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Help me out of the 'friend zone'!

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5 July 2011 (F age 22-25 - The guy I like I have known for around eight years, our parents are best friends and I have practically grown up with him. I have really strong feelings for him but i'm worried that he only thinks of me as a friend, help me get out of the friend zone? Also, I don't get to see ... (90 words

How do I get this puppy back without hurting my roommate's feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

5 July 2011 (? age 26-29 - So my boyfriend found a puppy on the side of the road, and he took him home, until we found find him a home! I immediantly started calling family members. I asked my grandmother (who just lost a dog, and was kinda looking for another one...but wasn't really seriously looking.), ... (227 words

Lack of friends or companionship is affecting my art!

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5 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - I'm a freelance comic book artist. I graduated college seveal months ago and had to move back in with my mom and aunt. They live next to highschool so there is no o e around here my age and all my friends have either moved away, working, or they're dating and leaves not much ... (294 words

Normal or not normal to make no noise during sex?

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5 July 2011 (M age 26-29 - hi me and my girlfriend had sex not that long ago and I know it's normal for a girl to make noise during sex but she didn't like that I didn't. And I was wonder if it isn't normal for a guy not to make noise when he is having sex. or is that a normal thing? ... (59 words

Long distance relationship? Or just a friend?

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5 July 2011 (F age 18-21 - well to start off . i am a 13 year old girl going on 14 , who has a tumblr and i met the guy im currently talking to down there . so .. we drew closer and closer . and now according to him we're *officially* "talking , talking" he is 16 going on 17 . well heres the problem ... (187 words

He's got a girlfriend but shows signs he likes me!

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5 July 2011 (F age 18-21 - ok i have a boy at school who always looks at me and shows many signs that shows that he likes me , but then he got a girlfriend but yet he keeps looking at me and he still shows a lot of signs that prove that he likes me but im really confused and he's always walking with his ... (74 words

I don't know why I'm getting the cold shoulder from my friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi just wanted some advice really, a friend of mine who ive known since i was 17 seems to be giving me the cold shoulder. She has lived in Spain for the past 8 years and we have kept contact via phone and e-mails. Lately she doesn't seem to bother and when i have phoned her ... (547 words

Should I email my ex back or ignore him?

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5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - Why is he doing this? should I even speak to him agin? I love my ex boyfriend so much but he dumped me saying he doesn't want a relationship. A few week later he asked to be friends but I said I still loved him and can't be just friends. 5weeks later we spoke again,... (163 words

Was he doing it to really hurt himself? Do people do that? I know why most men do that and its not this reason, but instead for sexual pleasure.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2596 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. As far as many things go, our life together has been great. Since I met him, I just knew he was my soul mate and things were just so perfect with him. I cannot begin to tell you how great things were for the first ... (1399 words

Not ready to be a mom but also won't consider abortion! My boyfriend is an alcoholic and my family is extremely religious. Help!

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5 July 2011 (F age 22-25 - ok so if you have been keeping up with my other questions you will know the whole story but if not i will make it a 'long story cut short' ok so i am in a lets just say 'rocky' relationship and i have now wound up pregnant. i have just turned 19 so in my oponion i am waa... (197 words

After meeting my long-distance love, I found I wasn't sexually attracted to her at all. Now, how do I disengage from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

5 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - Well in previous questions i addressed issues that i had with my long distance girlfriend and had ended it all. She later came around talking about compromising and resolving all of our issues and we started up again and it went great. So we decided that we would meet up ... (429 words

Pregnant and want to move in with him. How do I tell my mom?

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5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - ok so my boyfriend and i have been together 4 months and everything is amazing. we are both 19. and we keep talking about me moving into his house and i want to do it, but i dont know how to tell my mom. the big thing is though that i'm pregnant. we just found out about 2 weeks ... (106 words

Once I've orgasmed, I simply cannot continue!

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5 July 2011 (F age 22-25 - ok so i am a lesbian and i am in a relationship with obviously a female and we have been sleeping together for over two years now. Our sex is like beyond awesome and i could not fault it only i'm the problem. Once i have orgasmed i simply cannot coninue. Its not that i dont ... (185 words

I simply cannot see him stepping up to the plate and being a man.

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5 July 2011 (F age 22-25 - About eight months ago, I met a guy on facebook. We chatted, started talking on the phone, and eventually decided to meet. So I drove to his house (Which is convienent because he lives about three miles away) to meet him and he asked me to be his girlfriend within a few minutes ... (480 words

Almost 25 year old guy.... never ever had a girlfriend.

