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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 April 2009: Glad to hear that, I'm really pleased for you honey. Take care and enjoy your new life...you certainly deserve it.
XXXX... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 17 July 2008: Sarcy, its only expensive because you both made it that way. I totally understand how upset and bitter you were, but you cannot stop this man from seeing his child, no matter how you feel about it. Because its totally un-fair on your son. You are ... (read in full...)
Dating a married man for 3 years and he treats me like a queen. But I'm starting to worry. What should I do?
Q. I've been dating a married man for 3 years. I ignored him for a year because of that reson but he pursed and treated me like a queen. He says he's leaving date after date but their's always an excuse. He's been w her since he was 12 has 2 kids and ...
A. 22 May 2008: Ok hold on!!!
Firstly I did not call every woman that was married an "Evil Cow". If you could be bothered to read my answer more carefully , I actually said "For all we know she could be". Yes my ex-husband did have an affair, and begged to come... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 May 2008: Uncle Phil is right babe!! dont hang it out anymore than you have to. Except he is gone and have a good cry, but for goodness sake dont let those solicitors have any more of your money. Even if they get him to admit he is the biggest ar**hole in the ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 May 2008: Honey!! I cant believe that you called him. Its so obvious that he doesnt want anything to do with you, why keep hurting yourself. You know deep down that the only reason you called him was to get him to respond to you!! I dont know why you bother? ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 14 April 2008: I kind of agree with the last poster. Solicitors will do anything to earn some more out of the poor sod going through this pain.
Really it doesnt matter what you divorce him for, its not as if he will have lying cheating sh** across his head. No b... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 10 March 2008: I wish I could give you a hug, I knew you would get there in the end.
Hip Hip Horah XXXXXX... (read in full...)
My husband is in love with his affair but determined to work on our marriage! How do I convince him thsi woman is not as perfect as appears to him?
Q. When I found out about my husband's affair 2 months ago we decided to go to relate and try to work out a better marriage for us both. And although it's been hard we have made progress and have learnt a lot about each other. we have been married 21 ...
A. 10 March 2008: Darling,
He compares you to a plain box of chocolates, and says IN FRONT OF YOU, that she was the nice exciting box.
Wake up babe, he doesnt want to be there. He should be begging you to forgive him, and do anything to make you feel good about yo... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 5 March 2008: Thank God!!! you are actually staring to fight this man back. I can also tell you why he cant look you in the face, it's guilt nothing else. For whatever reason he has for his actions, does not mean you have to take it laying down.
Go for what... (read in full...)
Please help me win my husband back!!
Q. Hi my husband has left me due to how I was treating him. Over the years I took him for granted and I would lower him and call him names whenever I was upset with him or even with other issues. It got really bad. The problem is that I never meant to ...
A. 3 March 2008: You say you have changed, but is that just because you want him back. How long before you go back to how you were, when! by your own admission you were so nasty.
To my mind people dont change, they can bend a little but they cannot actually chan... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me what a "spit roast" is???
Q. What's a "spit roast" all these lasses at school where taking the piss out of a girl at school because she didn't know what it meant and I just laughed along so they didn't know any different. What does it actually mean? ...
A. 3 March 2008: Just wanted to say that my boyfriend tried this when he was younger and it wasnt very Successful (pardon the pun).
Apparantly he was with an ex girlfriend whose morals left a lot to be desired, and she wanted his mate to join in. One thing, the boys... (read in full...)
It was too complicated but now he's all I can think about!
Q. Im 19 and last year i met a guy who was 8yrs older, he had recently broken up with his girlfriend of 8 years (her little sister used to be a good friend of mine). we met up a couple of times but only ever to go out for drinks and my friends were ...
A. 3 March 2008: Laura, has given you good advice. If you dont take a chance you will never know.
Anyway we all have to start some where dont we? How many of us have to kiss a few frogs to get to our prince, or princess. I know I did.
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Is it possible for someone to change if they meet the right person?
Q. I'm 17 and I was in a long term relationship that lasted just under 3 years and it finished because I became pregnant and wanted to keep the baby. I had a missed miscarriage and am grateful that this made me realise how wrong my ex was for me. He'd ...
A. 3 March 2008: Darling you worry to much! and thats your biggest problem. Your ex has made you feel bad about yourself, when he is the one that should feel bad, not you.
Get your priority's right. First there is no way that you are fat. Second, if your mates tell... (read in full...)
Is she pregnant or trapping him?
Q. I have a problem, I split from my 10 year relationship back in September as I was really unhappy, I was pregnant last year and had a miscarriage I was a emotional wrack and decided to end things with my boyfriend as I did not know what I wanted… A ...
