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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I talk to my friend's boyfriend to see if he feels the same way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - At the beginning of my sophomore year of high school I met my best friend. I've never been closer with anyone in my life, she knows everything there is to know about me. She trusts me more than anyone, and I trust her. Soon after we became friends she introduced me to her ... (167 words)

How can I get the images of what I did out of my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So the first time I met this guy I though he was cute an it turned to liking him alot. Wr spent so much time at work and outside of work together. The first time we kissed I finishined crying because I dont do that with anyone, he said he was going to respect me. Even tough ... (182 words)

I need some opinions on whether I am being used by my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I need some opinions on whether I am being used by my bf...I feel like I am at the moment, but need some perspective. We've been together 7 months, don't live together, both work shifts, full time. But I find myself feeling used by him at times. So, for example, ... (407 words)

Should I go to his party?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been invited to a surprise birthday party for a guy I have known for several years. He has had feelings for me for a long time and has often tried to tell me by asking my friends how I feel and writing me letters. I do not reciprocate his feelings in any way and do not ... (160 words)

Why do my sexual feelings subside?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I masturbate when I'm bored sometimes, I find it relaxing. When I get to an extreme point and I cum, I then have no feeling for sex or anything dealing with sex, you know how some people go for round 2. My sexual feeling goes away right after I've reached a point. Why does that ... (60 words)

Alone and pregnant???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing someone for around 2 weeks now and there is a chance i may be pregnant already, however we have used contraception each time and i am going to take a home pregnancy test tomorrow to be sure, i need to get a chance to tell him that there may be a chance of ... (108 words)

I want someone to love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hi guys... I'm a person who wasn't sure of her sexuality. Well, I only have always fantasized about a woman. Never a man. I have never been in a relationship. I haven't ever kissed anyone. In short- I'm pathetic. The place I live in is very shocked when it comes to the L word. ... (196 words)

Does he like me even though he has a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a guy friend. I met him at the start of the year and we instantly started talking. You could say it was typical fairytale love at first site. I was doing my library duty which I was told to do by the school. He came in, with a big stack of books saying, "miss wants these ... (487 words)

Reconnected, but rekindled?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - When I was in college I had a crush on a girl that I was real good friends with. I felt I wasn't good enough for her so I never pursued a relationship. As soon as we parted ways after college I lost contact with her. Now its 16 years later and I found her and find out she had a ... (147 words)

Embarrassed about online dating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Recently I met a really nice guy through online dating and I'm too embarrassed to admit it to anyone. I haven't even told anyone about him. When I go out, I tell my parents (yes I still live at home at 22. Grad students don't get paid that much) that I'm hanging out with some ... (180 words)

Do I have a right to be morally offended by the way people are reaction to my display of affection to my boyfriend over the internet???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was on facebook and posted on my wall about how happy I am and how I think i am even more in love with my boyfriend then before.. the problem is all of his friends are commenting on it and saying thinks "like how is that possiable" and "I want scientific proof" and the worst ... (141 words)

My parents have cheated on each other... Is the same thing going to happen to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok folks, this is a biggie. 7 years ago my Dad went through a mid-life crisis, during which time he was very depressed. This sparked a separation with my Mum and resulted in him cheating on her. Somehow the two managed to work things out and we continued to be a happy famil... (495 words)

He's telling people on Facebook our problems!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, If a couple is supposed to or better yet, if a couple SHOULD keep whatever happens between them, wouldn't that include not chatting about your problems to other people on Facebook? Yesterday, me and my boyfriend had several pretty small run-ins, but they weren't... (257 words)

What are the early signs of emotional abuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What are the early signs of emotional abuse? ... (8 words)

Would it bother you if your gf called you by the same pet name she called her ex-bfs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - ok maybe some of you will think this is a stupid question but it bothers me to no end somehow. this girl i have been dating for a while now has a pet name for me. the pet name is (dont laugh please) babykins. yes i am serious. anyway, when she first started calling me babyk... (206 words)

