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writes: Last night, my boyfriend forced me to have sex with him. We just finished having a really bad fight and sex was the last thing on my mind. He ripped my clothes off and threatened me with a knife. I cried the entire time. He just kept telling me to shut up or he'll "deck me". I know that this is rape but how should I feel about it? I was wet the entire time so does this mean that I wanted it? Reply to this Question
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reader, kisawaymytears886 +, writes (21 December 2005):
 your body naturaly got turned on because thats how it works you honestly though should get help you'll feel better if you get it off your chest were all here for you
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reader, Uncle Robin +, writes (16 December 2005):
It was rape, he's an animal, leave him.
(1) If you don't go to the police (this can be an ordeal unfortunately), think about it.
(2) Act in solidarity with other women and to protect other women from him. Tell your friends, what has happened.
(3) Your feelings may uncertain about what actually happened, so try and be with friends, there are many supoort groups that will listen to you and talk with you.
(4) Take care, and try to stand up to men like him. I would like to feel that rapists actually disgust the majority of men. There is no continuum of sexual assault, if its not wanted its wrong, and rape is rape.
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (15 December 2005):
 Yes that is rape and you need to talk to someone about it, maybe an adult you can trust or a councilor, i also agree with QOTU you can come hear to talk if you need too, you in no way deserved that to happen to you and he had no right to do that to you, if he tries it again go str8 to the police or if they are to far away find someone to help you even if its a stranger, dont be embrassed. good luck and dont be scared to tell someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2005): look love this is rape as you said and no it doesnt mean that you wanted it he threatened you into it and you need to tell some one that you can talk to and maybe go to the police but be careful how you go about it and remember he wont harm u k good luck x
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reader, QOTU +, writes (15 December 2005):
 Your body reacting wasn't you LIKING it, it's called involuntary bodily reactions - therefore, you can't help it. It's still rape if he forced you into it... The first step you need to take is to tell someone with authority. DOn't be ashamed or embarrassed, because you WILL get the support you need... things will be okay. He won't hurt you - he's just as scared as you are, because he threatened you.
Good luck! And if you need to talk to someone, still, keep coming here. :-D We'll help you out!
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (15 December 2005):
 If you said no then it was rape, it doesn't matter if you were wet or not. Your body is designed in a way that stimulation to your genitals is going to make you wet, that does not mean that you wanted to have sex, that just means your body did what it was supposed to do. You need to tell someone, you do not have to be alone or emabarrased about this. Take care.
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