a whole week off, I guess due to vacation. So, I was excited to see him at work today. At fist, I ... (255 words)

We broke up today and he was my 1st everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4650 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i am 17. I have only had one boyfriend in my life...and we have been together for almost three months and today we broke up and now we aint even freinds or anything...we do well to talk any now. I just don't know what to do. The reason i am asking for advice is the fact ... (125 words)

After 8 years of being friends I'm finding it hard seeing us as a couple

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don’t know how my relationship with my best friend/boyfriend will work. The situation is, we were best friends for 8 years, and then about 4 weeks ago I told him that I liked him more than a friend. He said he felt the same and we have been going out since then. But I am fin... (149 words)

He would rather party with his idiot friends than see me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm having troubles with my boyfriend of 2 months. I'm 16, he's 17. He's pretty popular at his school and drinks, smokes and parties nearly every night. I'm not as social as I use to be about a year ago due to switching to a small private school where I only hangout with the ... (223 words)

Should I face my fears head on and go to this party? Or should I admit that the past 2 years have been a failure and forget them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past two years I've been at a college on the other side of my city, the side I had never set foot in before. It's a very tight-knit community that doesn't care for strange outlanders it seems. I tried at first, I really did. But as soon as it became apparent I did not ... (930 words)

Should I be on the lookout? Or let these memories fade?

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26 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend's ex wife recently put a picture of her and my boyfriend looking very cosy together as her facebook profile picture. They've not been together for almost two years and so I was nonplussed why she would do this. My boyfriend says the picture's from years ago, way ... (450 words)

I cheated on my girlfriend and told her. What do I do now?

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26 July 2011 (M) age 30-35 - Ok so Saturday evening we had a party and everyone got wasted. There were like 7 guys including me and 2 girls, one of which was a girlfriend of one of the guys. The other one is still single. So everyone of the guys tried to get her attention (including me) and probably... (414 words)

Are we going to last? Or are we going too fast?

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26 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there i am 20 yrs old 21 in novemebr and i going out with a guy in who is 25 he is in the army he broke up with his pregant eex to be with me. we are together nearly a yr now and i just want to no will we last or are we going to fast. i have been on three hols with him (f... (160 words)