Did my hymen break again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a really really weird question and everyone I've asked doesn't have any clue! Today I had sex with my new boyfriend for the first time. I was quite sexually active with my last boyfriend so it wasn't my first time. HOWEVER, when having sex with my boyfriend today ... (310 words)

Should I meet him? Long distance relationship advice needed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have met online a guy 8 months ago. He lives in Northern Europe, me in the South (distance 2200 km). Nothing serious at first, just flirting, sharing music and photos of each other. Age difference about 20. He owns a big garden and, as I live in a big city, he said several ... (268 words)

My husband keeps taking money from our account!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out my husband took 3,000.00 from our account over the weekend and did not tell me. I found out when i went to pay my mortage of 2,800.00; there was 500.00 left in the account but he continued to use his debit card and now there is only 250.00 left in the account. ... (156 words)

I am trying to figure out how she can love me but not want to be serious...can you help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - To make a long story short my ex-girlfriend cheated on me and eventually we broke up. She dated the other guy for two month (purely about sex) then we got together and it didn't last. We ended up not talking for 7 months and recently hooked up and had sex. She always has... (230 words)

I am really starting to worry while my boyfriend is away at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Well firstly, I’m not sure if it is my insecurities that are making me feel like this, but I’m really starting to worry about my boyfriend when he goes away to work. He works on boats, which means two weeks with me and two weeks away. Well firstly he has made me feel a b... (311 words)

Scared my boyfriend's parents won't me because of my parents divorce!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf of 3 years had decided to tell his parents about me and he plans to introduce me to his family. He has already told them about me and my family situation. My parents are divorced for about 3 years now and that is a problem for his parents. They told him that everything is ... (170 words)

I think this is the best I can get out of life....what do you think??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel like i failed in my life because i never had a girlfriend. I never had one. I had a bad childhood, never had any friends at school. Only have a couple of friends now. I'm 21 now, I had spend my night watching porn, playing videogames and watching movies. It was my way t... (880 words)

My friend is texting my man telling him she likes him , how should I react to this ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) age 36-40 - I have been in a wonderful relationship with a great guy for about two and a half months. Honestly, I haven't felt this in love/loved before in my life. Sure there are little things, but everything has been wonderful until a recent issue and it has left me wondering... My f... (229 words)

Do women really enjoy having fingers in their mouths?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - A common thing in porn is for the man to put his fingers in the mouth of the woman during foreplay. I have never done this in my sex life. Is this something women enjoy? ... (39 words)

How will my Daughter react to meeting her father ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Okay so I have a two year old daughter with a man who (and yes I know this sounds trashy) I slept with for a few months and was friends with. I guess you could call it a friends with benefits situation. We were not in a relationship although I did have feelings for him. He ... (322 words)

Harassed by his ex, now she's threatening my 4 year old.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together for a 1 1/2 now and his wx wife who they have two wonderful children with happens to harrass me all the time through his cell phone, both verbel and text messages. She bi-polar and has issues!(I knew better then to give her my cell phone #) If ... (355 words)

What should I get my girl to show her I've missed her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Well, my girlfriend and I have been together for four months. She went on a road trip across the country for two months and a I haven't seen her since. She gets back in September...and I want to surprise her with something, Like a gift...but I don't know what to get her. If ... (62 words)

It started out so great, but now I'm crying and wondering if he's going to break up with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months now, my best friend and his best friend are dating, and they hooked us up because they thought we were a lot alike. He was great to me in th beginning and even drew me a yellow rose because he knows its my favorite color. We are together ... (192 words)

I don't know what I want, and I don't think he does either

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have just gone through a divorce after 16 years of marriage. I met this guy that is also going through a divorce. We started talking for a couple of months. We had a good relationship then we had a argument and things never went back to how they were. Well he told me that we ... (451 words)

How to show my ex FB what he's missing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really angry towards this guy I used to see; it was more of a casual thing and things fizzled out because I told him that I wanted to talk about our situation - if there was a future. So lesson learnt and since then I became celibate until I am in a proper, meaningful ... (275 words)

Was he after one last fling or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I have been friends since we were babies, we are both 20 now. Our mum's are best friends. When we were about 10 we realised we both liked each other and wanted to be together "some day" and had our first kiss. At 12 we tried to be girlfriend and boyfriend, ... (1109 words)

