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writes: Please can you advise me. I am still in love with my ex boyfriend. I have been in love with him since March, our relationship finished badly in May after him saying he loved me (he just ignored me). Then he got back in contact with me in July, and he explained his actions to me. We have been out several times since then over the 6 months and in august he said he wanted me to move in and ask me to marry him in 6 months time. Then again he cooled off and didnt see each other for 8 weeks. I asked before about this and was advised to write a letter to him, which I did and needed him to be more consistent and decide if he wants me or not. I told him i liked him a lot and wanted more from him. He responded really well to it, trying hard and being considerate, but this only lasted a short while. We are now just in contact with a text or 2 each fortnight as it hurts too much to see him. I know it sounds absolutely hopeless, and believe me, I feel hopeless too, but I am so in love with the guy. I have never told him i love him. What can I do? I thought i would have fallen out of love by now, but it seems to be growing more and more. Its really making me so sad.
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reader, *kez*  +, writes (1 January 2007):
 I think you should tell him how you feel and be honest and if he truly loves you it will work out. if he doesnt respond the way you want to then move on. Its hard i knowive been through this you just need to vahnge your number and move on it will work believe me..
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reader, electronica +, writes (1 January 2007):
 Hello there dear,
Well after reading this message it seemed to me that ur ex boyfriend is inlove with you but he's soo committment-phobic! I think you should talk to him honestly about everything. And if it doesn't work out, u need to let him go and live your life. Being in contact without defining the relationship will only hurt you more and more.
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