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writes: im always told how gorgeous and preety i am..all that crap. but ive been single for 2 years now. i just moved to the suburbs from nyc..i hear the guys talk about my looks, but they'll never actually talk to me. ive lived here since the school year started and i think thats enough time for people to get used to my presense, right? i have some friends in the school but their all girls and more so aquantances. im not stuck up, but people tell me that the guys are just intimidated by me. thease guys walk around calling me the model girl..lol but they wont talk to me. all my friends have boyfriends and i want one too. (not trying to follow the crowd or anything, but im bored and lonely) usually i can be preety outgoing and talk to a guy im interested in but doing it in school is wierd. so is it me thats doing something wrong? i honestly think im taking things to serious and i shouldent be desperate for a man. but to bad for myself because i am. Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (1 January 2007):
 Ejoy being young free and single for as long as you possible can, go out with your mates, have a laugh, casual date guys.
All these guys that talk about your model looks probably think that you are way out of their league and that you would knock them back if they asked you out.
If there is a guy you like do abit of light flirting, make eye contact, point your body in his direction ect. Let it be known that you are approachable.
But as you say, don't ever appear desperate for a man, let it all happen through the natural course of time, but it will happen.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2007): If you are desperate for a man it shows and that is probably why the guys are not talking to you....develop some other interests and activities in your new surroundings that will put you in contact with some of the same people in a non threatening social situation and try to decelop friendships first, don't cast off a girl friend or any friend to hang out with just because you think it is boring not to have a date....that is how you get introduced to others and you need to focus on developing a sense of humor and a personality, something many pretty girls don't think they need to do, not saying that applies to you, but my guess is it does, you aren't tyring hard enough to be a pal to other people....
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