A. 3 March 2008: No you wont lose him darling. She is acting like a complete nutter, and if she is pregnant (which I very much doubt) there is not a lot you can do. He loves you and is with you, so believe in your relationship. And dont let this woman come between ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 March 2008: Hi Honey,
Reading your post, I can see that you have still got extremely strong feelings for this man. I know that its hard to let go of any hope, but I think that your husband has proved over and over again that you have no option. He has move... (read in full...)
Hmmmm.... do I believe her story? Do you???
Q. I left town for two weeks and when I came back one of our condoms was missing. She told me that her daughter's dad tried to have sex with her and she said no and he slept on the floor in the living room where I pay rent. She said she was out by ...
A. 27 February 2008: Ohhh!
I dont think I would believe it, sounds very fishy to me.... (read in full...)
She was dating a co-worker that I didn't know about until I had reason to check her texts messages...
Q. She was dating a co-worker that I didn't know about until I had reason to check her texts messages. If I had not done so I believe she would have kept it going. She told me that she has only been out with him twice once with other co-workers and ...
A. 27 February 2008: Hi,
What was in the text messages?. Do you feel that it was innocent, because if the text messages dont hint to anything sexual, she could be telling the truth.
I was friends with my boss for years without anything happening, and he was in love ... (read in full...)
He does not make me feel wanted, I feel we are strangers living together out of fear of being alone!
Q. my fience and i have been together for 5 years now he is always tired and doesn't want to have sex as much as i do. i am 20 and he is 23, we are too young for this to be happening. i try wearing sexy stuff, i keep myself clean, i always try to make ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hi,
Sounds to me like he needs a little nudge to show just how fed up you are with the situation. If you have have cheated on him and he has done the same, its sounds like you are about even. I think the main point is that you are taking each othe... (read in full...)
My husband is in love with his affair but determined to work on our marriage! How do I convince him thsi woman is not as perfect as appears to him?
Q. When I found out about my husband's affair 2 months ago we decided to go to relate and try to work out a better marriage for us both. And although it's been hard we have made progress and have learnt a lot about each other. we have been married 21 ...
A. 25 February 2008: Hi,
Having been through this myself, I can tell you that he is not trying to save your marriage. If he were he would have lost all contact with this woman. Also you cannot put all the blame at her feet, she did not force him to have sex. He went... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I went back to another guy's house after a night out?
Q. This is kind of the situation i am in. I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months and do love him loads. Never have broken up or had a break before. But recently i found myself going out and flirting more and kind of wishing i was single. Me and my ...
A. 25 February 2008: Hi,
You had a wake up call, and although I really believe that honesty is the most important thing in a relationship, you wasnt technically with him. So its up to you whether you admit it, but I think the other aunts are right and you should forg... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to have sex until he loses weight, how to convince him to reconsider?
Q. I am writing to you about this problem I'm having. Me and my husband have a good sex life, but recently his latest suggestion has made me feel sick. I wore sexy lingerie in bed one night, but got no response sexually from him. I asked him why ...
A. 25 February 2008: Hi,
I have read your post over and over, and I'm not sure that I get it. Are you saying that he wants to lose weight or gain weight. That kind of weight on anyone is really dangerous, and he could die. I'm sure that sort of size is, on the verg... (read in full...)
He ended our relationship quite abruptly, will he ever come back to me?
Q. i was in a realionship with my partener for seven years. we have a 5 year old daughter together 3 weks again he telephoned me and told me it was over and hed meet someone else he has started a new relationship with her and i'm totally heartbroken i ...
A. 25 February 2008: Hi,
It's the pits when someone leaves and you dont know where it went wrong, and I really feel for you. But if your partner has decided that he no longer wants to be part of the family, unfortunatly there's not much you can do.
You will get lots... (read in full...)
She confessed she explored her bisexual side, will this revelation shadow our relationship?
Q. i wanted to kno more about my girlfriend and she told me i was her first kiss and tonight she told me that she was bi and that she preformed a sexual act on a girl i love her and i dont wanna break up with her she is now cryin i love her and i dont ...
A. 25 February 2008: Honey,
Loads of people go through this kind of stuff as they grow up. At least she feels that she can be honest with you, although if she is the same age as you, sex should be the last thing on your minds.
I am a bit confused by your post though! ... (read in full...)
How do I show him that he isn't "sick" for dating me, despite of our considerable age difference?
Q. Alright, So I have been in and out of a relationship with this man who is 33 years older than me. I'm 21, 22 next month. I have a great time with him and he is one of my best friends. I'm very attracted to him and we have alot of things in common. ...
