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writes:I'm starting to have second opinions on my relationship...I've had a boyfriend for 2 months. Two days after we met we went on our first date and have been together since then, but I honestly don't know that much about him. On the bright side he's very caring and polite to my family, especially my brothers (which I really like). But I just don't feel a spark anymore. I've liked this guy at work for awhile and I've tried to talk to him less to remove temptation...but I don't know what to do anymore. My bf kind of embarasses me in public and well, frankly I'm bored and we have totally different careers and college goals in mind. Should I keep what we have (because it will eventually fade) or what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): Move on, don't let the idea of dumping a nice guy guilt you into staying with him. Staying with him when you're not in love with him is the worst thing you could do to him. Better to end it sooner rather than later.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): All I had to do is read the title.. Leave him now, and you can both find someone more compatibly matched. You're never going to be happy staying with someone you feel this poorly about.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 October 2010):
You don't have anything together! At 2 months, you've found you have little in common, and you're already bored and embarrassed. He's obviously a nice guy, but he's clearly not the one for you at all. Let him go and find someone else, and you go and find guy who will make you melt every time you see him! Don't stick with this.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (2 October 2010):
 Why should you keep what you have ? ( which does not sound like much anyway ). Just to give the poor guy time to get attached so that he can be more hurt when you get
totally fed up ?
If the spark is gone after only 2 months this relationship is not meant to be. Cut your ( and his ) losses now and move on.
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