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Did he demonstrate that he will never be able to move on?

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19 July 2011 (F age 51-59 - This is a 9 month journey of now would be horrid turmoil. I met a man online through a date site. He had divorced on his profile, mine separated. He mentioned his children, I mine. He mentioned non drinking, non smoking, no drugs. I as well. We emailed for a month, sense o... (802 words

How do I ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 26-29 - I like this girl and I'm pretty sure she likes me but I have never had a girlfriend before so I son't know how to do this. How do I ask her if she wants to be my girlfriend? She is a neighbor so I see her often and she sometimes comes at my house with other neighbors and we've ... (117 words

Should I marry someone that I know has cheated more than once?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3125 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - I am 25 years old and engaged to be married. I have been with my fiance for about 4 and a half years and we have a 3 year old child together. About 9 to 10 months ago I found out he was cheating on me. I don't think the relationship was at a physical point yet but I think it ... (173 words

Are her compliments just friendly or does she like me?

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19 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - So next week I'm going to stay at my nan's for the week, who lives by the beach, and I'm going with one of my best female friends. I'm not gay, though there is nothing wrong with it. However, me and my friend has always sort of flirted with eachother, like she puts her hand on ... (145 words

Is there any way to get over jealousy over my wife's sexual partners?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 51-59 - I am 46 years old. My wife is 37. About six months ago, we were doing a book together called "All About Me", as a way to build intimacy. Unfortunately what the book did was practically ruin my life. A portion of the book asked what our number of sexual partners has been. In my ... (251 words

Girls say they don't like me in "that way"

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19 July 2011 (M age 26-29 - I really miss being in a relationship and I just want a girlfriend again, but no one ever seems to like me in that way and if they have they tell me like 2 years later. The girls I like always say they don't like me that way so how do I go about not getting rejected, being ... (68 words

Can you teach someone to communicate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 36-40 - so right here it is in a nutshell. I have been dating this girl, she's apples, really a sweetheart, very very pretty, charming, the whole lot. problem is---she cannot communicate. when she is upset, she shuts down and wont talk. wont tell whats botherin her, or how i can... (234 words

Boyfriend punching things because he couldn't find his wallet. Is this emotional abuse?

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19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hiya lovlies last weekend my bf and I planned a last minute roadtrip to his home town, he picked me up and we had to go to his place as he thought he left his wallet back at home. We got to his house, searched the whole place and could not find it, he started to get frustrate... (234 words

Does she want to try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - well my girlfriend left me and we were only together 3 months and the reason she Told me she left because she did not love me as I loved her but she said she did not want to lose our friendship and now we are friends and we talk like always and I said okay we will make friends ... (196 words

My girlfriend gets emotional when talking about work, which irritates me

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19 July 2011 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend will work herself up into a hurricane of emotions when talking about anything work related. These conversations are completely one-sided. I try to add to the conversation or ask questions on the topic at hand to try to stay engaged but it's nearly always just her ... (128 words

How can I ask her out and word it like its not a date but hints at being a date?

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19 July 2011 (M age 36-40 - We're friends but I like her, I can't tell her just yet though because we work (retail) together and it can make the situation very awkward. We've hung out alone twice before and I feel like every time progress has been made, I think she may like me. I want to ask her to... (187 words

He said it was "unofficial," what does that mean?

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19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - he said it was "unofficial" and i don't know what thats supposed to mean,i want to ask him about it but i don't want to make it awkward between us or make him feel pressured. we joke around all the time about getting married and he asks me if there is anything i want because he ... (132 words

I know I need counseling to end the affair, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 51-59 - Dear cupid, I cannot cut off my relationship w/ this man whom I'm having an affair for 9 months now. I started seeing him back n nov of 2010 then worst of all the wife got pregnant n jan of this year. I am a married woman myself and not proud of what I've done...I know now that ... (107 words

Is there some way of solving this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

