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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does she like me? How do I know for sure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I think this girl likes me since she always hangs out with me around the house (she lives next door) and when we're with friends she always talks alone to me and smiles a lot (and flirts a little) but when I asked her is she wants to come to the beach she hardly said yes, we ... (168 words)

He's uncomfortable around girls, but we have to work together, how can I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm best friends with this guy and he says he feels really awkward around girls (even me to an extent) but you'd never know it. I really want us to meet up in summer because we are doing a project which means we would have to meet up at mine or his to practice music. Because of ... (121 words)

Could he change his mind? he's told me he does not have feelings for me now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've always been close to this guy at school, we were like best friends and for a while we developed feelings for each other... After summer vacation he changed, he was more hostile and quiet. He kept secrets and wasn't himself. Now he's almost back to his old self but whe... (208 words)

I don't think he's gay, but he kissed me on the lips. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, i've been hanging out with this guy recently and stuff, and a few days ago he kissed me. i'm not gay, at least I don't think i am. I don't think he is either, he's jokingly called people 'f**king fairies' and such. and it was weird he just kissed me, on the lips, ... (84 words)

Disgusting problem and feel of shame

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, there's my problem: through a long time I used to watch and like some bizarre bestiality porn (Women with dogs, horses etc., animals mating). I'm not into real animals. Having sex with an animal - grossie, too weird... Currently I don't watch such videos and seeing bes... (96 words)

Ideas for some summer fun?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, what are some fun at home things my boyfriend and I can do besides movies, video games, or cooking? We sometimes have water fights or play with the dogs, but we just want some more ideas, seeing as neither of us can drive the other legally(I have my license, but in my ... (81 words)

I know what I'm doing is wrong but I'm afraid of being alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im so fed up boys only want me for sex. before i had a boyfriend i had slept with 40 boys i know this is bad, and decided to change. i later met my ex boyfriend which i split up with 3 months ago. when i met him, i loved it and felt wanted not just used but then fo... (154 words)

Should I contact him again or is he blowing me off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i met this guy on a night out, we was with each other most of the night. we swaped numbers and had been texting and he told me he really likes me, hes in the army so not home for 2 weeks but said well met up then. but for the last 2 days i havent heard from him. i ... (161 words)

We split-up but I'm confused as to what he wants...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im so confussed, me and my ex boyfriend split about 2 months ago. we stop contacted for about a month but then got back in contact. we have been talking and texting but both said we cant get back together. but one night on a night out i seen him and he came home with me. we... (310 words)

Am I a pawn or a king in her game? Or just a convenient buddy when she wants company?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So about 2 weeks ago me and my ex that i dated for a few months at the end of last year got back in contact. She likes to smoke with someone, not alone. She texted me at random just saying she wants to smoke and has nobody to smoke with. We have gotten together a couple time... (174 words)

I have a really bad feeling about him and his ex....what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and we went out last night for a couple of drinks ans we started talking about stuff. He said that his ex was texting him on his birthday (two months ago) and they were both saying that they should meet up for a coffee. He then ... (344 words)

I cheated but feel no guilt...should I stay or should I go?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I are having intimacy problems. We've been together for 5 years. It seems to me like things fizzled very early in our relationship. She is perfect in so many ways, but this is killing me. She's 28 and I'm 30. which means its almost time for the next step, but ... (260 words)

3 questions about lingerie...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Sooooo today I went shopping with my best female friend. She convinced me to buy some lingerie, it's a corset like thing, red with black lace, very sexy. It wasn't for a guy or anything, I am single, but it was just for me, ya know? I didn't have enough money for the matching ... (123 words)

Will I stay with my guy or go with the guy I can't stop thinking about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I have a boyfriend. We have been together for five years now, and I love him. In the mean time, there is this other amazing guy that I can't stop thinking about. I kissed the other guy once a couple of years ago, and ever since we met, I have liked him. But I still love my ... (121 words)

He asked me for a threesome but I'm insecure do you think I will benefit from this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - First of all, I'm single since a couple of months. Now, an acquaintance of mine, a nice and funny guy who's been in a long-term relationship for several years, just asked me if I would be open to a sex experience with his girlfriend and possibly (if she agrees) himself. He told ... (231 words)

Once a Cheater always a Cheater is this true ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with my sons father since I was 4 yrs old. Best friends, we started dating when I was 14 and dated right up until 2 yrs ago (I was 19 at the time). Up until that point everything was perfect relationship wise. We both went through some things with friends, ... (424 words)

