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writes:Hi,I recently bumped into an old school friend and wehad a nice chat, at the end of the evening after the skittles match i asked for her tel No, which was great.Speaking to a friend he said she was on her own,so the next evening i phoned her and said it was lovely to see her again and it would be nice to meet up for a chat.She explained that she had just moved house,and not long ago finished a long term relationship, so i said that it would be fine to give her time to sort out herhouse-move and personal feelings, and she did say she would definitely contact me in the near future.So you are saying what's the problem, it is more of a dilemma, i have not stopped thinking about her since we met, which is a fortnight ago, and always smile when her name pops in my head, it is a nice feelingand can't wait to see her again, that's the big question how long do i leave it before i take the decision to contact her to let her know how i feel.Any comments would be welcome. Reply to this Question
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 dont let her know how u feel.if anything,the woman told you she got out of a long term relationship. she doesnt want anyone telling her how she feels.keep things casual. u knew her before so it would be easier that u suggest something laid-back e.g take her for breakfast .dont get all romantic with her ur gonna scare her off. wait 2 weeks before she contacts u. if she doesnt call u and u do call her,suggest u do something casual. maybe jogging? suggest somethin she wont be able to reject. u need to practice this before u ask :)goodluck
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