19 July 2011 (? age 30-35 - my nipples are huge. they are about 6cm across and they come out at 2 cm, 4 when aroused. i have small boobs anyway and it looks ridiculous. ive only found out theyre weird cause i have recently seen some of my friends boobs and there nipples are normal. The guys who have seen ... (86 words

How can I build up confidence in the bedroom. I feel I am useless!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi everybody, I have a problem with my sexlife! I don't know whats wrong with me and I am too embarrassed to ask my friends for advice and tips. Basically I have had 3 serious relationships 5 years, 2 years and 1 year. First relationship I was quite young and I wasn't really t... (231 words

Did I do the right thing in letting my husband go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 51-59 - Husband and I shared 11 years before we married in 2000, giving us 21. He was a social butterfly always needing to be around people. For the past 18 years he did make all decisions, took control of everything, he was the type needing to be in control. I was busy trying to be ... (1005 words

Is it domestic abuse if my husband yells at me? my kids and I get very upset by it.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 41-50 - From the outside, my life seems perfect. I am in my late 30's and have been married for 15 plus years. My husband and myself have advanced degrees, demanding careers, and 2 beautiful children. I am just wondering if it is verbal abuse if my husband yells and screams at my ... (187 words

How do I deal with my friends who delve too much into my personal life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 41-50 - I have a friend of mine that I can talk to anything about, but I can't stand talking to him about my sexual past with women. Whether it be from a simple kiss, to sleeping with someone. He asks more questions and gets into detail and kind of has a history of not running his ... (276 words

Is there a chance things will work out in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hi everyone. My girlfriend and I of 1 year and 3 months recently broke it off a couple days ago. She is 23 and I am 26 years old. She initiated the breakup, and although a lot of emotions were shown from the both of us, it was very mutual and I did my best to take it well. W... (610 words

She had sex with her ex and took her daughter with her and I am concerned about the child...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 36-40 - My ex gf and I broke up 3 weeks ago.She has a 3 and a half year old daughter,which i took as my own,because ive been with her since she was born,she took me as her father. I helped her with everything,bought nappies etc,i supported her with everything,because she didnt always ... (504 words

How do I get over wanting to compete with my straight-A girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hi there. So I've got a relationship problem. My girlfriend is a straight A student. She gets A's for all her subjects and this really gets to me because I am a B and C student. While I know my marks are good,it still gets to me. I turn it into a type of competition and I try ... (148 words

I feel like he's bringing things he's seen in porn into our bedroom

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 51-59 - I'm getting concerned. I feel my boyfriends' porn viewing is coming into our bedroom. On one hand, we have this amazing sex life, but on the other, I am noticing more and more that its taking a LOT to get him off, if he does at all. He does not pressure me to do anything, ... (443 words

We're about to part for the summer -- how do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - ok i really like this boy and ive liked him for like a year basically. without really have much contact with him, he knows who i am and were had short convosations in the past and im in a lot of his classes. i watch him looking at me a lot. and anyways basically we break up for ... (116 words

Why does my BF go quiet after we have seen each other and are getting closer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 51-59 - Dear all, Please help. I have been seeing my bf for around four months. We have got closer than ever recently, but I have found that when we spend some nice quality time together and he is loving and caring, he throws a spanner in the works a few days later, and I don;t know... (335 words

Is it really a big deal if I have never been in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 36-40 - Why do women make its such a big deal, if you've never been in a relationship? (girls is it a red flag or what? and how is it a red flag, i mean if somebody hasnt been through a intimate relationship, does that make it a no go?) ive honestly been in one short relationship, ... (122 words

She said its over, so why does she want to remain in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend, who I'd been living with for the past three and a half years, broke up with me two and a half months ago due to problems we had been having. The sex had been more or less none existent for a year and a half (once a month on average) but not for a lack of will or ... (877 words

Is it worth going after a man who is very popular with women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - Is it worth going after a guy who is very attractive, and who a lot of girls fancy ?. This guy seems interested in me. I think he is very attractive, but i've noticed from his facebook page that a lot of girls find him attractive. They post comments about his photos saying he ... (75 words

