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I call my ex every time I get drunk to tell her I love her and miss her.

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Question - (15 June 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi whenever I go partying with my friends and get drunk I call my now ex girlfriend from about 3 months ago to tell her I love her, and miss her. I don't want to do it. But everytime I drink I think of her and miss those times together. I dont know how she feels because she only picks up and I do all the talking. I probably look like a moron for doing it, But whenever I drink I just want to tell her how much I loved her and miss being with her

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009):

When I broke up with my ex boyfriend I laid off the sauce and kept to having a drink or during the day... just so I wouldn't call the ex. He lived in FL and I moved back to AZ but still... I KNEW if I got housed, I would pick up that phone like a jackass and dial.. making me look like a tool. Friends were frustrated with me cuz I'd go home early and go paint or read or do lame things, but at least I dind't call him. It was the smartest thing I couldn've done - and now 2 years later my friends are actually impressed with me and loom to me for advice.

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A female reader, malibugirl Ireland +, writes (15 June 2009):

It's known as drink and dial. You are not being very fair, to yourself or her. Delete the number, if you can remember it off by heart, leave your a phone at home or leave it switched off, put a message in your phone as you switch it on saying.. don't ring ____ . If she's moved, she is loosing respect for you or feeling sorry for you. If she is trying to move on from you, you are not helping the situation. Call her at a respectable time. Calling her only when you're drunk doesn't say you think very much of her.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (15 June 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntI found the perfect phone for you:

http://news.cnet.com/8301-10784_3-6088879-7.html

Problem solved!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009):

Don't do it! It's really creepy for the girl, and it'll make you feel an idiot when you sober up. I know whereof I speak: I found out the number of a girlfriend who I had split up with twenty years ago and called her up drunk to tell her that I still loved her. She was very kind but also very firm, and she sent me a text the next day telling me never to call her again. I stopped drinking after that and have never done any of those stupid sort of things ever since. If you can't stop calling her, stop drinking - it's not too difficult.

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A male reader, lionelhutz United States +, writes (15 June 2009):

If things are completely over, delete her number. More importantly, drink in moderation. (Believe me, I know.)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009):

Been there and done that a million times over mate. It just makes you look like a total laughing stock in the end of it. Dont take your phone on a night out or give it to a mate that isnt gonna give you it when you plead with him/her.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (15 June 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntDelete her number, and give your phone to a mate to look after when you are out drinking.

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A female reader, sofia30 Ireland +, writes (15 June 2009):

Hi i no ecxally where your coming from! i think you should try not drink for a while until your totally over your ex! or text her when your sobar and ask her is there a chance you can work things out with her!

best of luck

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (15 June 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntBest to lay off the sauce until you either are over her or you can control yourself.

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A female reader, Sweety Pie United Kingdom +, writes (15 June 2009):

Sweety Pie agony auntDelete her number when your out drinking!!

Drunk dialing is not such a good plan in the morning ;) x

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