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writes:I recently saw an email on my husbands phone it was to a female coworker. My heart dropped. He had sent her 30 emails in one day. Some casual chitchat some playful banter and some sexual enudios. I asked him about it.. he denied it and said he was doing nothing wrong and he has nothing to hide. He locks his phone and deleates his messages daily. I feel hurt he sends me one or 2 a month. What should I do.my heart is broken.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 October 2010):
 Ok well if he is denying it then obviously there is no place here to trust your husband as he should be honest with you, if he is lying about this what else is he lying about i wonder?
You need to sit down with him and tell him you saw the emails and that if he is going to keep denying it then you simply cant trust him and cant find any other option than to leave him, as we all know there needs to be trust in a relationship.
If he does admit to the emails and explains that they were a bit of innocent fun then maybe you can both work through it, but he needs to know that he has left you heartbroken and you need to see that he is trying his hardest to win your trust back he needs to give you his all and no less.
So i guess the only advice here is to sit down with him and demand to know why he done this. Goodluck.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (2 October 2010):
 Looks to me like your husband is heading for an affair. If he'd nothing to hide he would not have locked everything. Is there any way you can intervene with the woman in question and let her know to 'back off'. He is obviously trying or actually playing away. Confront him again and ask him what he feels is going wrong in your marriage that he has to resort to this. Temptations are rife out there with the internet and dating sites, messengers, chat rooms and texts. Some marriages can't cope with it all, you need to put a stop to this kind of behaviour for your marriage to survive. Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): Leave him.
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