I think he was only after sex, but I still want to be friends with him! What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4635 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey, The other week this guy I've known for about 6 months contacted me on Facebook and asked if I wanted to hang with him. I said okay since he was pretty nice and I'd like to get to know him better but then he started asking me to have sex with him because he wanted to los... (269 words

My boyfriend is very insecure and thinks I'm going to leave him for someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles, I have a very sweet and caring bf of 2 months. We've both had bad past relationships and after going through so much, we decided to be together. Everything's been great until recently. He's constantly insecure because many guys find me pretty and he's ... (115 words

Questions on sex and pregnancy.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi all i have some questions i don't know whether its african culture or what but i saw this as important 2 me not to make an mistake. 1st how long shall we wait 2 have sex again with our partners after the baby is born especially when it was operation? 2nd if we done it be... (102 words

What is the best way to pick up a girl in a club?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hey. I'm 18 and have the simplest question ever. When I'm out clubbing, what's the best way to 'pick up' a girl? I'm not that interested in the casual sex, I want to meet someone and actually get to know them. How should I do it without getting too physical and creepy?... (52 words

Do you think you can determine how attractive you are by how attractive the people who hit on you are?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - I think that the question pretty much says it all. Do you all think that you can only be as attractive as the most attractive person that hits on you or asks you out? So if people you consider good looking ask you out, you are probably good looking as well or if only people you ... (118 words

Is there a nice way to tell a guy that I'm not interested in dating anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been sort of dating this guy for a bit over a month, I'm physically attracted to him but that's it. I've been away for Xmas break. He texts me every day. He seems to really like me but I don't feel the same way. Is there an easy way to let him know? He is nice so I don's ... (75 words

I still love him but he's in love with another girl. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - I've been dating a guy for 7 months, we used to have a great time. In April he told me that he was with a girl he met 2 weeks ago, and he also said that it was a joke, nothing sirious. Two weeks after that he told me that he's in love with his best friend and she's also in love ... (122 words

I havent spoken to my boyfriend since May! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend is ignoring me he actually went to the extent of blocking me from his facebook account he doesnt call nor txt nor email he is just silent we didnt break up he turn up when he make an appointment to see me and after all this im also reluctant to ask him i just ign... (178 words

My girlfriend falls asleep when I kiss her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 36-40 - Whenever I kiss my Girlfriend, she starts sleeping. she says she does this in utter enjoyment and I am the best French kisser of the world. Doesn't this sound kinda weird? or every girl does this? I would appreciate if you people could say something about this one. Thank ... (56 words

Boyfriend ignored me for 3-4 months then wanted to discuss marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - l was in love with my boy friend for 8months and everything was well but he just started by making false appointments saying lm comming to see you but he never showed up and never gave any reasonable reason why he did so.all of a sudden he started to ignore me he didnt call ... (163 words

We want to have sex but she is too dry! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - I love my girl soo much which is tha same case with her.. Bt the problem is she is a "virgin".. Every time we try having sex she gets dry and it becomes difficult for me.. Help help? Or should i use a condom for lubrication??... (46 words

I'm worried about his lack of interests and goals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am having relationship problems, well obviously if I am asking for yalls opinions. I am in a relationship with a guy who is madly in love with me. Every girls dream right? Well wrong in my case. Don't get me wrong, I love him so much and he treats me very ... (398 words

Can our daughter's possible health problem turn-off my wife's feelings for me and depress her?

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19 July 2011 (M age 41-50 - Me and my wife married for 10 years, have two kids. Latelly we have observed that our 5 years old daughter have some socilal adoptive problem. She doesn't follow social rules. She doesn't like to play with kids, doesn't follow the reules in class. But she is doing well ... (265 words

I think I've found the one. Need some post first date advice

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - So i met this girl after a concert and we've had each other's numbers for over 3 weeks and after asking her 3 times to hang out, i finally give up. about a week later she texts me when i woke up before she even started her day. she get's drunk later and asks to hang out. ... (182 words

My boyfriend doesn't seem to care much about my feelings and always says that I'm "overreacting"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4637 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 1/2 years now. For the most part, it has been a long distance relationship, but we see each other every time we can and I am sure that he's faithful. The problem is that he doesn't seem to care much about my feelings. When we talk on the ... (292 words

My is ex is threatening to come to my house and take my son! What should I do?

