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writes:A guy friend of mine has been making life pretty tricky for me, especially recently. He has a reputation and i've been told by people in the past that he's a "dog". When we were both single we did sleep together a few times, this was a while ago though. One day i confessed to him that i liked him a lot but he told me he didn't want anything serious which i just had to accept. Now he has a girlfriend which he's been with maybe a year or so. This is were things start going down hill, firstly i found out he'd recently celebrated their 1 year of being together, the thing about that is if that's the case then me and him were still sleeping together when he started seeing her, which he failed to mention. This angered me a lot and after that i realised what people said about him was true. Now, up to the present day, i think he's well aware that i still like him and he's using this to try and get in my pants because all he ever talks about is sex or if not flirts. Every time i've seen him in person he has grabbed my boobs etc... and just makes me feel really horrible, like i'm a piece of meat. He apparently treats women like this a lot. So, i know for my own sanity i need to end this "friendship" that's what he calls it anyway. I think he's been very cruel to me knowing how i feel about him and using that to his advantage and also i know his girlfriend doesn't deserve what he's doing behind her back. What is the best way to remove myself from this situation and stop myself talking to him? I know from reading this people are probably wondering why i'd find it so hard to remove myself from somebody like that but if you were in my shoes you'd maybe understand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): Orignal poster: I've not spoken to him for over a week. He was online yesterday and said "i don't see you often enough :(" and now i feel bad, which i always end up feeling.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 October 2010):
 Well firstly this isnt a friendship you just said it all he does is treat you like a piece of meat. Its awful to have feelings for someone and for them not only not return them but also use them to there advantage, its horrible to have to go through that but hun you really need to be strong here, delete his phone number and everything else like email ect, any way of contact, if he contacts you, ya have to tell him that you want nothing to do with him, yes it will hurt for a while but its the best way in the long run, if you see him in public and he grabs you inapropriately again then look at him firmly and tell him if he ever touches you like that again you will report him for sexual harrasement and keep to your word, try and get him out of your mind, and the first and biggest step is to cut contact, then it just takes time to try and forget about him, go out with friends and socialise and do things you enjoy and you might not believe me now but through time you will look back and wonder what you ever saw in a sleeze like this, and sooner or later his girlfriend will finally realise what he is like and he will end up all alone. Good Luck hun.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (2 October 2010):
 Don't have anything more to do with the Dog. Threaten to tell his girlfriend if he doesnt leave you alone. His behaviour is shocking towards you. You don't like it, you don't have to put up with it. He is sexually abusing you, did you know that? Get rid of the dead wood in your life and find some nicer people to hang around with. Hope this helps
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