Should I still confront her even though my bestie told me not to confront her?

A female age 30-35, *elloder123 writes:

Well, my bestie hangs out with my ex-bestfriend and my ex-bestfriend talks about my friends which are negative things. My bestie tells me everything my ex-bestfriends tells her and my bestie tells me. My bestie also told me to tell people that she didn't say anything to me. I told the people who my ex-bestfriend were talking about and they all wanted to confront her. The problem is my ex-bestfriend doesn't know my bestie is telling me all of these stuff and my parents and my ex-bestfriend's parents are friends. I don't know what to do! Should I still confront her even though my bestie told me not to confront her?

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