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19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - so i just found out that my sons father is back! apparently his new girl just had his baby. he keeps saying he's gonna come see my son. he didnt want my baby he walked out when my son was 1mth old. he threatened me that he was going to take my son away from me. he got deported ... (135 words

Trapped in a sexless marriage for almost 20 years, wife won't have sex and won't say why she doesn't want to. Should I leave?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 41-50 - I have been with my wife for almost 20 years now. We have had a sexless marriage for most of that time. We were arguing about it even just 1 year into the relationship. It's not that we never, ever have sex, but we go years in-between having it and when we do it is awful. W... (1262 words

Scared to give him a blow job!

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19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfrined really wants a blow job. He told me he's willing to wait for me, but I feel like I need to do it. Not because he's pressuring me, but because I'm curious and want him knowing he can come to me for pleasure and a relationship. I'm scared though..please help... (52 words

My best friend's husband is a jerk and she just doesn't see it!!

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19 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hello everyone, just want to thank u ahead of time for reading... Ok here we go.. There's 5 of us girls who we have been best friends since high school.. We've known each other since elementary.. But all of us got really close after high school.. We're all in our late 20's now... (941 words

How can I reconnect with him?

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19 July 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am willing to do whatever it takes to relate and understand the mind of my man. He has recently withdrawn, but doesnt ignore me, still seems interested. I am very curious to know how i am able to regnite or inspire emoctional attraction to reconnect, i am very confident he is ... (118 words

Does my boyfriend's ex-wife still turn him on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 51-59 - I'm in my 40's and divorced and so is my boyfriend. He and his ex have a good, civil relationship and it works really well for everyone. She's a very calm pretty rational woman and I don't get the thought like he's going to leave me for her like I did in the beginning. Very o... (207 words

I don't know if he is gay or not - do you think he likes me? What should I do about this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4633 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - I am definitely dealing with some crap. I know that others have gone through much worse, and I am not downplaying anyone else's situation, I just have no desire to do pretty much anything unless it's with Josh. Pretty much the only reason I leave my room/bed is to go to work. ... (898 words

How do I overcome being attracted to gay men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - I find myself attracted to gay men often unknowingly, most of the time I don't find out they're gay until later. I realize it's mostly because they're safer and less threatening than straight men, who I almost have a fear of. How do I overcome this? I have strong romantic ... (74 words

I keep holding onto something that hasn't been there in months, just waiting and hoping...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - well hello there. :) i'm really looking for advice. i was dating this guy for six months, and everything was going great. not only was he my boyfriend, he was my best friend. i could tell him anything, we never fought, hung out all the time, and were always happy when we we... (283 words

I am getting the feeling that he may not want me to come up.

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19 July 2011 (F age - I met this guy online last year. Not only is he 10 years younger but lives 2 hours by plane. Over the past year we have seen each other 3X and continued to chat, etc. We are planning to see each other the August Long Weekend. I am flying out to see him. Originally, he w... (265 words

I did not make these things happen. But they do affect me. How do people deal with these family pressures?

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19 July 2011 (F age 41-50 - What would you think,if your whole life got attacked by really bad fate? My life history is so tragic, nobody would eve believe it. My brother killed himself years ago, than my sister got into heroin and overdosed. Than my boyfriend died in a car accident. Than my father g... (166 words

I'm 7 months pregnant. Can our marriage survive his continuing infidelity? Why an I not enough for him?

