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writes:My ex boyfriend dumped me 6 months ago, but he keeps wanting us to be friends. Even though we fight all the time. He's now in a rebound relationship with a woman trying to get out of a bad marriage. He's angry at me because I have a hard time being friends with him but at the same time he gets jealous if I'm with someone else. I was his first at 32 years old. It just seems like he's angry at me for things not working out the way he wanted them to and it's like he wanted to make me jealous with this other woman. He says I'm acting as if I'm in high school but to me it seems like he's playing games. I try to tell him straight up what I feel and he has always hid any strong emotion like it doesn't exist. Does he still harbour the love he says he doesn't feel any more. Is he covering it with his anger?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): I agree with lightning rod, he is just trying to control you. What are you going to do? Hang on and keep listening to him question you about everything you do? Naw, move on. Good Luck.
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reader, Eva Help +, writes (14 February 2009):
What you have to do is ask him straight up what his problem is. If he wants to be friends then why is he mad at you the whole time. If he doesn't stop being mad at you, you should tell him that you cant be friends. Its not fair on you.
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reader, lightningrod247 +, writes (14 February 2009):
First of all I dont think you should really be "friends" with your ex so soon after the breakup - maybe years down the road or something but that's ridiculous. Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. He's tryin to make you jealous.
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