Torn between the two !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having the hardest decision to have to choose between two great but very opposite guys. This is all since my ex has expressed his feelings to me in a significant way. We have a son together but we went on a break many months ago but I had since found someone new. The new ... (547 words)

Should I Dump her or is it just another ego boost for me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I wanna dump my girlfriend. We are together for 18 months. She is nice , beautiful and there’s hardly anything I can find wrong in her but wanna dump her to make it 1-1. My first girlfriend had dumped 6 months before she came into my life . So If I dump her that will sa... (185 words)

How do I make him get the hint he's starting to creep me out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys! I'm in need of some advice. Sorry if this is a repeat, I accidentally posted before I finished typing it the first time! 2 months ago I met a guy through some friends. Ran into him again at a mutual friend's b-day party and we ended up exchanging numbers to work ... (355 words)

I wanted to know what he was up to on facebook!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend left his facebook open at my place. So i checked it. I saw that he chatted with ex girlfriends, and also flirted with them. He also said he wasn't secure about his relationship with me..and that there are loads of other cute girls, although i am the cutest. Can ... (91 words)

How do I fix my nose without surgery and how do I open up to people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, to start, I'm sorry if this turns into a rant. I really want input from someone other than my friends who can be biased. Because of several events in my life that left me extremely traumatized, I get hit extremely hard by rejection. I've been broken up with three times in... (226 words)

Do you have any advice on what I should say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I sent a message to this guy i like asking him if he is doing anything nice for his birthday at the weekend. he said he isnt going out as he has his son with him this weekend. his son stays with him every other weekend. he also told me that he hasn't been out drinking for a ... (200 words)

A girl I liked said her ex was back but wanted to stay friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I want your opinion on this: I met this girl and we went out on 3 dates. Some dates I initiated and some she initiated. We had such a good time, we talked, laughed and flirted for hours and we had so many things in common, but I didn't make a move to kiss her because ... (182 words)

What does my ex boyfriend want from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a gay guy and I had a boyfriend. We were together for 4 years but then we had to break up by my initiative. After our break-up I left the town for some months. I wanted to relax and to start a new life. Time ago I returned, because I had to start to work again. My friend ... (194 words)

Am I deluding myself or does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a mature student and my personal tutor is 5 years older than me. I have one more year of study remaining. For the last four years, I really felt sure that this man liked me A LOT, but believed he was married and so I never flirted openly with him and vice versa. A few ... (612 words)

She invited me to stay with her in the past, how do I remind her of that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What is going on with my friend ?. I live in England, and she lives in Norway ( Although, she isn't from there originally ). We have been intouch online for a few years now, but we have only met in person once. We know each other because we like the same band. For quite a long ... (257 words)

Do I really have to "treat her mean to keep her keen"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll try and boil it down to basics. There's a girl who I really like due to many reasons; she's extremely attractive but the main being that we connect on many levels. Whenever I talk to her, it seems like we've known each other for ages, not just the relatively short... (361 words)

If I can't handle being apart for 11 days, how can I be cut out to be an army wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - For a while now I have been dating an Army Man. We have been apart for 11 days now and it just feels like I can't function sometimes. We have talked about marriage but I'm a little scared, if I'm going through the motions after only 11 days, am I really cut out to be an Army ... (60 words)

Does she want to have an affair with me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Cupids. I am a married man and I am friendly with a married woman whose daughter is in gymnastics with my two daughters. Recently she has been confiding in me about how her husband and her don't do things together and that she is unhappy in her marriage and wants to lea... (152 words)

What's the best way to make her think, and choose me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been fooling around with my classmate for long months now. Each time we went out, we ended up in bed together (not having sex, just petting and cuddling). She's in a long term relationship with someone else. Back when I started to fancy her, I had no idea cause she would ... (281 words)

Do I need to tell him about the drunken hickey incident?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a friend of mine who started dating someone who before I got engaged, I had a drunken make out with and even had the old "mistake of a hickey happen". I never talked about it with the girl and it was so awkward because I was so embarrased that too much alcohol took ... (122 words)

I hate her, and want revenge for what she did to me...what do I do with these feelings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Aunts, Long story short, a woman I met lied to me, took money from me, and treated me like dirt. She refuses to acknowledge she did anything wrong. I gave her about $5000 because she said she was in dire need. She led me on. Turns out she was far from in dire need. She had ... (186 words)

