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*weetpie88
writes:hey guys i reali do need some advice from u cz i got some problem. i met this guy and he is a family friend he likes me and i like him 2 however he is way older then me and has kids. he knew that i had bf before but i neva told him i've slept with my ex tho and he asked me to marry him. should i tell him the truth that im not virgin or what bcuz i think he expect me to be one im confused plz help.and i am scared that if i tell him that im not virgin might change everything between us.
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reader, sweetpie88 +, writes (15 February 2009):
sweetpie88 is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey guys thank you again cz i spoke to him and i've been honest with him and he did not mind if i were virgin or not. your advice did reali help me which im grateful to you.
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reader, sweetpie88 +, writes (14 February 2009):
sweetpie88 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx but i think i need to be strong enough to let it out. thank you guys for ur advice.xx
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reader, sweetpie88 +, writes (14 February 2009):
sweetpie88 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx but i think i need to be strong enough to let it out. thank you guys for ur advice.xx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (14 February 2009):
I think you should tell him, both to be honest from the start and also to protect yourself.
Why is it do important that you be a virgin? It sounds as though he just wants a young girl to take advantage of. If he knows the truth then you will know if he loves YOU or just your age.
Also, do you want to marry a man with children when you are so young? If you do then don't have kids of your own for a while. Live your life a bit first.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): Maybe you should tell him, I mean he's not exactly a virgin either, if he really is nice and he cares for you it won't matter in the slightest. If it does change things, then he's not the guy the thought he was and it's better to find that out now.
It shouldn't change anything between you, he'd have to be a real asshole for that to matter.
Best to be open and honest with him, don't let this fester inside of you.
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