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writes:hi aunts and uncles,honestly, im a bit nervous. i work in siemens saudi arabia and right now going through a very tough phase due to my recent divorce seven months ago of an eighteen year long marriage and three kids. i was just too down and i like using the search engine 'ask jeeves'. i just typed missing him and selected your site from the menu. liked it and here i am. i just hope to get deviated and distracted from my present situation and hopefully dear cupid will help me get away from my present and past at least for a while. i really need a break! thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow! this is really awesome....I just can't believe I got response so soon and that too so lovingly. I am glad I found dearcupid and I am already feeling better. Thanks a lot!
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (1 November 2007):
 Hi,
Glad you joined us.
Its tough going through divorce, and you feel like nothing will be normal again, but it will. Give yourself time to heal and try to keep your chin up.
The good thing about coming on here is that there are so many people in the same type of situation as you. It really makes you think that your not alone. It certainly helped me in my hour of need.
I came on here for some advice, and got some fairly straight answers, some of them I didnt want to hear. But then I stared to answer other people's questions and it really helped my own situation. (I guess its because I am nosey). I must warn you though its very adictive.
XX take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): Why did your marriage end? I can understand how you feel. We all go through a doldrums situation at the end of any relationship, but the key is to not jump straight into another relationship straight away. Do you have any friends and family around you? are you able to keep busy, apart from doing stuff for the kids, you need to be doing stuff for you. Get out and meet new people, not relations stuff yet, you do need to spend some time alone to get to know yourself, and love yourself. Let me know more info and i will try and help.
take care
xx
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