A. 20 February 2008: Hi,
You are nearly 22, and its your choice, so of course he isnt sick. So what if there is an age gap, its not like your a child is it. I think that you need to point out that any bad comments that are made about either of you, are probably out of J... (read in full...)
Attempting anal for the first time... Should I use gloves?
Q. Heya how you doing. I think the site is wonderful and i'm sure you can help me with my problem, ok here it goes, I'm 22 year old dmale and i want to try out my fantasy of anal sex with my gf, didn't think she would agree to it but she did and we are ...
A. 19 February 2008: Why are you scratching, with your finger up your wifes bum.
Does it make you feel itchy then... LOL.
How about a shepskin mitten, that will be smooth and keep your hands warm as well.....he...he..he... (read in full...)
I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months but he told me last night that he has met someone else and is leaving... but I've just found out that I'm pregnant by him.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months but he told me last night that he has met someone else and is leaving... but I've just found out that I'm pregnant by him. Please help!...
A. 19 February 2008: What the hell are you thinking getting pregnant at 10-12 years old. This has to be a mistake surely.
If you are pregnant and are not just saying this to try and get him back, then you need to tell your parents. If they love you enough they will help... (read in full...)
The 'safe but unhappy' longterm or a risk on a wonderful older man?
Q. I am a 23-year old female. I met my partner 3 years ago and fell madly in love. He was without doubt the person I wanted to be with forever, marriage kids, the lot. But things have been declining for the last year, he has become not only less ...
A. 19 February 2008: Hi,
Really, you should sort out the problems with your partner first. If he cannot see how he is making you feel, then tell him outright.
The reason that you have doubts about the new guy, is because deep down you know this is wrong. I'm affraid ... (read in full...)
I can't stand him looking at other girls! What do I do?
Q. I am married to a gorgeous guy much younger than me and we are basically very happy. I just need helpwith one thing...... he really stares at other women. I've talked to him about it and he reassures me how muchhe loves me and says he finds it ...
A. 18 February 2008: It's funny, but when I was younger, I wasnt aware of my husband doing this, and yet he went off with another girl. I met someone else eventually, and he looked at other girls all the time. He never made me insecure about him going off, he was too ... (read in full...)
Would it hurt if I told him he has a small one?
Q. would it hurt a mans pride to tell them they have a small penis? especially if they are already an insecure person....
A. 18 February 2008: Anon-e-mouse.
Yes they do have 2 inches... FUR LENGTH I think....LOL... (read in full...)
Attempting anal for the first time... Should I use gloves?
Q. Heya how you doing. I think the site is wonderful and i'm sure you can help me with my problem, ok here it goes, I'm 22 year old dmale and i want to try out my fantasy of anal sex with my gf, didn't think she would agree to it but she did and we are ...
A. 18 February 2008: Is this serious?. It sounds like you are going to examine her up the bum. Although I have never tried, so maybe its not stupid. Oh! I dont know I only answered because I felt sorry that nobody else had. ... (read in full...)
Would it hurt if I told him he has a small one?
Q. would it hurt a mans pride to tell them they have a small penis? especially if they are already an insecure person....
A. 18 February 2008: Would it hurt if a man told you you had a wide fanny. Well! there's your answer. I think it would.... (read in full...)
I'm so insecure about our relationship, but don't know what to do!
Q. Dear Aunts I am so insecure with my boyfriend, we have been thru so much. Before we went out we had ups and downs he always tested how much i really liked him coz his inseucre himself and he used to go back to his ex we'll call her *kiara* and ...
A. 18 February 2008: Oh Dear,
It really doesn't sound to me, like you will find happiness with this man. There has been to much going on for you to have any trust in him.
If you leave him I'm sure he will go back to his Ex, only because its easy though. What you have... (read in full...)
How can I be sure he likes me too?
Q. Hi THere, I wonder if you can help. I quite like a man at work but I am not sure how to tell if he likes me back. I've just come out of a long marriage a few months ago and I am ready to start dating again but I am very rusty because I married at 1...
A. 18 February 2008: Ahh! thats a really sweet post. Of course he likes you, otherwise he wouldn't waste so much time talking to you.
You need to find out a little about him, like! is he married or single, then you can start to strike up a conversation about other stuf... (read in full...)
It's like its okay for her to see someone but I can't.'
Q. I've been seeing a guy for about a month now. He has 2 kids, one is 2 and one is nearly 5. His ex, the mother of both children, recently found out he was dating me, after hacking into his e-mail account and reading a message from me. She then rep...
A. 18 February 2008: Well! You have to appreciate that she is probably upset, and thinks that's the only leverage that she has with him. Dont look on her to harshly, she may be a really nice person. Relationships can drive you to do things that you normally wouldn't. ... (read in full...)
