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anonymous
writes:I've been seeing this guy at work for three years... Judy found out that he is married and has a newborn baby. Our boss wanted to congratulate him on the baby in a meeting. He has two houses... He's technically my boss. I've fallen for him bad and definitely love him.. How can I possibly get over him?! My heart is broken. =(
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): so for 3 years you have been sleeping with your married boss. ouch! i know it hurts. so what now ? he knows you know he is married. are you still with him. any thoughts on suing him for sexual harressment in the workplace? how did he justify his marriage and a lover at the same time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): I was in a similar situation but not as long as you& we never slept together or kissed.
He was a rep for the company I work for. We weren't based in the same city.We used to exchange flirty emails& on a night out we swapped numbers & danced etc...
About 5 months in to this- emailing, txting etc gevtold me he was married & wife was pregnant. I never felt so sick-for 2 reasons: 1 I had fallen for him so much& was planning a wkend away together 2. How can abguy be so selfish& do that to his pregnant wife???!!
To cut the long story I told him it was over with us- he still persued me & even though I was tempted I put myselfbin his wides shoes! How would I feel if I was the pregnant wife?
Anyways it was hard, I cried for ages but then you do get over it at some point- best thing is to cut all ties with him. He isn't worth it!
Good luck x
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