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5 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - I'm turning 25 in a couple of months and have finished university, seeking a career in the business/IT consulting field. Never had a girlfriend in my entire life, no girl has ever been interested in me and have come up empty all the time. To be honest..... I'm not exactly sure ... (493 words

What can I say to get a conversation going?

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5 July 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I'm a 29 year old male and a bit shy. I've always been described as the tall dark and handsome type and haven't really had much difficulty having a girlfriend or anything. Like I said though, I'm a bit shy. It's only at first. Once a conversation gets going, I'm ... (429 words

A dreamer and a realist, high sex drive and low sex drive. Can this relationship survive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm having a problem as of late. I've been with my current GF for almost two years now (we are going to Amsterdam for our two year anniversary in May) but I feel all emotions have gone from my part. We are in a long distance relationship (i'm currently in uni and she works full ... (996 words

Feeling guilt about imagining sex with my ex-girlfriend's best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2590 days ago

5 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - Few weeks back, I masturbated while imagining sex with my ex-girlfriend's best friend and I did that for like two consecutive days . Afterwards and now I am feeling guilty for having done that stupid thing as she used to give me so much respect. What should I do now to get ... (82 words

My boyfriend tries to make me jealous by talking about his female friends!

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5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - From time to time my boyfriend tries to make me jealous by talking about his female friends. Being a very sociable person he's often out and about with someone or other; to be fair he hangs with the guys more than the girls, but when he's met another woman for a drink or coffee ... (213 words

Him or them?

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5 July 2011 (F age 41-50 - Help. I'm in a real dilemma - I've been seeing a man I really care for - he's a bit of a jack the lad and can be unreliable at times, but I love and care for him all the same! The thing is - my parents are very against the relationship (as he had a bad reputation) and now they... (135 words

I feel so uncomfortable when he is looking at me!

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5 July 2011 (F age 18-21 - I'm 14 years old. I'm a buddhist and I'm going for a temple for Sunday school. In the morning everybody have to worship Buddha. Oneday when I was worshiping I saw a boy looking at me through a window.I thought maybe he's looking at somebody else. But the next day also I saw ... (151 words

Can you fall in love with someone you've never met?

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5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - As the title says, do you think you can fall in love with someone you've never met? Or have you?... (20 words

Sore throat after blow job?

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5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for a just over a year now but have only started giving him blow jobs recently. I always get a sore throat the next morning, and it lasts for a few days and then goes away. Is this anything to worry about? He's the only person I've ever s... (131 words

I'm a virgin and I don't want to send mix sex signals to my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 22-25 - This guy and I have had feelings for eachother for four months now, and we're very very attracted to eachother. Were both 18.. and I was wondering if its all moving too fast and how I should handle the situation. I was at his house last night and we were cuddling and kissing on ... (259 words

How to break up with someone I love?

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5 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - Been in a relationship for 4 and a half years now. I love my bf because he is everything I want in a man. Only problem is he won't have sex with me yet. He wants me to be patient til his paranoia of pregnancy goes away. But it's not fair to me to please him in other ways while ... (161 words

Is this girl messing my mates about or is she interested in all three?

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5 July 2011 (M age 26-29 - Someone please explain is this girl messing my best mates about, or actually interested in all three of them? I want to know she's not toying with them like some girls do. She's my mate also and is a really nice girl, we went to college together and during this time two of... (198 words

I haven't been enjoying being with my gf as much and its putting doubts in my mind!

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5 July 2011 (M age 22-25 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years now but i dont live with her but lately in the last couple of moths i havent been enjoying being with her as much in the last couple of months. Which has put doubts in my mind. And recently i have been finding myself t... (120 words

Should I keep the guy...or the self-centred friend?

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5 July 2011 (F age 18-21 - I have known my best friend for about 3 years now. About 10 months ago she began dating a guy that we have both been friends with for a while. They recently broke up, and about a week later she began seeing another guy. At the same time, her ex (my friend) asked me if I... (317 words

I have never gone further than kissing....and feel really inexperienced!

