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writes:Not sure whether to carry on.My wife and I have been together for 15 years. We have 2 little ones 4 and 6We seem to spend a lot of time unhappy and are drifting apart.I have been battling with the problem for years now. She says she doesn't want to have sex and doesn't want to go to counselling. Its like a brick wall. It's as if she just wants me for the things I provide not for me. Have asked for a lot of help and don't seem to be getting anywhere.Any ideas ? Just about had enough. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): Often people need a jolt back to reality to make them realise that you really would leave them !
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (2 January 2007):
 If she won't go for counseling then you go by yourself. If down the road you decide to end the marriage at least you can tell the kids that you did try to save it. Maybe if she sees you are serious about the state of your marriage, she'll straighten up and try to fix it with you. Nobody should have to be miserable in their marriage, life is too short for that nonsense. Good luck.
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