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writes: married for 3.5 yr now with a 2.5 yr old daughter, was in good paying job till 6 months back, left the job due to move to different country without any family or friends. My husband has a great paying job in this new country and treats me like shit now that i dont have any job and take care of the daughgter alone. his words "his job is to make money and " that I should work/do things at home without any help from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007): Pick the baby up and go for a walk! I could have cared less if my husband helped with the housework or baby, I just wanted him to quit beating me, withholding money, food,transportation, phone,clothes,etc. I would have given my eye teeth just to have the basic necessities of life for my baby and I and not to be abused!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2007): Oh dear. First of all, you have my sympathies.
It's hard enough to leave your family and friends. On top of that to not have a job where I could meet new people would drive me crazy.
I suggest that you talk to your husband and let him know how you feel, maybe he doesn't realize how much he's hurting you? The fact that you stay at home to take care of your daughter (which actually is a job), does not mean that he can't help around the house a bit.
Second, since he has such a good paying job, it would probably be quite all right for him to pay for a place in day-care for your daughter so that you could go out and find a job, that way the two of you would be equal and he can't tell you that you should do all the chores in the house.
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