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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is this normal behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal behavior for your boyfriend to leave as soon as you are confrontational/negative because he doesn't want to waste a "second of his life arguing"? By leaving, I mean literally walking out the house and not returning 10-12 hours later. ... (46 words)

What is wrong with the male species?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I would prefer if Men answered this but any answers I get i will be grateful I,m sick and tired of men using me. I only ever kissed 3 men before and when we text they just seem less interested and then they just stop texting me. Now i can admit I,m a bit overweight but I... (117 words)

My best friend and lover made me feel like a used condom.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony Aunts, I've posted here before and gotten such great advice, words that truly helped me with the problems in my life. Recovering from a breakup I met a boy in one of my classes. Immediately I could tell he was attracted to me, and I tried to just keep my dist... (1560 words)

He's really big and I'm really tiny and sex just isn't happening!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just started dating this guy who is amazing. Unfortunately when we tried to have sex it doesnt work for two main reasons. It takes a while for him to fit inside me. He is really big and I am really tiny, so the combination of the two is bad. And when we finally get ... (102 words)

He says he likes me very much but insists were just friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - HOw can I tell if my male friend is acting as more than a friend - he calls me each day sometimes more than once a day and says he likes me very much but insists he's just a friend. However, to me it seems more than that but I don't know if I am reading into it too much.... (61 words)

How do I stop my brother from becoming like our abusive father?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Our parents are divorced and my brother (13) visits our dad for twice a month. I don't see him but he is having a negative effect on my brother. He is becoming sexist and says things like men should slap women if they disobey them. (this is what my dad used to do to our mom). I ... (128 words)

My ex came back into my life, who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - torn between two lovers, whom do i chose? dear cupid, i have been in a relationship for 4yrs, and last year our love was on the rocks, and in the mist of our arguments and misunderstanding i met a guy and i realy liked him and he fel the same too. so things didnt get better w... (95 words)

My ex has been contacting me but I don't know her intentions.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

30 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I won't get into great detail about how me and my ex broke up after a 5 year relationship. I got an earlier post if anyone wishes to read on that. Just that she began liking someone else around March during the time she was still in a relationship with me and she admitted to it ... (475 words)

Does he actually want to marry me or am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my partner for 5 years and living with him for a year and a half. I w ant to get married and start a family and he says he does too. He. Say's we can't get engaged right now as he can't afford an engagement ring, (I don't want something expensive, just something ... (84 words)

My boss broke up with his g/f and now he's treating me differently. I don't want things to change!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, i'll try to keep this as brief as possible so i'm sorry if i go on a little bit. ^^' i'm 16 and i work as a secretary come assistant come general dogs body for my boss. we get along great, he treats me with respect and like a friend, which is ideal (the pay is crap ... (245 words)

Is it possible to really love two people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to really love two people. Me and my childs father have been together five years. Weve been thru alot and i love him he is my best friend. But nine months ago we seperated and i met smeone else. It seems like i fell in love at first sight. Anyway i love him and ... (139 words)

Should I tell our spouses about affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have posted a few questions about this problem but here we go again. I'm married and have been having a 'thing' with a married man. After months of flirting, sex, hundreds of texts, I realised I had fallen for this other man. To the point I would have left my husband for him. ... (276 words)

She's accusing me of cheating on her and being jealous of her male friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19, been with my girlfriend who's 21, for 6 months now. All's been well up until recently. However, for the past few weeks, she's been accusing me of being jealous of her male friends. The irony? I'm not jealous, and I even get along well with most of them. In fact,... (298 words)

What's going on with my relationship?!? any ideas anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

30 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Right so i gotta ask something, ive used the site before but never for anything concrete like this. So me and my girlfriend of 4 months have been really happy together. Its been really really good. around a month ago she had to go on holiday, she still is and wont be coming ... (330 words)

She broke up with me yet still texts me, how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me to be independent and because of my different religion. yet she still texts me like a couple times a week telling me that she misses me and if i could change something we would still be together. my question is how do i deal with ... (105 words)

Should I move in with her once her husband leaves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I met that married woman and had a sex with her the same day. Last June we went to vacation together, she came back pregnant had an abortion while still living with her husband. She has told me, once her husband is out I'll be in. The woman never stops talking about trust, ... (101 words)

