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writes:I need help and advice. Me and my boyfriend have been together six months, but recently he's been too busy for me and its like i dont exist. We normally talk everynight on the phone before we go to sleep, but he hasnt done it once the past 2-3 weeks, also i dont think he's being honest with me, i ask him question's and why he's been 'too busy for me' and all i get it sorry, and i dont want an apology i just want to know why? I've tried telling him but he doesnt understand. The love we had is starting to fade more everyday because he doesnt make me feel like his girlfriend, i dont want to break his heart but he's making it harder for me, by doing all this. Any advive would be much appreciated.x Reply to this Question
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reader, Jeffro1977  +, writes (3 October 2010):
The relationship has only been alive for 6 months. Your putting to much focus on it. He knows everything about everything about you. All you have to do is make him curious. Stop calling, find some new girlfriends, just forget about him for a while. Don't do what the lady above me said, that will just push him away.
A good relation ship takes 2 people being creative about "now" having experiences to share. This is a very hard skill to master, especially when you both are together 24/7 so appreciate that you are given the time to find those awesome experiences that you can share with him. Offer to take him along to a few.
Paranoia, Bugging, and Complaining are the 3 killers. Good luck finding your inner strength. Your B/F will perk up once you become exciting again.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 Well darling if he is pushing you away there isnt much more you can do, tell him you feel like he doesnt want you anymore and that you want things to go back to the way they were, ask him what his reasons are for being so distant and get him to tell you. Then you can work out why he is being distant and get it sorted. G'Luck x
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