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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's very shy, how do I get his attention or make him like me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so i like this guy im not much of a player or too much of a flurt, but anywayz i like this guy hez a sorta shy guy and idk if he even likes me anymore and i wanna ask him out later later or him ask me out he alwayz looks at me at church so tht haz to be somethin' but how do ... (90 words)

He has completely changed, what should I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

2 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My story is huge but please, please read it I need help so much!! Im a gay male 19. I met my ex at the most unlikely time, I wasn't looking for anything and didn't really want it. I didn't have a physical attraction to begin with. Im 19, he was 17. He would text ... (1616 words)

My fiancee left me, no contact since, do I try to reach out to her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (M)

- My fiancé of 2.5 years broke up with me two months ago. I haven't spoken to her since. She's told me to forget her number and to move on but I really love her and we were just about to move in together. I think her responsevwas out of anger so I gave her time to cool off and ... (199 words)

I still love him, but should I move on??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I was with my boyfriend for 5 months, he was my first proper love and the guy i lost my virginity too and we were head over heels in love however, towards the end we argued all the time and due to his confusion on whether he'd want a family etc in the future if we di... (259 words)

His ex-girlfriend sends me messages, should I ignore her??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i havent been with my boyfriend for long but i received messages from his ex saying they were still together, he told me shes obsessive and he would never do that to me. i totally trust him but its still in my mind. what do i do? i dont want to push him away by not believing ... (58 words)

Does playing hard to get work and how can you do it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all can someone please answer this question does a woman playing hard to get with a man she really likes work and how should i go about it? thanks ... (33 words)

How can I please my parents and please myself?

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2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 well educated. I am graduating early and moving to another country with my parents. I dont want to move from the U.S but my parents want to and since I'm under age I listen to my parents. Now I've been to this country before I kind of like it but not that much, wh... (129 words)

Why do people smoke and drink?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do people smoke and drink and enjoy it? I know this sounds stuck up, but I honestly cannot understand how people can not only enjoy but also become addicted to this nasty-smelling, nasty-tasting, just plain foul stuff... I have been sh**-faced drunk before, but I can count ... (103 words)

I accidentally kicked a ball in my GF's face while playing football! Now she won't talk to me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

2 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Two weeks back while playing soccer, my shot on goal hit my girlfriend on face, she was standing close to goalpost, which left her in extreme pain and swelling. It was an incident and I made apology but she made issue of it and dumped saying that I did intentionally just to ... (117 words)

I have just had an abortion and would like advice on how to get over it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'm looking for your help to cope with having a termination of my pregnancy last week. I had been on the pill, and it was an unplanned pregnancy with my bf of 7 months. We spent a long time discussing it, and decided it was too soon for us to have a child (we don't live ... (258 words)

What's your opinion on a 17 year old girl dating a 22 year old guy, under the cirumstances?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - The circumstances are that they have known each other since the girl was 15 and then became close friends when the girl turned 16. Also the girl is mature about the possible relationship. What's your opinion on the age difference and chances on the relationship?... (48 words)

We never talk about the future and it really bugs me...what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Here’s some background: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and 8 months. I am 23 and he is 22. He is my first boyfriend and I am his second girlfriend. He is wonderful to me and we really try to treat each other well we have similar views about life and what we ... (373 words)

I am obsessed with thinking I am a rebound and have been diagnosed with depression....please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4678 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there. Well firstly I’d like to thank you for reading. So I’ve written asking for help on this subject before and I still don’t know what to do. It is driving me insane. I’ve been with my boyfriend for seven months, but recently I keep obsessing over the idea that I’... (460 words)

Does width really matter?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

2 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been generally comfortable with my equipment most of my life. It's a good size and I enjoy using it. :-) Lately I've learned a few things that have caused some insecurity, so I'm doing some research to get at the truth. I'm dating women in their thirties now, who are ... (453 words)

How can I make my life better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is that i have had so many bad experiences with people, especially men, that i am finding it hard to trust people, and i don't want to socialise that much. I also suffer from depression and get panic attacks sometimes, and don't have much motivation to look for a job ... (64 words)

How do I explain to my boyfriend I need to have my friends but they will never replace him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello... Its been 1 year and 4 months that me and my boyfriend have been dating, we try to keep the relationship in low lights because he 1 and a half younger then me , and our society is very judgemental and we had our trust problems but we fixed them, we love each other an... (252 words)

Why does my husband take his penis out and squeeze it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband often takes his penis out to squeeze it himself, right when he is cuming... could that mean that my vagina is not tight enough to give him a pleasurable enough orgasm, and he is getting it with his hands? We are both able to orgasm from each other without hand ... (90 words)

Why did my friends send 2 gay stripper for my birthday party?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone.. i dont know from where to start. but yesterday was my birthday so i made a party to celebrate it..it was cool and so all my friends came and had fun. but they had a lil surprise for me/ they tied me up to a chair and put like a towel on my eyes..so basicall... (190 words)

Is it ok to carry on liking somebody even if they are taken?