His spoiled teenage son is making me into the scapegoat!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I live in a split family. I have three kids and my husband has one at home.. I am so frusterated because I demand my kids have respect for their stepfather and I never say anything when he steps in to disciplines them.. I on the other hand have to walk on eggshells when ... (265 words)

How can I deal with unwanted judgment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im a 15 year old teen mum. I have a little boy who is 7 months old and the father stuck around so thats all good; but something that really bothers me is how everyone judges us not adults but people at school, like they are always telling me how i should look after my baby ... (150 words)

Is he planning on being unfaithful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been together for 20 years. We have been quite stable except for the years that he was not interested in having sex with me. At the time I was upset and obviously thought of all different reasons for this. We had many arguments etc- also because he was ... (372 words)

He can keep going for an hour! That's too long for me....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't much of a problem but, the guy I am seeing can last for an hour even more with no signs of him cumming anytime soon. When we have sex he really goes to town and it's great he even makes sure to go down on me beforehand he's really considerate but, I feel bad that he ... (98 words)

So should I worry about this magazine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Advice please. My wife dated this guy in 2003 - 2004. We started dating in 2004 and got married in 2005. Early in 2006, this guy called my in-laws to get our phone number. They were smart enough not to give it out, but to get his number and pass the message along to us. I t... (368 words)

What's the best way to let someone down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a hard time dealing with guys whom I'm not interested in. On the one side, I do not want to hurt them on the other side I do not want to lead them on. I have done the latter (not on purpose!) and I have seen that this ends up hurting a person even more. When I was ... (131 words)

Should I wear my contacts on my date tomorrow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Quick question, I have a date tomorrow with this guy and every time he has seen me i've had my contacts in, I'm wondering should i wear them again tomorrow or not? I'm just thinking if this turns into anything, wouldn't he rather see what i look like with my natural eye colo... (103 words)

Boyfriend agrees that I love him more than he loves me. Anyone have any thoughts on this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Hi. Here is my thing. It transpires that I love my bf more than he loves me. We have discussed this and we mainly have just acknowledged that I do seem to love him in a more intense way then he loves me. Don’t get me wrong; he does love me. He goes out of his way for me, he is ... (392 words)

This guy is madly in love with me....but I have no idea who he is!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear-cupid, From 2-3 days one guy is messaging me. I don't know who that guy is.When I asked him, he said that he came to my city for studies 6 months back ,he saw me and fell for me. I'm 16 years old. He is 17. He got my number from one of his friend who live in my city.... (513 words)

He has a G/f. But he flirts with me. Could he like me as more than a platonic friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a very good guy friend. He's got all the typical qualities someone would look for in a guy--funny, sweet, smart, attractive. Whenever I'm around him, all i can think about is that if he kissed me right then I'd kiss him back and that's how hot he is. However, whenever ... (186 words)

What is the best lubricant to use, specifically for anal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone have any tried and true recommendations for a personal lubricant that stays slippery longer other than K-Y (in the United States)? My partner and I really do not like that it gets sticky so quickly, and we have to re-lube so often, and then it leaves such a dr... (101 words)

If a woman already likes you, does it really matter what you say to them?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age - Hope its ok to ask quite a short and simple question: Ive been told by a friend that in regards to a woman, when talking to them it doesnt really matter what you say, if they already like you, thats half the battle won. Us men can say some pretty stupid things at times (l... (102 words)

Ladies - do you 'reward' a guy if he makes the extra effort?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - This is not really a problem, more just another question to help with my understanding of the opposite sex. I need all the help I can get in that regard, and Im not the most outgoing guy in the world, also a bit shy. I have experienced a couple of instances where I have mad... (219 words)

Girlfriend broke up with me on Facebook and won't give a reason why...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - my girlfriend just broke up with? me 3 months ago by message in facebook and wont give me a reason why, and yet few days ago before our break up. all she kept on saying was "i love you" and "i couldn't imagine life without you"...then she message me "i'm letting you go". what... (69 words)

Cheated on my husband and am riddled with guilt but do you think this other man loves me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i am married to a wonderful man for the past 23 years and now have cheated on him for the very first time. it is hard as i am riddled with guilt.i have been seeing a friend of ours for almost a year before we called it off.our friend is also married but living a separated ... (511 words)

