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He's not circumcised, what do I do?

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Question - (2 October 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 October 2010)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey, this is a stupid question but...when I'm kissing my bf, he puts my hand on his erect penis, and I'm not really sure what to do! He's not circumcised, so I'm wondering if I should move my hand so that the head pops in and out of the foreskin kinda? Also, do I need to make my hand a little moist so it slips up and down his penis smoothly? Thanks :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010):

There is many things you can do with his penis ... with your hand, you can glide his foreskin up and down (just be careful not to pull too hard when you pull down cuz you will hurt him). One thing I like to do ... is to put my tongue bettwen then foreskin and the gland ... The gland for an uncircumcised is more sticky so you will need a bit of lub if you want to rub with your hand directly on the gland. And dont forget to relax, explore and have fun. not everyone like the same thing ...

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A female reader, followtheblackrabbit Cayman Islands +, writes (3 October 2010):

followtheblackrabbit agony auntFrom what I've read, yes you should use a lubricant like oil or lotion. If you pull the skin down too far (especially without lubrication), it can be painful. Because the skin is so sensitive, you only need to cup your hand around the penis and move your hand gently but firmly. Move it so it covers and uncovers the head, but again, don't pull the skin down too far. It would help to ask your boyfriend how he usually does it and how he likes to be touched...you can then take his lead and do it as he prefers. Hope this helped!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010):

You can ask him. I'm circumcised, but my roomie in college wasn't, and from what I remember him telling me, yeah, it feels good when the foreskin moves back and forth. Mind you, I know this from discussions only, not taking part. We used to debate the pros and cons of circumcision since he felt he was a "real man" for being "unaltered", or some such crap :)

Anyway, have fun.

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A male reader, activeplay United States +, writes (3 October 2010):

activeplay agony auntThe foreskin really isn't a problem, to be honest he is happy that he has a girl playing with him. I don't want to be rude, but I am going to be blunt. Think of it, if a guy plays with you and you care about him, how does that make you feel? Also, if your vagina didn't get moist, and a guy tried to finger you, how would that feel. That's just a simple thing to think about.

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