Is she over reacting to our Daughter's facebook or am I irresponsible.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my wife split up over 2 years ago. I quickly found someone new and we have been living together for over a year. My ex has always let me see my daughters every other weekend and they have been allowed to sleep over at weekends and during school holidays. I stupidl... (116 words)

My GF wants me to remove a tattoo from my chest which spells my late sister's name, because my ex had the same name, and my GF doesn't want to be reminded of my ex!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My twin sister died a few years ago in a car accident. I was really affected by her death. She wasn't just my sister but my best friend. I got a tattoo of her name on my chest so that she'll always be next to my heart. I have been seeing a girl for some time now and have... (239 words)

Ex wants me to help her with repairs around her house, and is furious because I said I would charge her for it! Does that make me a jerk?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated a girl for a while. In that time, I did a lot of things for her. One thing I did was help around her house. I am very handy and once worked for a plumber. I mowed the lawn and did repairs. We broke up two month ago. It was a bad breakup. We had not been talking ... (214 words)

Should I have sex with her sister, she won't leave me alone..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello dear cupic and agony aunt,i have a problem,am 22, my gf is 20. Let me hit d nail on its head! My gf and i were having sex in her place (d girl's room) and her elder sister (who is my age) came in and saw us. Now she wants me to have sex with her too, knowing that am ... (116 words)

I've moved on, why won't he let me be happy ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid i really need some help. Im 17 i was with my ex for about two years. Hes cheated on me twice of what i know of and almost got her pregnant. Hes verbaly and emotionaly abused me. So two or three weeks ago my bestfriend and this wonderful guy i met talked some sence ... (300 words)

Will he ever leave her for me or am I just being selfish ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I realize how this all sounds and I know the easy answer will be leave him; but I need some honesty. I have been dating a guy 10 yrs older than me for a year now. We met at work, planned to hook up once and that's it. Somehow once became twice, and so on. Now, we are in l... (282 words)

Will I change or should I just leave ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years, which is a really really long time so obviously we have been through some rough patches. But i guess the main thing is that throughout the years he became really controlling and abusive and there was a period were he used to ... (293 words)

He lies, is violent and a Gambler is there any hope left ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My bf and I met on a dating site. He came on very strong I kind of felt something was just not right with him. As our relationship continued I realized he's a compulsive liar, and addicted to gambling. We've been together 3 years, and a very turbulent 3 years. I catch h... (462 words)

What do women think of past FWBs'? Does he fade from memory? Do you just fondly remember the great sex once in a while? Do you ever miss it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm curious what women think of men in their past who they had FWB relationships and how it compares to loves in their life. I've read here many times how women almost always prefer a loving relationship to just a sexual one, but when you finally find that perfect guy or man ... (209 words)

How can I prevent her Abusing my Daughter when I'm not around ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Is she a sociopath? When I met my ex girlfriend, she was still married to her husband and they had a three years old girl at this time, now she is eight. She has call me dad and I really love her dearly. Since her husband has moved out of the residence I could move freely in ... (304 words)

How to perform Anal on him ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

11 July 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my man have been dating for 12 months now. its a great relationship and we have expressed many sexual desires. for example, we are both bi curious. however he told me something which shocked me. he told me a couple of months back that he would like me to lick his a**.... (153 words)

How can I get her to back off and stop insulting me ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - How do i defend myself against this girl who hates me? this girl is in my class and were kinda friends or i dont know, i know her crush and i don't like him in a romantic way. but he pays attention to me and he's fun so i also go along with his jokes, the thing is he treats m... (94 words)

There's something wrong when my fiance isn't coming home until dawn is breaking

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiancee for over 5 years. I love her, and couldn't imagine my life without her. That isn't to say we aren't without our problems. Our most pressing issue is that we work different schedules. I'm an attorney, and she's in the restaurant industry. Some nights, ... (222 words)