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19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - Can this marriage survive his continuing infidelity? i recently got married two months ago, me and my husband decided to after we found out i was pregnant im 7 months along now. we originally live in one arab country and had to get married in a different arab country as I wa... (312 words

Choices. Can't decide between two perfect men. What do I base my decision to choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've noticed that other women on this forum have gone through or are going through a similar situation to mine. However, mine is a slight variation and the advice to the others didn't really apply. Here's my situation: I just recently broke off an engagment to an abusive ma... (328 words

Should I just stay patient, until they break up? She's with my friend. I had my chance but left it too late to try

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (M age 26-29 - hi guys i recently asked for help on getting closer to this girl who i like. But i found out yesterday from my friend who i respect and i think hes a nice guy that he goes out with her and he even told me he loves her a lot! How am i supposed to feel? at first i felt betr... (169 words

Is this best option? Am I wrong in now not wanting to attend my son's wedding after all the humiliation he has put me through?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 51-59 - I recently split up with my partner of 7 years. I've kept myself busy with preparations of my sons wedding in 2 weeks.It has stopped me from mourning my loss, and helped me fight the tears and pain that are tearing me up inside. I loved my partner of 7 years, so deeply in every ... (388 words

There's no spark. Can we save this relationship? Everything we try seems to not work

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19 July 2011 (M age 30-35 - I could really do with some advice... My fiancee and I have been together for a year and 3 months and engaged nearly 7 and it feels as if the 'spark' has gone from our relationship. I suffer from Clinical Depression which has caused strain on our relationship in the past but ... (187 words

He says he still loves me. Can I trust my ex after he cheated with hookers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 41-50 - I recently broke up with my ex two months ago because I found out he was sleeping with hookers when he was working away. He's now back at home and wants to start over again. I love him dearly but he broke my heart. He says he is still in love with me.I met a new guy two weeks ... (82 words

What can I do? I have met a lovely new guy. But my ex still has a place in my heart, despite his cheating

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19 July 2011 (F age 41-50 - I'm in love with my ex boyfriend who wants us to get back together. He cheated on me with Hookers but says he is still in love with me. I have met a new guy and he is lovely but my heart still longs for my ex. Can I truely trust my ex. again... (54 words

I don't want this but I have feelings for her!

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19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have a like a friend who is straight and now is trying to become a solid christian. I've liked her alot as more than a friend for going on 2 years and I've tried to distance myself. Honestly, we both have because I think she knows somewhat. So, we won't hang out or she won't ... (194 words

Is there something wrong with my mother?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

19 July 2011 (? age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I have a issue with my mother......I'm 18 and I recently moved out. My mom is seriously crazy as in mentally ill and I'm trying to figure out what is wrong with her! hopefully you guys can help out and tell me what she has and if she needs prozac or ... (641 words

We got back together, but how long will it last?

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19 July 2011 (F age 26-29 - Thanx for the advice guys, but on Tuesday me an my ex got back together. I guess he really did miss me, but how can I tell how long it will last? The last few times its been a month, but we really missed each other, spent the whole night cuddling in my bed, and then some, and I ... (82 words

Do guys care if their girlfriend is taller than them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been talking to this guy my friend introduced to me too online for quite awhile and he's going to be in my area soon soon so we're going to meet in person. I am tall, 5"10 to be exact, and I know he is about four to five inches shorter then me from pictures. I'm wo... (126 words

How do I deal with my bf's dad who controls his life?

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19 July 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4yrs. It hasn't always been easy, but it's been worth it. Thing is, his father is very controlling of him. He's now 22 and his father still controls everything he does. He's not allowed to come out with my family or even stay over at my ... (130 words

My man's kid plays with her kid, and I am worrying that the mum is coming on to my man!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hi agony aunts and uncles, i hope you can give me some advice on this problem i have, i always come to this site for advice, it might be nothing, but from a outside view you will be able to tell me if i am being silly or it needs addressing. I am in LDR been together over 2 ... (593 words

He replies to my texts but never wants to meet up. Is he really interested?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

19 July 2011 (F age 36-40 - Do you think this guy is shy, or not interested? He gave me his number, and he always replies to me when i send him a message. But he hasn't asked me to meet up with him, and the times when we were supposed to meet up, he said he didn't have a lot of money so he couldn't make ... (222 words

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