I want to ask her out again. How do I do it without making things awkward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - well Ive been friends with this girl for a couple of years now and we have gotten to know each other quite a bit now. I want to ask her out but i have already done this before and she said it felt kind of weird if we went out. Although its never come up again I don't really ... (99 words)

Joked that I saw him as a brother and all of a sudden he changed. Does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I want a bit of help with this situation please!! I have a guy friend who I get on very well with. A few comments he has made have made me think that he may have liked me as more than a friend. I knew that he liked someone but he wouldn't tell me who. People hav... (231 words)

Pain in right testicle and also had a little rash. Plz help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 19 years old, male!! Im feeling a slight pain in my Right terticle for last few days!! I musterbate regularly (4,5 time every week) !! Is it causing any pain?? I also had a little rash outside!! I can also feel a little pain right side little over my penis!! I really ... (65 words)

Will it be possible to have sex and get married after a sex change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Can a boy after sexchange converted to complete woman. After that can she fulfil her desire of being woman and establish sexual relation with another male friend and become his wife?... (31 words)

Never been kissed and always pictured myself alone. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there something wrong with me? I'm 19 (going on 20) years old and have never been kissing, asked out on a date, or anything by a guy. The most attention I've ever got from a guy is from a far (i.e. them just staring at me), but them NEVER seen to come up to me and talk to ... (629 words)

My boyfriend is immature...will he ever change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of two years have a child. He's 23 and I'm 21 he has another child with a woman out of state. He doesn't work, he's on unemployment and is going to school. It seems as if I'm doing all the work with the baby and with trying to find a job and getting an ... (192 words)

If I stop making everything so easy for him...will he become more interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4661 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been talking to this guy and I think he has been taking advantage of the fact that if he stops talking to me to talk to someone else. That when he's done or finished with the other girl he can come right back and I'll take him back. So what I'm wondering is if I stop ... (107 words)

Why are so many women so selfish? Even the great ones we love dearly!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age - MY question is why do women expect us men to give them everything and anything they want that makes them happy, but they won't give us the simplest thing to make us happy; a blow job!? We go to all sorts of lengths, taking an interest in your likes, desires, hobbies etc. Sup... (404 words)

He cheated on me! I feel so gross, so horrible and devastated! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Yesterday I found out that my ex cheated on me last Thursday. He said nothing, he made me believe we were fine. But a friend told me he saw my ex with another girl. One of his slut friends... you know, the typical girl who hooks up with all guys in her group, who hooks up with ... (347 words)

My wife and her sister are in conflict over past issues..should I speak up and talk to the sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife of many years recently confessed to me that she was sexually abused. It was something I suspected based on her behaviors over the years I have known her. She said that she has told no one else and she did not divulge any details to me. Her older sister is extremel... (314 words)

We're newlyweds...but I am bored! Help!

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20 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hellow everyone! I just want to ask why the long distance relationship is so boring sometimes. We are newlyweds but I feel no spark in our relationship. I'm afraid what going on now. I easily mad in myself always even the little things at home. We can't communicate our ho... (301 words)

Should I care that she did sexual things with her best friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Even though this is a few weeks old i need help. My girlfriend who i have had for three months went over to her best friends house and they both swam naked in the pool and her friend "touched" her and when she told me this i asked. "Why did you let her?" she replied, "Because ... (186 words)

Is it just a normal guy thing to be like this, or should I worry? I seem to come second after his porn and video games.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, my boyfriend and i have been together for a year now, and we have known each other for over 11 years, we were best friends growing up, and everything was great in the begining but now, it just seems like i get pushed aside for his video games, and porn etc. i ... (120 words)

Am I doing too much analysis? Sometimes I think he doesn't care at all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys.. I have been "casually sleeping" with one of my ex boyfriends for a little over a month now. We had been broken up for almost 4 years, were both 20 now. (i'm almost 21) I state it like that because we do more than just casual sex. He usually "hangs" out with me once... (338 words)

Two girls. Are the signs there that they do both like me?