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2 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - If someone (A) likes someone else (B), on an extreme level and for a long amount of time, but B does not openly return their affections and shortly enters into a relationship with another person, C, is morally and/or socially "wrong" for A to continue liking B now that they are ... (67 words)

Why does g/f lie to me for no apparent reason?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

2 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so recently me and this girl started dating. we hit it off straight away and its been like 4 or 5 months now. Lately however Ive started to notice a couple of things i dont know what to do about. she'll go out and then purposely send me texts or call and stuff to saw or ... (189 words)

My bf has cheated on me and 6 months later he still can't forget the girl who he cheated with.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - First of all, I apologize for my grammatical mistake in English. I have been reading your website for a whole day and I think I really need your help. I am Thai 32 years old, my boyfriend is 23 years old british, we ‘ve known each other for 4 years and been together for mo... (1629 words)

Why do people judge other people?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm so mad. Why does the human race have to judge everyone and everything? Who cares if someone is gay or straight? Who cares if someone has a few extra pounds? Who cares if they're poor or rich? If their house got foreclosed? Who cares if the like justin bieber or if they ... (244 words)

I found gay porn on my boyfriends laptop and he is getting closer to his gay friend, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend very much but I found gay porn on his laptop a few months ago. After much talking and thinking, I decided to ignore it and I hadn't really thought about it. My boyfriend claims it was spam and had no idea why it was on there, and there was lots of strai... (616 words)

What has caused this outbreak of non-platonic love/sexual attraction?

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2 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I have a close male friend who I've known for a few years who has always told me that he views me as a friend/doesn't think a relationship between us would work/wouldn't do anything sexual with someone who a close friend as opposed to girlfriend or "one-night stand" etc. ... (521 words)

Is it wrong that I like girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I never liked guys before. I always just thought I wasn´t old enough. Recently I just finished my first year in High school. This past year I found myself liking girls, I even kissed one! None of my friends or family know. Is it wroong that I like girls, and how can i tell if ... (73 words)

Having sex with the ex after breaking up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

2 July 2011 (F) - My bf and I just ended our relationship after a yr and 1/2. We love eachother and want to stay close. Last night we were talking about sex. And if we could still do that. I am not sure I can handle that. Anyone who has experience getting back with their ex please write abo... (97 words)

How do I act around my friend now?

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2 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i dont know how to act around my friend anymore. we became good friends and have known each other 3 years. ive always been attracted to him and he made a story where he said he views me as a sister but i found that hard to believe as he has lied a lt about stuff such as he ... (220 words)

What do I do whilst giving a blow job?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 4 months are still waiting just a little while till sex, we have done lots of "foreplay" but i was wondering, when i give him a blowjob, do i do anything with my tounge? i know i should ask him what he likes, but i would like abit of advance in what i ... (64 words)

I should be happy he is gone...but I just cant stop thinking about him!

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2 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I started dating a guy 2 years after my previous long- term relationship ended and after an initial good few months things went downhill and he walked out on me recently, and although nobody actually said the words, I assumed that was the end. He did not tick all the boxes from ... (210 words)

Not knowing if she likes me or not is breaking me up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - About 3-4 months ago my college started to employ these teaching assistants who were to help with our studies and coursework that students were finding difficult and I was allocated to one myself about 2 months ago. When I first saw her I didnt pay much attention to her and ... (494 words)

Now I have met with the ex what should be my next steps?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - The meeting we had planned last sunday happened last night... he came round to my house and i made us something to eat. I was pretty nervous about the meeting but as soon as he arrived i realised i had no reason to be nervous. We had a really nice time, had laughs and jokes and ... (232 words)

Why does my ex have hobbies with his new g/f that he wouldn't try with me?

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2 July 2011 (F) age 41-50 - I'm really struggling to come to terms with things that I have found about my ex boyfriend since we split up. We were together for 2 1/2 years. I was very much in love with him, but when I started to have problems at work and became ill a few months before we broke up, he ... (354 words)

I'm afraid if I don't work on my problem that I will be alone for a very long time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i usually come to this site asking for help with my girl problems...but just the other day i got so fed up with being let down by girls so much these past few months that im just going to stop trying and focus on myself for once. But ive been so involved with finding a good ... (271 words)

I am in love with my close friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4678 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in love with a close friend for 5 years already. The problem is, she has a boyfriend and i think that this boyfriend of hers will be her last one.they look so happy i think that this will soon lead to their marriage. I am really happy for my friend and i don't want ... (95 words)

How do I tell my husband I am in love with his brother and want to be with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with my husbands brother and now my husband wants to be a woman. We have decided upon divorce as i do not want to be with a woman and he once transitioned will want to be with a man. This is apparently somthing hes supressed for 11 of 12 years of our relationship, ... (239 words)