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5 July 2011 (M age 22-25 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for awhile and just kissing and stuff and recently she told me she has done foreplay before and I have never done anything but kissing. I feel really inexperienced and a little nervous because she said she might do something and I have no ... (62 words

I don't think my bf is cheating but why was she so awkward?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - I've been dating a guy for nearly a year. We were casual for the first 6 months, both dating other people while we dated each other. About 6 months ago, we started dating more exclusive. During the first few months of commitment, I was sceptical about his commitment. I mostly ... (466 words

I really cant trust my boyfriend....should we be together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hi. Thank you for reading. I’ve been with my boyfriend for several months and I just feel like I can’t trust him. I don’t believe him when he tells me he loves me. This isn’t helped by the fact he says things without thinking, things that really upset and then I obsess o... (167 words

How can I get my friends to stop laughing about me, and how can I make my romantic feelings for my teacher go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2601 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 22-25 - I need help, so bad! Okay, so here's my story, and I'm sorry if it's really long, but it's a really complicated thing! I have a... I would say crush, but it feels like so much more than that, on my teacher. I'm 17 years old, doing my A Levels, and he's my teacher for my f... (401 words

Care package ideas for my LDR boyfriend?

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5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - I've been in a LDR with my boyfriend for about 15 months now. I got to see him last week and I've been in an extra lovey-dovey mood since soooo I decided to surprise him with a care package in the mail, but I'm lost for ideas. I've searched the internet for help but haven't ... (390 words

I took him back after all he has done to me, but he wasnt even concerned when my grandmother died!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles. Okay, yesterday my grandmother passed away. Let me start from the beginning. My boyfriend and i been together for 2 years and 5 months now. He has cheated multiples of times, mistreats me, lies, basically he needs to grow up. Okay, the other ... (462 words

Why is my husband getting into new things in the bedroom? Is he getting bored with our sex life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - I am a 31 year old woman. I am the one who wrote about a week ago about her husband wanting a striptease (from me) for his birthday. This has not happened yet as his birthday is next weekend. We were having sex on Saturday about which I still get hot now just thinking ab... (246 words

My wife tells me she loves me but is not in love with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2599 days ago

5 July 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hello everyone this is my first time on here and thank everyone for any advice you can give me? Almost 2 months ago my wife of 10 years wakes me in the middle of the night to tell me she loves me but not in love with me, we have been together for 15 years married 10 years ha... (520 words

Should I ask her out or wait a while?

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5 July 2011 (M age 26-29 - So here's my situation: I've been single for about 6 months now, the problem is, I've never gone on a "blind date" before because for the last 5 years I've only been in relationships. I'm kind of a shy person and it's hard for me to talk to a woman because I never know what ... (163 words

What should I do about my crush on my teacher? I don't want my mom to find out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 18-21 - We had a young foreign teacher in our school. He's 12 years older than me. He didn't teach us. But everyday I went and talked with himHe's so handsome and smart. He came to our house for dinners and in the tea times.we are family friends. Even he didn't teach us when we have ... (193 words

He asked to be friends with benefits: Should I drop him as a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm in the middle of a dilemma. I met this guy 3 months ago via an online dating site and we hit it off right away as friends. During the time, he was relocating from his home state to Atlanta to start anew with his father who just bought a home here, and I was ... (417 words

Why is she so mean to me? Is she just jealous because she likes the same guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2603 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - This girl confessed to me of liking the same guy though he doesn't know and considers her as a friend. The guy and I went on dates though we weren't officially gf/bf. We got into a huge fight and aren't on good terms atm. This girl came up to me and was really horrible and ... (253 words

He wants to have sex with the lights on but I am insecure about my body! Help!

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5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m My boyfriend took my virginity roughly 2 weeks ago, and since then we have been sharing whilst cuddling one night things we would like to try/different places we could go/ what turns us on. he mentioned that it would be a huge turn on for... (223 words

Has she put me in the friend zone? And was her comment a sign that she wants something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

5 July 2011 (M age 26-29 - Alright this is kind of a 2 part question, so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my problem, for most of the school ... (360 words

Boyfriend won't stop flirting with random women online. Am I overreacting?

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5 July 2011 (F age 22-25 - I'm in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend and I mostly keep in touch by email. I'm not on Facebook or Myspace, but my boyfriend is, and when I've looked at his pages on those sites it seems he is always finding random chicks neither of us know and commenting on their ... (203 words

Did I make the right decison to take a break from her and focus on my studies?

