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I said I loved him back but hes still with his babys mum! Am I leading him on?

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Question - (15 June 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 June 2009)
A female Netherlands age 30-35, *onnaBlume writes:

i have been hooking up with a older boy who has a kid and a baby mama wich is fine but i do have to deal with her from time to time. for the first time in the history of me and this boy he was sober and called me to hang out with him so i was like ok this is strang he came over to my house and we watched tv and all this other stuff him being sober was a big step for me. well you can guess what happens but the whole night he kept saying i love you and i would kinda just look at him like what are you doing. so finally were having sex and he just stares into my eyes and said my name and then i love you. i didnt kn0ow what to do so i said it back. and since then he calls me everyday comes over texts me he loves me and all this stuff. but if he cheated on his baby's mama with me how can i be sure if im not the only one who is doing this too. i dont expect him to change but i have a feeling im leading him on. i dont mean it but i like how he is being after i said it back. ugh what to do about these men.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009):

Lol, I wouldn't worry too much about leading him on, he's just in it for the sex. You probably aren't the only one either. Guys say all sorts of things to get you to have sex or while your having sex, take it with a grain of salt. Nah, he won't change and he's just getting a bit on the side, nothing more to it.

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