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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I think I'm a lesbian but I'm not sure. I feel like once I know I'm a lesbian, I'll feel a lot more comfortable than I am right now (know as bicurious). So let me tell you a little bit about myself and help me come to a conclusion one way or another :)I'm 13. I liked boys a lot throughout the first part of puberty. But around 6 months ago I've gradually switched my gender preference. Now, I can't imagine myself ever being in love with a guy, want to be with girls, fantasize (not extensively) about girls, and crush on girls. Sure, boys are cute and all but they're kinda just watever. I have little to no interest towards them, except some of my best friends are boys. Please don't say that Im too young to know or have a pretty good idea of what my sexual orientation is, because it's feels like I'm being discouraged from being a lesbian. And please don't say I can be whoever I want to be because I really just need some outside advice or responses.Thanks you guys you've helped me so much in the past :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2011): Right now you're probably a lesbian. But there are some bisexuals who switch back and forth liking guys, then girls, then guys again, but since you're just "whatever" about guys, lesbian seems most likely ^_^
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reader, lovelive +, writes (18 July 2011):
Well honestly when I was about ur age I felt the same way. But did not know what was going on so I stayed with my boyfriend. Now days its a little easer to come out. U should try things when u get older and see what ur more into. But having a girlfriend now is ok as long as ur not doing adult things. Friends r the best thing to have @ ur age. Hope this helps. Much love
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