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5 July 2011 (M age 26-29 - hi,i ve been in a relationship for the past one and a half years.. am in my prefinal year of my ug course right now,am my parents eldest son and my dad is getting retired next year so i am expected to be getting a job as soon as i finish my ug course.. now coming to my ... (200 words

Is it just my husband that behaves this way? Or does a childless spouse always come last?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 41-50 - To anybody who is remarried: Do you treat your spouse, who is not the mother/father of your children, as someone of equal importance (not more, just equal) to your offspring or do the always get pushed into second, third or last place? Do you change plans without consulting ... (299 words

She cheated on me, then broke up with me and started a new relationship....but now she wants to come back! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

5 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - My galfrend confessed that she slept with another man. I forgave her. But she insisted to break up... Two weeks later i discovered she is having another relationship. Now she is calling,she want 2 come back. I dont trust her any more. What do you think i should do?... (49 words

Finding it hard to trust him after only 2 weeks!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - i'm starting a new relationship, we have been together only for 2 weeks and i'm really starting to have feelings for him. But the thing is that i am finding really hard to trust him. I don't think he's a cheater or anything but things have been a little too easy to be true. And ... (450 words

Boyfriend is more excited to meet his female friends rather than work on his current relationship.....

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5 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - If your bf got excited to see and meet up with his close female friends from college and things weren't going too great with your relationship, money was overly tight, you were living together and you were carrying him along on your wage until he got work - would that be a ... (401 words

Could the antibiotics have an effect on previously taken pills, or does it really only affect the pills I take afterwards?

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5 July 2011 (F age 22-25 - Hello agony aunts and uncles out there, So I slept with my partner without using a condom, because I'm on the pill. (We were both just recently checked on STD and such in order to be able to do so..) That was the 1st/2nd July (night/morning), being the 8th/9... (253 words

He says he's not ready for a relationship - is this just an excuse? Should I wait for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi everyone i was just wondering what to do about this situation. i met a man at the beggining of the year, i really like him he has been very hurt before and says he,s not ready for another relationship yet. should i wait for him until he is ready and do you think this is the ... (72 words

She told me I'm like a brother and I irritate her! Can I salvage this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2604 days ago

5 July 2011 (M age 26-29 - I've been talking to this woman for 6 months or so, what I had intended to be a friendship turned into something more. I started talking to her online and for a while it was fun. After 3 months go by I realized that I was falling in love, after that I found out it was mutual. ... (456 words

How can I get rid of these feelings for my boyfirend's friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2604 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - This is going to be long so bare with me! I've been with my current boyfriend for about 1 year 4 months. At first he wasn't very caring and tended to be very selfish, it took him 6 months to say 'love you' he never says 'I love you'. He's been on holiday 3 times with his m... (302 words

Unrequited love.........

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5 July 2011 (F age 22-25 - Does anyone have any stories or experienced where they were/are in love with someone, and even if that person was/is interested, he/she was/is in love with someone else?... (28 words

I'm feeling emotional. Last week I had a miscarriage. So why is he not supporting me and still watching porn?

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5 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I need some advice on how to stop feeling angry with my bf and to understand his actions. We've been together 9 months, and a few weeks ago, we found out we had an unplanned pregnancy of 7 weeks. We spent a lot of time trying to decide whether to keep the baby or not, and ... (250 words

Am I being stalked, and if so, should I move?

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5 July 2011 (M age 41-50 - Last April my girlfriend and I split amicably after 9 years. The last few had been very rocky. I lived with a friend for a while then, bought a flat which I've been doing up in a very small quiet road. Finally finished it and the garden (which was like a jungle) last ... (647 words

What do I do? I am head over heels in love with him. But he dumped me as I cannot have more children

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

5 July 2011 (F age 41-50 - what do i do when i am head over heels with someone and after two months of getting somewhere with me he dumps me because i cannot have any more children? Would this be a deal breaker for some men? How do I handle this?... (45 words

Do you think he could like me?

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5 July 2011 (F - there was a guy i knew from grammar school and now i am 26..i think a few years ago we may have liked each other..we hung out once to catch up but then i think he wound up in a relationship with another girl from the same school. I met someone as well. I have been single for ... (732 words

I believe he is in love with me as well but is unable to cope with the idea

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5 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - Writing this has taken some time; so, thank you for giving the time to read and try to comment. Your help is much needed and appreciated. It all started a year ago. I started having a thing for this younger guy (both of us guys) and sensed that he was having a thing for me t... (640 words

My girlfriend of 19 years doesn't ever want to have sex. Should I leave her?

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5 July 2011 (M age 41-50 - I met my girlfriend 19 years ago. You might think that's a lot time for a woman to remain a girlfriend, but the primary reason I never married her is that we have not have had a sex life since about Year Two. I have told her several times that I love her, but that sex needs to... (644 words

Condom questions....

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5 July 2011 (M age 26-29 - hi this is a slightly embarrassing question but I would like to know the answer. I'm a virgin and my girlfriend has been wanting to do it for some time and so do I but something ocurred to me, that I'm a little worried about. Say you are having sex and you're wearing a condom ... (134 words

He never called me so I'm hoping he doesn't bother now, should I just change my phone number?