Is my mom worrying for nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So in 4 days I'm going to Tokyo with my dad and borther. My mum told my dad to look out for me and now let me be on my own. She says I'm young and look like an anime character, and that this will attract some Japanese men. Other people have said I look like an anime charact... (134 words)

I'm leaving soon should I tell her about my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I am due to leave in Sept for further studies from my home country, for the next two years, at least. The problem I'm facing is concerned with my feelings for a girl. I have known her for a year now, and I have developed deep feelings for her. I know not how ... (397 words)

Should I cancel the trip or go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, I have had this crush on this boy for quite a while - but it was an innocent crush, more just from afar. I went to high school with him, he was two years above me. It never even crossed my mind anything would happen because we were just friends in passing. But a few ... (463 words)

How do you tell someone that you like them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - We're friends for sure, good friends. But I sense that maybe she may like me, we've only known each other well for maybe 6 months, before that she had a boyfriend and we hardly ever talked at work. Then when she broke up I turned it on and now we're pretty close. I'm crazy... (168 words)

Do emotional gestures actually mean anything or does it just mean something if your in a relationship?

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30 July 2011 (F) - a friend and i were talking about relationships..he is sort of a player..we were talking about cheating and the reasons why people do it etc..he said it is a horrible thing and from a guy's perspective we sometimes cheat even if we are happy in a relationship and have no ... (149 words)

I like the idea of a boyfriend but I don't like pressure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4649 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'd like a boyfriend and when i think about having one i think it'd be great, but then when i'm around a boy that likes me ... things change and i feel like i'm being pressured into things. i've never been pressured into anything but i don't understand why when i'm on my own ... (96 words)

Sisters are best friends while I am out in the cold.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My sisters block me out of there lives. I am in the middle my older sister and I are 18 months apart and my younger sister is 6 years younger than me. My older sister has disliked me since birth and my younger sister was so much younger than me, I played with her a lot when ... (635 words)

All of my exes have cheated on me so I'm sure my boyfriend is going to do the same thing....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. I have a problem trusting my boyfriend. Not because he's done things but because each and every one of the guys i've been with have hurt me bad! So pretty much im just waiting for him to hurt me and he treats me ... (159 words)

He's cheated on me 5 times, constantly lies and disrespects me but he has my heart and I want him back....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid How can i get over a guy whom i've been with for over 2 years now who has cheated on me 5 times, who constantly lies to me, who disrespects me, who doesn't show any affection or that he cares, who ignores me, doesn't communicate whenever we have problems, i don't tr... (183 words)

How do I know if he came in me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - this morning, at about 4 i was rather drunk and ended up having sex for the first time with one of my ex-boyfriends. it was kind of a rushed thing, just happened out of no-where, i wasn't pressured into it and i know it was stupid to have sex with no protection but, i was ... (152 words)

My sister and I have the worst relationship imaginable!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

30 July 2011 (?) age 26-29 - My sister and I have the worst relationship imaginable. We argue constantly and I'm not saying it's always her fault but she does bring on the majority of our fights. Ever since we were kids she's been a total control freak, everyone says I'm really laid back and relaxed... (401 words)

I hate being her backup friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically my friend has got closer with somemeone else who she always falls out with. I'm sick of them getting close because something always happens and my friends comes running back to me! Should I tell her this? I hate feeling like second choice:/ ... (44 words)

I took my birth control pills a few hours earlier than normal. Could this have messed my period up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had sex about a week ago,and we didn't use condoms twice. He also didn't pull out. He has a really difficult time staying hard with condoms,so I figured it couldn't hurt since I'm on birth control. We had sex that Friday and Saturday. My period was due to start on Sunday. ... (273 words)

Any suggestions on what I can do to help my ultrasound appointment on my varicose veins?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I am in my mid twenties and I have varicose veins for years..i notice it keeps getting worse and bigger as time goes on and I actually feel more discomfort this past year and I also just in general want to get them treated because i know they are going to keep getting worse. ... (274 words)

I think he is my soulmate but he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) age 51-59 - I need to know his feelings about me. This man and I have developed a really strong friendship. In fact, I would say he is probably my very best friend. We met by circumstance last year and immediately, I felt this strange cosmic connection like he was my soulmate. When he told ... (483 words)

I really like this guy but think he is not interested...should I delete his number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4650 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why didnt he reply? is he just not interested? i like him alot.? I really like this guy work. He stares at me when am not looking, he smiles whenever we talk and he's very friendly with me. I gave him my number and he rang me and talked for hours. He says he lik... (169 words)