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20 July 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Can you agree or disagree with my surmising here? I think that one of my good friends likes me. So this girl Y that I've known for about a year has been an awesome friend. I consider her a close friend. I took her to prom and she asked me back and so forth. But the enti... (192 words)

He does so much for me it's affecting my self esteem. How can I fix this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not Miss Independent, My man pays for everything, i don't have a job, I recieve a disable check which pays the rent and that's it, I don't even have my own car cos i don't know how to drive, He takes me everywhere, Appts, exc. Problem is it's starting to kill my self ... (102 words)

How much porn is TOO much? Is my boy friend's need for Porn excessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im usually cool with porn. I watch it myself several times a week and often browse naughty picture websites. I generally see it as not a big deal most the time. Sure, sometimes it upsets me and makes me feel bad but I understand those are MY insecurities and I shouldn't let ... (222 words)

He's slapped me during sex. Do I need to be concerned about this sort of behaviour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age - Do men who like to slap women during sex have an anger issue? my boyfriend is a loving caring man but sometimes he likes to slap my backside which i don't mind during sex as i find it a turn on,but a couple of times he has just up and slapped me across the face during sex.... (110 words)

Are these fears valid? I am afraid of my future husband's reaction in regards to my sexual history

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel so disgusted and upset with myself and I can't tell anyone. I turned 19 yesterday and have been on/off with a man who has narcissistic personality disorder for 5 years. He is a total jerk one day, super nice the next, it has always been like this. I love him, and I've... (255 words)

Do I need to be concerned about this sort of behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age - Do men who like to slap women during sex have an anger issue,my boyfriend is a loving caring man but sometimes he likes to slap my backside which i don't mind during sex as i find it a turn on,but a couple of times he has just up and slapped me across the face during sex and ... (107 words)

My anger made him leave me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

20 July 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid. I've been in a 10 month relationship and im so happy with my boyfriend. In some situations, when the girlfriend gets the boyfriend angry, he'll tell her off or lay his hands on her. Obviously we all know he's a douchebag if it gets to those two levels. Well in my ... (277 words)

I'm not better than my bf!

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20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents are giving me a hard time about my bf. They don't think he's good enough for me because his family doesn't have money and he's a janitor and my family's wealthy and I'm going to school to become a lawyer. They won't stop riding me about it. Am I wrong for resenting ... (59 words)

I need to end a 4 year affair! Need advice please.

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20 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone... I'm looking for advice on how to stop an affair with a married guy. I am a single 24 year old female. He is 36 and married :( We've been having an affair since 2007, by the way, we work together! We both try really hard to stay away from each other but ... (148 words)

I feel like my skin is awful and I can't let anyone see it without makeup

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20 July 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Okay I've never talked to anyone about this before, here it goes. It's weird.. So, I hate letting people see me in natural lighting. Like out side and stuff, or even in a really well lite room. I hate my skin, my complexion is horrible. I have uneven skin tone, I break ou... (268 words)

Should I break up with b/f? He says he cares about others but doesn't know how to show it

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20 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I really need help to decide if I should break off with my LDR BF. We've been together for 3 months and it has been long distance 2 months ago. When I'm with him, everything is fine, except that he's quite self-centered. He talks about what he wants all th... (354 words)

He left me with a baby and I can't get over him

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20 July 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - okay this is hard for me to write but here it goes my boyfriend of 7 years left me a yr ago when i tld him i was pregnant. He said he didn love me anymore and that we never be together again i was so heart broken. I ask him to give us another go for the babies sake he laugh ... (225 words)

I don't earn money so it's his way or no way

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20 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a complicated problem. I have been married for 3years now.. I have three kids and my husband has three kids. Two of his kids are grown and out of the house . Well when ever it comes to his kids he tells me he makes all the decisions himself and I don't have a ... (258 words)

Have I made the right decision by not contacting my lover?

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20 July 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a married mother of 2 and recently ended an affair with the love of my life. I know most people think this when they're having an affair but he truly was the love of my life. He was my first. We met in high school and 18 yrs later, met again through a social network. When ... (456 words)

I'm really nervous about kissing...I have no idea how to do it!!

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20 July 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have never kissed anyone and neither has my boyfriend. He used to be very shy and quiet like me, but suddenly is teasing me about kissing all the time. I am really nervous. I have no idea how to do this, and now I feel worried sitting close to him in case he goes for it a... (68 words)

Is cybersex cheating?

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20 July 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a cybersex habit. I had it before I met my wife and I still have it. I have a very high sex drive and my wife just doesn't keep up with me by any stretch. To me it is just a step beyond jerking myself off. In fact, that's what it is. Sometimes I have it with anonymou... (282 words)