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5 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - He said he would call and I haven't called him in over a week. He still hasn't called. Do you think he is going to call? I'm over him now but I wonder if I don't want to hear from him should I just change my phone number? I don't want him to call but I was just wandering if you ... (98 words

What is going on in this guy's head?

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5 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - I would love to know what is going through this guys head. Him and i kinda had a thing before and then it basically stopped cuz he didnt seem like he had wanted anything. So then i moved on with someone else and been happy. I been seeing him at the bar every now and then and he ... (411 words

What's the difference?

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5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - What is the differences if a women does something that a man would do? For example if lets say a women were to look at man (or women) and think "man what i would do to get a peice of that" The women would be critzied right? But if a man were to think that its ok? Wh... (69 words

Should I play hard to get?

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5 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - back in feb i started to like this guy who i was working with. sad thing is i moved away after i started liking him him and i stayed in touch and we started heavy flirting thru text messages almost everyday. Iv grown to really like this guy over the last few months and i told... (846 words

What should I do? Is this truly normal to be confused about one's feelings after a year together?

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5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - I was wondering if anyone could help me out. I have a boyfriend who's 20 and i'm 19. We have been together for a year and for my 1 year anniversary gift he got me a gorgeous ring that i really love. He said it was a promise ring to me that we will get married one day. But the ... (295 words

These Long Term Crush situations are confusing me. How can I find a girl who really cares for me?

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5 July 2011 (M age 18-21 - Well, i'm 14 and i've been in love with a girl for ages and this year i declared to her, but after two months (wish we were not in a relationship) she said by facebook she didn't liked me. However, in the middle of those two months, my best friend wish lives half world away ... (188 words

I really want to leave but I don't have anywhere to go!

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5 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - i,m living with this guy who i,v known for about 10 years and any way when i moved in every thing was fine.until he stared drinking and doing drugs and i really want to leave but i dont have any where else to go and its not like he drinks every night but when he dose he turns ... (127 words

How do I survive going to college far from home? Any tips appreciated please

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5 July 2011 (M age 22-25 - I live in one state and I wanna go to school in one of two far off states. They are about 8 hours away from home. But I'm nervous about being alone and how will I survive because I can't travel back and fourth all the time. But these are the schools I wanna go to because ... (135 words

Does he still want me?

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5 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - i have a lot to say. 8 mouths ago my boyfriend broke up with me because i cheated on him. and then he ran in to his ex and told her that she could move in . long story short . so any way we would still see each other . every now and then . i finely told him that i wanted to ... (283 words

He only tells people that I'm just his friend, never his GirlFriend. Is he playing me?

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5 July 2011 (F age 22-25 - How can i tell if he's cheating on me, he doesn't want people to know we're dating, and when he's with me and he's on the phone, he says oh that's jus my "friend" he never calls me his GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!!!!! What do i do, i need help plz...i want this to work but not if he's... (60 words

I feel like I'm missing out, knowing that he has had 12 partners before me!

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5 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - ok heres my story... im a 22 year old female and my boyfriend is 24 years old. he is my first EVERYTHING (i lost my virginity to him at 22 by the way). and i recently found out by him that he has been with 12 other girls before me. i already knew he was promiscuous before i ... (356 words

Should I come clean to my boyfriend?

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Do you think he never cared?

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5 July 2011 (F age 22-25 - My boyfriend and i been arguing a lot lately, he said he wanted a break and i said no, i don't believe in being an option. i said it was over n i wish him the best. we both hung up after. he hasn't called or text me since. its been two days. we dated for 27 months. i deleted my ... (172 words

He's always too depressed to have sex!

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5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I are 22 years old. Weve been together for about 5 years now. in the last 6-8 months he hasnt wanted to have sex... at all. The last time we tried was about a month ago, and his friend knocked on the front door so we stopped. We used to have sex a few times a ... (173 words

He told me that sometimes he hates that I wasn't a virgin!

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5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - I have a problem, i had lost my virginity a few years ago which was the biggest mistake of my life well i hadnt let my self date since then nine months ago i met my current bf i had told him everything that i had been through since he was still a virgin i wanted to be honest if ... (147 words

I like this boy and can't get him to notice me!

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5 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - Well I like this boy and I can't seem to get him to notice me .. I have his number and the first day we texted and it was good but as time passed I try to text him but he's barley replys.. We don't know eachother like that but I have a crush and i don't know what to do. I'm ... (91 words

I feel used by my best friend and flatmate!

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