Is it normal for some men not to be into sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, Well, I was just wondering if it was normal for some men not to be into sex...? My boyfriend of 18 months goes through sages when he is like a rabbit then dosent want to do nothing. Of course he never turn down the blow job when he is like this but when it comes to act... (185 words)

Clingy boyfriend is suffocating the life out of me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is getting on my nerves so much! He wants to see me every single day! I no thats nice, and its nice to feel wanted but i want my own space. Ive only been going out with him for a month, and now its the six week holidays and its the first week and ive seen him ever... (129 words)

My husband has admitted that he has and is emotionally cheating on me with a female friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has admitted that he has or is emotionally cheating on me with a female friend. When I asked him to end the friendship he says I am being unfair and that I don't understand how hard it is for him to make friends (we live in a small town and he works from home). He ... (172 words)

How do I get my parents to accept me for who I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. I'm 16 years old. Old enough to get piercings if I want them. My parents agreed that I could get a belly bar (I've been desperate for one since I was 12) and a cartilage piercing. I thought that what is known as an 'industrial' piercing was a cartilage piercing, and as... (285 words)

Have I wasted my time and energy with this guy....why did he change so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really upset because i thought a guy i was friends with really liked me when we first met 2 years ago he showed a real interest in me, i liked him a lot and helped him through a lot of personal trauma, he was in a bad financial way and again i helped. Fast forward 2 years ... (303 words)

Is it okay for a beautiful woman to be narcissistic, rude and conceited?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

30 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Right so I have this friend who is a woman. She's gorgeous. At first I fancied her a bit, but we soon realized it would not work. So we've remained mates. Thing is, she gets very conceited at times. She tells me these stories about guys she dates that really burn me up. Like... (279 words)

This jealous woman made my life miserable either because she was interested in my BF or because she was not happy in her own life. Thoughts or similar experiences anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so a while ago, my boyfriend started renting a room from a couple (a husband and wife) who were also living at the same property. Everything was fine at first, however things quickly started to go wrong. The couple own the property, the husband goes out to work all day while ... (958 words)

How do I stop my new boyfriend losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My new bf does not spend time with me. He always comes home late and goes to sleep. He does not have time to spend with me. How do I get his interest in me? Do you think oral sex would help to turn him on? Please advise.... (48 words)

I feel that there something going on between my husband and a woman from his work...What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4637 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I can't get over the feeling that there something going on between my husband and a woman from his work. They have been friends now for a couple of years but she recently got married and is already having marriage problems. My husband and her constantly talk ... (142 words)

What does "talk to you soon" mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello When we started the letters we discussed because of the big distance (he lives in USA me in Europe) we make friends, and when he visit to my country we will meet...(he told me that he often comes to my country) Could you help me to decide what does it mean "talk to yo... (190 words)

Found my 8 year old brother and a girl playing together naked, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi right now I am very scared and disturbed. For two years now I have been sexually active with my bf and we have done it at my house quite a few times when my parents were not home. However some of those times my little brother who is now 8 was home at the same time, but I ... (124 words)

Am I wasting my life or is there hope for me and my long distance lover?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have known a lady on the internet for 8 years. We fell in love. My marriage was already on the way down and I divorced 7 years ago. I have been on my own ever since. My internet friend and I finally met 5yrs ago and it has been a bit of an emotional roller coaster since. ... (255 words)

My mom thinks that wet bath mats and talking loudly are deal breakers! How do I get her to accept my relationship with my fiance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was so worried to tell my mom I got engaged to my boyfriend. We went back to my hometown to tell her in person and I was so relieved when she seemed to take the news well (ish) that I cried. But my partner went home a couple of days before me, and that was when my mom blew ... (433 words)

Did I sleep with my Bf's brother. I was wasted. But if I did how can I salvage things with my BF?....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my Bf for 6months now and we have been through almost everything in our relationship. Except this. We got drunk one night out on the town and he got picked up, so I took a cab to his family's place which we were staying at during our visit. Before I entered ... (373 words)

Uncomfortable with my chest size...how should I deal with this? How should I react when I get sleazy comments?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So in a nutshell, I have large boobs. I am 25, probably D cup size, and only 5'1" and 130 lbs; I don't know my cup size for sure because it's been so long since I got measured. And the reason it's been so long is because going to Victoria's Secret makes me feel abnormal and ... (360 words)