I thought it was just for sex...but does he like me in a relationship way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this man, Jonny last September and we,ve met up twice a week since and we always have sex. I met somebody else, James and didnt see Jonny for two months. James was only using me so i split up with him and Jonny got annoyed saying can't believe you blew me out for him ... (100 words)

I know its just a crush...but how can I stop thinking about this other woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4679 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got a problem and don't know what to do about it. I'm currently in a lesbian relationship and have been for about a year now. I love my partner very much and we live together. Recently we've been going through a rough patch. We are both working different hours so don't ... (405 words)

Why does he act so strange? Are we still in love with each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, I have this issue.... my boyfriend and i were friends for two years then we started dating and after 3 months (something like that) we became officially boy and girl and after 2 months he broke up with me and after one month he talked to me and he told me that he found th... (163 words)

She hasn't been reaching her "max climax" and it's starting to make me feel bad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So me and my gf talked about our previous sex lives. I was a virgin for our first time and she was not. She told me her previous boyfriend was able to make her reach her "max climax" most of the time they did it. For me she she said that im able to make her cum multiple times ... (192 words)

Should I be concerned about his falling sex drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4678 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together two years. We started living together about 5 months ago and since then, his sex drive seems to have diminished. He was one of these "sex last thing at night, sex first thing in the morning" type of guys, so generally we'd have sex twice a ... (482 words)

I don't know if I am really ready to be a one man woman...but don't want to lose him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my guy have been together for a year and 6 months,but we had sex before then we just were hook up pals that was never serious until now so our past was rocky from the jump start, and we both messed and fooled around on each other at the beginning,but things started to ... (375 words)

I love my boyfriend but still think of the other guy and don't know what I want!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - To readers, I've been with my current bf for 4 years now on and off and during one of the times that we broke up, i was seeing a guy who i really connected with and we had a 'thing' for a few months. During that time i was still not over my ex and i was confused who to ... (390 words)

How would we know that we are sexually compatible with our partner???

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2 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How would we know that we are sexually compatible with our partner??? ... (13 words)

How can I let the anger I feel towards my cheating ex go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm trying to get over my anger towards my (now) ex, but i can't seem to. i'm so infuriated at what she did to me. The other day we had plans. She cancelled saying she had to go to bed early because she had to get up early. Something felt wrong, so i drove over there later an... (559 words)

I go to sleep crying because I think I am going to lose him. Can you help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, I really need some relationship advice here. So first off, i am 17, my boyfriend is 16, we grew up together and on March first this year we started dating and were still together. My problem is that im hoping i can get advice on is that i find my boyfriend isnt s... (364 words)

Should I lose my virginity if I am ready and if it is starting to make me insecure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

2 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am not asking this question about losing my virginity for the sake of being ''cool'' and ''popular'' becuase I am honestly an older guy who is far beyond that mindset. I am only considering losing my virginity for my own sanity and not for bragging rights and etcetera. I... (332 words)

Why can't my husband handle his money? what could be causing these problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi people, my husband and I have been married for 4 years now and I can't seem to understand him financially. I go to work and so does he. We have split house responsibilities and I always take care of my part. Thing is he asks me for money which most of the time I don't have ... (69 words)

Did he lose interest? How do I make him want me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend left for camp Monday morning. I stayed the night at his house Sunday night after he asked me to. We didn't do anything sexual and haven't gone farther than touching and making out. I'm 16, he's 17, and we've been talking for about a month 1/2 and went 'official' ... (289 words)

Is he punishing me for breaking-up with him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So... i broke up with my bf two months ago. We were together for five years, in a long distance relationship, and we had a lot of arguments; at first, he was really hurt, and so was i. I didn't want to break up with him, but i am goig through a hard time in college and with my ... (360 words)

He didnt talk to me at all about his new house...should I support him in this decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend just got a new house. He wants to go shopping to get stuff for the house, but i see no point in helping him out. He bought this house without even talking to me about it. I feel so hurt that he doesn't understand why I don't want to do anything to help him out with ... (114 words)

Why can't I find a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

2 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I am a 30 year old that have trouble finding a date or even attracting women. I hate to sound conceited but I am described as good looking, I have a good job, dress well, have my own car and place. 1, I have no idea where to look or even find a date beside the occas... (269 words)

I thought my ex had given me an STD...we are both ok but now he hates me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How could I have been so stupid:( what should I do? My ex boyfriend dumped me saying he doesn't want a relationship. Then he asks to be friends, I said I couldn't cos I love him. We went 5weeks without contact. Then a few days ago, I spotted something on my private part an... (173 words)

Is my girlfriend crossing the line with her guy friends?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

2 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I realize many people have this similar problem with a girlfriend having several guy friends, and I believe each answer is based on circumstance so that is why I'm asking about my personal situation. For the record, I've dated people in the past who have had guy friends and ... (731 words)