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writes:Today is valentines day.... and he hasn't even called me or sent me nothing! Reply to this Question
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (14 February 2009):
 It's an over-rated over commercialised holiday, where roses and chocolates cost twice as much as the rest of the year, and everybody keeps banging on about it.
Maybe he hates valentines day.
I prefer to show my wife how much I love her every other day of the year and ignore today just because of the principle.
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reader, scruffy +, writes (14 February 2009):
 how long have you been dating,
cus if it's not long,
probably just trying to gain power or play hard to get,
you know what guys are like.
x
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (14 February 2009):
 There's not a lot to go on here, but not all guys are good at this kind of thing. Not all women are! At the least, he's innocently insensitive, at worst, he's a selfish bugga and you might be better off moving on! But the day is still young. How do you know he hasn't got something planned up his sleave for later??? Maybe a bit early to be concerned?C xxxxx
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (14 February 2009):
 Its only 11am east coast time. its still so early.
i say at least wait til the day is over before getting so upset. Do not say or bring anything up.
if he hasn't even called to wish you a Valentines Day by tommorrow I say ignore him and move on to someone better. Until then, be patient. give him the benefit of the doubt. He might of not even be awake yet. haha
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reader, AskEve +, writes (14 February 2009):
 If you have been seeing him for a while then it would have been nice if he'd have taken you out to dinner or at least sent you a card. It's possible he doesn't even believe in valentine's day. He might surprise you yet you never know. If he doesn't and you don't hear from him then let him know you were upset. He might do something special for you to make up for it.
~Eve~
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (14 February 2009):
You are 5 hours behind me and it's only 3pm here.
If he hasn't been in touch by midnight then call him and dump him.
But don't sit by the phone like a little puppy. You are better than that.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): More information please.
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reader, MelodyB +, writes (14 February 2009):
 I know it can be so painful if we think that we are loved by the gifts we receive, but that isn't necessarily the case! Just because he doesn't think Valentines day gifts are necessary it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Does he show you that he cares about you in other ways? Does he listen to your feelings and notice what things are important to you and act on them? Maybe he just doesn't know that Valentines are important to you? Plus, the day is just beginning. Give him time, you never know, he may have a surprise waiting for you yet!
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