His friend likes me but I don't like him...is that holding him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

30 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So in my acting class there is a boy I like named tyler, he is tall and blond, charismatic, gorgeous, but he is white and im black!! Sometimes but very few times I have caught him looking at me and when I give him big smiles he smiles back! Sometimes but very few he does little ... (315 words)

How do I move on from my first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How do move on from my first love? I feel it is so stupid to still be asking this question after breaking up with my first love about 10 years ago. I'm now 25 years old and married with 2 kids but still dream of my first love. Our relationship lasted on ly for about 1... (252 words)

How do I tell my mom that I'm ready to start having sex? And are condoms good enough or do I need some other form of birth control too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi!! I'm new here and i'm not sure how to ask, but well, i've been with my 1st boyfriend for almost 6 months and we want to start having sex, but we are both very worried about unwanted pregnancies and we don't feel save using just condoms during sex, he wants me to start ta... (265 words)

Torn between two guys. I'm SO confused, what do I do?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, So lately I'm really confused. I've been single for 8 months and started talking to two guys just as friends. Then it turned out I started liking them both. I kind of therew off the older one since he'll be in college, but he tells me how he rarely likes someone ... (173 words)

Girlfriend has kept our relationship secret for a year. Should I be upset about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend doesn't want to tell her friends that we've been dating for a year because that would mean they would know that she's only been single for 2 months (she had just gotten out of a relationship). She's finally going to tell them that we're dating, because we are 2 ... (311 words)

I have no bf and I don't want to masturbate...but I want sex so badly! What should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I want to have sex, I want it really bad! But I have no BF, I don't want to masturbate and I don't want to watch porn. I mean, I want to make love with someone but I have failed to get a BF. Hey, I am female 30 yrs, professional and faithful. Any tips on hooking up ... (64 words)

Is the reason I am alone because I have too many rules for guys to follow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently met a guy who seemed really great and like he was exactly what I was looking for... he even took my number when I said that "I don't call people". But when he called me, I wasn't home, and he didn't leave his number. I have no way to get back to him and he hasn't ... (164 words)

My friend is WAY too clingy and is getting on my nerves! What do I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Basically, I have a friend that I've been studying with this past summer, since we are both taking the same summer class. He'd ask me to study a lot, and I would be fine with that at first, since it would force me to study. However, I'm starting to get really annoyed a... (405 words)

I think my only friend (who is a guy) may like me. How can I be sure and what should I do if he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello x well basically i have a bit of dilemma. I only have one friend and i'm starting to get abit of a feeling he may fancy me a bit. He is the only friend i have and i've known since before i can remember. I recently lost all my friends and he was the only one who stuck by... (399 words)

20 year old straight employee got sexually involved with me, took money and favours from me, and now his wife is pregnant and he's changed his job. I feel terribly used, betrayed and hurt

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 July 2011 (M)

age - OK, here's one that has to top it all. I am a boss, I met this straight man 20 years old. I am 50. This is so crazy that it is hard to believe it happened. At any rate, I told him about me, and when I did, he said, well anything is possible for the right price. He is ... (432 words)

Bf doesn't like me talking to other guys. Is he right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 1 month. We've fought a lot about so many things. Our first year together, I had this one best friend that was a guy and my boyfriend told me to stop talking, so I did. A month later I talked to this guy friend about how ... (366 words)

Men: How do you like women to flirt with you?

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30 July 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Men, How do you like women to flirt with you? I'm asking for preferences as well as favorite memories. I'm also asking, because sometimes I think I'm not so good at it. At times, I've been told I was cold or intimidating (often because I was unaware the person had feelings ... (224 words)

He's ignored me for two weeks. How can I keep his interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so there's this guy he's not the player type. He is usually so sweet to me and we used to talk and text all the time. He recently asked me to go to town with him, just us two, and after we went back to his house. We spent the whole day together and when i had to leave he ... (150 words)

How can I stop worrying about ending up alone for the rest of my life??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

30 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - when i split with my boyfriend 4 months ago i found it so hard, we was only together for a year but i love him so much. when i found out he cheated it broke my heart, i cryed for 2 months and wouldnt go nowere but mop round. i am much better now although i do still think a... (225 words)