My boyfriend was staring at another woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I the only woman to think it is disrespectful for your date to be staring at other women while out on a date with you? I have never had a man do this before. Most men are smart enough to at least hide it. But my boyfriend of several years and I were out at a bar, drinking, ... (215 words)

I thought we might end up together, but he left without saying anything! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - its a long story ,but im gonna try to make it short as possible, there s a guy that i like so much,i ve liked him 4 almost 2 years ,and he likes me too ,we r both in college ,and he always sits behind me in class and tries to find any excuse to talk 2 me ,and all my friends ... (399 words)

Could there be a reason why everyone around me is blonde?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this may seem like the stupidest question every asked. and im really in no need of any dyer advice here but can some one tell me why every one and i mean every one out side of my family that i know is blond? i have brown hair for one thing but every one else including my ... (256 words)

How can I stop them calling me this nickname?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello - can anyone help with this please? It may seem so stupid but..two of my boyfriend's female friends (who he has known for over 10 years and they are married to his best friends) have started calling me a nickname. It isn't a nasty one, just another name (my name is ... (205 words)

I'm in love with my friend's girlfriend and she's giving me the impression that she loves me too. Could this be true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - so im in love with my friends girlfriends. and to make it clear im not doing anything to break them up i don't want to ok. right so i told this girl that i liked her and that i had really strong feelings for her. but what im wondering is does she like me back? we spea... (245 words)

I think my husband is spending his money on a woman. He's always broke!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my husband is cheating on me. I just had a baby 5 weeks ago so im still unable to have sex. Well he complains about it all the time...he has a exstreamly high sex drive. Ive cought him watching dirty movies up to three times in one day. Here latly he has been looking at ... (172 words)

BF not a virgin and I know it shouldn't bother me, but it does

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend just over two years ago but at the same time met someone else who I liked better. So I told my boyfriend that I couldn't see more happening between us than friendship. We didn't communicate after that. A few months later, after things with the other guy di... (390 words)

Is it too late to be his friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm in a bit of a dilemma and wondering if it's possible not to change a man, but to change the way he feels about situations. Or is this never going to work and and should I accept that, and deal with it. Besides I think I'm never going to hear from him Again now anyway. ... (544 words)

I really have my heart set on a child but my fiance is not ready. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a fiance that I love dearly...We live together now but we will be moving into our very first apartment on Friday:) the problem is,I really want to carry his child..he has me on birth control but I'm not really happy with it..I'm just doing it to make him happy.I ... (71 words)

How do I deal with a moody boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4665 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm in a mostly great relationship of 7 months with my bf. He is 35, I'm 28. He gets moody, how do I deal with that? Also, he says that he got used to a luxurious life w/ me but now my business isn't making as much $ so Im cutting back and I feel bad... He also doesn't ... (113 words)

Mom gave me two weeks to move out! Is it wrong that I don't want to talk to her again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm usually the one giving advice but right now,I need the advice.ok about a month ago,I moved n with my fiance..before then,I was still staying with my mom (im 18) now one morning,I woke up with a txt from her sayin I had 2wks to move..this really hurt me cuz its like family ... (136 words)

Will I ever get over my fiance's death? Will I ever find someone who I can love as much as I love my heart and soul? Will I even want to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My late fiance and I were together for three years; engaged for one. He died six months ago in a huge car accident that took three other lives as well... and I'm still having a hard time coping with the loss. I've received an insane amount of love and support from my family and ... (268 words)

Do I really know my guy? Now that I know he looks at Gay'Tranny and SheMale porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My baby's dad and I have been together off and on for 6 years. It hasn't been a good past 6 years. He has 2 children with another woman and yes, they were both during these last 6 years. We are currently not together but he has come over and been on my computer and I have k... (441 words)

Can you use body lotion as an anal lube?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I run out of anal lube. Can you use the brand Vaseline face and body lotion as anal lube? My girlfriend is really concern and I need an answers soon. Please help me asap!... (34 words)

We want a baby. How can we when our sex life is kind of difficult?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I are trying to conceive a baby. however we are both little over weight and well...he is kind of small down there. I'm not very comfortable being on top, but everytime we have sex, his penis doesnt stay in. We both very much want a child, but how can we when... (88 words)

