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I seen my dad having sex with my sister

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Question - (15 June 2009) 10 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2009)
A male United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

My dad is screwing my sister. I am 14 and my sister is 15. Lately I have noticed my dad all over her, holding her, rubbing her back, kissing her forehead. The other day I walk into the living room and see my dad laying on top of my sister. My sister had this strange look on her face when she saw me put neither of them moved. I began thinking about what I had seen lately and left the room and went outside. I just needed to know what was going on so I looked into the window behind the house and saw what I didn't want to see. I saw my had his penis inside my sister. I don't know if I should tell somebody or what. I am just in shock right now. I am so scared.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009):

you should tell it to your mom maybe your sister is afraid to tell it to anybody...help her to get over this

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009):

You need to tell someone about what u saw. it is sick

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A male reader, trini United States +, writes (15 June 2009):

You need to tell an adult, any adult. They will take it from there. I know you feel scared maybe because this man who you trusted your whole life is using his "power" to do this to your sister. But YOU have to stop it because your sister is probably just as scared as you are, if not more. And being her brother if you can't be there to protect her...who will? Tell an adult in school who is not a part of your family. I think that will be the best option to get this situation resolved. Stay strong kid and let your sister know everything will be okay.

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A female reader, Samii United Kingdom +, writes (15 June 2009):

Samii agony aunti agree, You should tell your mom or the police but whatever you do you need to tell someone. This is wrong and should not be going on at all. I know it will be hard and it is a lot to handle and your age but please let somebody know.

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A female reader, ilovebowsandcherries United Kingdom +, writes (15 June 2009):

ilovebowsandcherries agony auntyou need to tell your mum or someone you can trust even tell the police what's going on...

this isn't right and not normal...

hun don't be scared we are all here for you and so will everyone else be!

what you seen is very wrong and you're right to be in shock you just need to tell someone you can really trust and get the police involved.

what your dad is doing isn't right and someone needs to stop him.

keep us updated!!

i hope it gets sorted hun.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009):

tell the police about what you saw..this is INCEST and is against the law!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009):

Speak to your mother, your teacher, your priest, the police...... someone - your father is sexually abusing your sister and this is wrong. You have done nothing wrong.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009):

Oh my God, i am so sorry you are in a situation like this. Are you still living with your mom? I suggest you tell her about it without your sister and dad around. Sit with her or anybody like your aunt or grandmother, any female relative who you are closest to. I think you need an adult in your family circle to interfere if your mom is not available. Or talk to a counselor at school whom you know you can trust. This is not right. And don't ever be scared. You are young man and you have a life ahead of you. I know it is very difficult on your part but do all your best to think positive for your own life and not be affected by what happened.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009):

I know you are scared, but don't worry. You are doing the right thing by writing on here. Your father is abusing your sister and that is just not acceptable. Your sister will grow up and she will have so many psychological problems in the future (if not already).

I don't know what kind of family you have, but you can tell your mother or a teacher that you trust. In fact, I think many people on here will agree with me that you should call the police as soon as possible and report this issue.

what's going on in your house is child abuse and it is a crime. By telling others, you will protect your sister and yourself. And don't worry, you wont get into any trouble. Not at all. The authorities will make sure that you are protected. But whatever you do, do not confront your father directly; this can lead him to denial and other things.

Be strong and tell other adults you trust or call 911. This is a very serious matter.

Keeps us updated.

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A male reader, dark rose United States +, writes (15 June 2009):

Be very careful. if you're not he could possibly do something to you. quickly tell your mother or the police or a neighbor. ask someone close to you for help as well so that nothing happens. most time's these situations have around three outcomes, 1)he finds a way to shut you up 2) your sister does (if she is consenting to the affair. or 3) the father is arrested. and be careful telling your mom she might not want to.

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