How can I gain his trust so he can say 'I love you?'. When it's painful to say "I love you" for a guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I was hurt by something he said. He was referring to his last "love" who broke his heart and left him shattered. When I told him about how it made me feel he said that wasn't what he meant and that he does love me. It's been 8 months of exclusive dating up until now. He didn... (143 words)

What can I do? He has expressed increased feelings of love, but a decreased need for sex? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4667 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay...so I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and we have had a very successful and healthy relationship. We are both in college and have spoken about the seriousness of our relationship,moving in together, and possibly even marriage. Even though we feel the ... (118 words)

Wouldn't it be lovely if an STD/STI protocol operated? How does one confirm if a new partner does not have an STD or a STI?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So,I just got out a long term relationship. So long that we were both virgins before we met and never had to worry about stds/stis. My question is, when I'm ready to get back into the dating world, how does sex work, in terms of, do most couples get tested together before they ... (120 words)

He needs to clear his debt and has now said he's enlisting. Should I give up on our chances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex bf and I have been friends for 3 years and dating for a year and a half. I am well educated and went back to school recently to get another degree. He has no degree and now is in debt and trying to get out of it. Since Ive known him hes told me he wants to go to school ... (275 words)

We have a child together and another on the way, but he's always looking at other girls and hanging out with his friends. But then he insists he loves me! Do I just need to get over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for going on 4 years now. We have a 2 year old and another baby on the way, so it's safe to say we have a pretty serious relationship. I am 22 and he is 27 so there are a few years between us. I have problems trusting him. We live together... (208 words)

I need to stand my ground this time and not take her walking all over me, but I still love her! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - First off my name is James, yesterday me and my girlfriend and her daughter went out to go eat. To celebrate our anniversary. We've been together for about 16 months. Lately i've been feeling unappreciated. I feel like i do everything in this relationship. My girlfriend she can ... (369 words)

Do I need to keep my opinions to myself or embrace my outspoken nature?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

11 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - lately people around me tend to think i am being a pain in the but or a jerk. i can not really figure out why this would be? i am one of the those people or at least i have become one of late who speaks there mind who doesn't take shit from any one. who says things that are ... (362 words)

I think I'm a great catch, yet I'm single! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

11 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 24, college educated (have a bachelors degree and starting my masters in a couple of months), I get a lot of compliments from guys so I think that I am good looking, I am athletic so i keep myself in shape and always dress nice, I am very clean because i am so serious ... (508 words)

I haven't had a period in over 2 months, but I'm a virgin! Help!

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11 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Alright so let's start off by saying, I'm 16 and I've had a semi-regular period since I was 11 years old. So here's Problem #1. . . Well, like any girl, I dont enjoy my period, but it's reassuring to get it every month. I havent had my period since May! So it's been 1-2 mo... (192 words)

Do you think my girlfriend's relationship with her brother is weird?

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11 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriends brother who is 13 lives in a care home as their parents have a variety of alcohol/drug/mental health problems. They have a really weird relationship though she insists on seeing him every weekend and has him stay over at least 1 night a week but sometimes on both ... (170 words)

Could this method make me seem like a virgin again?

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11 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i need to no if any wome had used alum/salts to make your vigina tight like a virgin? you see i had sex about too year ago and i havent had sex since ,i know my hyem is gone cause i bled when i slepth with my ex but im due to marry in a few months and i need to ... (89 words)

Despite telling me that she was sexually abused as a child, the relationship is getting physical. What should my next steps be?

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11 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been dating a girl for a short while, we have been on 6 dates so far and have spoken on the phone every day. I really like her and when we are together we enjoy each others company. Things were going okay but we still hadn't kissed by the second date. She said she... (426 words)

I left my alcoholic boyfriend 4 months ago, but it really hurts all the time to be without him. Please tell me I'll eventually be able to move on...

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11 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - It's been four months now since I walked away from my alcoholic boyfriend of two years. I have not contacted him once, nor have I been anywhere near where he might be. This space is well needed for me to get my head straight and not get back on the rollercoaster ride and start ... (248 words)