He takes offence when I don't swallow his cum.
Q. I tried really hard to talk to my boyfriend about him cumming in my mouth, because he loves the thought, but whenever he has in the past, I've had to stop myself gagging. I don't think it's the taste, but kind of the gooey texture.. I just don't ...
A. 18 February 2008: Tish!!! how bloody funny. I love it.
On another note though! Sex is about having fun. And if you dont want him to do that in your mouth, say no.
Personally I think you should try Tish's advice, that will certainly do the trick.
XX... (read in full...)
All I want is a settled life with him and I want him love me as before.
Q. Hi Dear cupid, My problem is with my husband. I have married from 7 years he was fall in my love but I think he stopped to love me in the last two years although I keep my good looking but in fact I don't love him as before. All I hope is a s...
A. 18 February 2008: Sorry, your English is a lot better than my Egyptian, but I'm a little confused.
You want him to love you again like he did, but your not as in love with him either?
Could you explain a little more, because I think all you both need to do is to ge... (read in full...)
It's like its okay for her to see someone but I can't.'
Q. I've been seeing a guy for about a month now. He has 2 kids, one is 2 and one is nearly 5. His ex, the mother of both children, recently found out he was dating me, after hacking into his e-mail account and reading a message from me. She then rep...
A. 18 February 2008: Hi,
Look! they have only been apart for 8 months, and when you have kids with a man thats nothing. She sounds very jealous of him moving on, and until she finds a replacement for him, she is going to act this way.
You my darling, are doing thew bes... (read in full...)
How can you tell it was rape?
Q. I was 14 when it happened, most people don't believe me, not even my friends. I snuck out of the house to go meet 2 of my girlfriends and two of their guy friends. I had 7 shots, not that many but I passed out in the next 5 mintues. I keep waking u...
A. 18 February 2008: Hi darling,
It sounds to me like you were drugged. You say that you went to the hospital, what did they test you for? Did you explain what you think happened. And also tell them the ammount that you drunk. 7 shots is a fair ammount for a 14 year... (read in full...)
The stripper at his batchelor party "scratched his chest"!!!!
Q. I'm getting married in nearly two weeks. Yet I'm torn between so many problems. First one is about my fiance. I love him to death and he's a great guy but something happened on his bachelor night. A couple of weeks ago I told my fiance's best man ...
A. 18 February 2008: It was a bachelor party, so tell him off and then forget it. Why ruin your future because of one drunk night, and anyway the chances of you finding out the truth are very slim, as men do tend to stick together. If he is normally trustworthy and good ... (read in full...)
He wants a colostomy bag. He said it'd be his "man bag" and that it was trendy!
Q. I'm 24, my husband's 28, and last week he said to me he wanted a colostomy bag. He said it'd be his "man bag" and that it was trendy. I took it with a pinch of salt. However, he always does make an effort to look good, and is always very nice...
A. 18 February 2008: Get him a new brain to go with his bag?
I am sure that anyone that really has to wear one of these bags, could explain to him that its not out of choice.... (read in full...)
My husband has become very picky about things in the last few months, not just picky but very picky!
Q. My husband has become very picky about things in the last few months. Not just picky, but VERY picky, refusing to do ANYTHING until it's perfect. I told him that although his goal of perfection was noble, that it's impossible to get it absolute...
A. 18 February 2008: It sounds like he has some kind of dissorder to me. Like you say its not realistic to be that way.
Its a shame that your son missed out on having a good time on his birthday because of his ways. Perhaps he may have an under lying problem that you ... (read in full...)
He seen us kissing whilst dancing and it's now torturing me as this guy knows my boyfriend...
Q. I am in a loving relationship with a guy who I adore and have lived with for 2 years. On a night out about 4 weeks ago, I was dancing with a mutual friend of mine and my boyfriends. Another friend of ours has said he seen us kissing whilst dancing ...
A. 18 February 2008: Hi,
Blimey! you hardly comitted the crime of the centry have you?. If I were in your shoes, and I can see your point, I would completely laugh it off. If your boyfriend does find out, which I doubt that he will, just tell him you were drunk and the ... (read in full...)
Dating a married man for 3 years and he treats me like a queen. But I'm starting to worry. What should I do?
Q. I've been dating a married man for 3 years. I ignored him for a year because of that reson but he pursed and treated me like a queen. He says he's leaving date after date but their's always an excuse. He's been w her since he was 12 has 2 kids and ...
A. 18 February 2008: Jaazmine, that was terribly harsh.
Why is it always the girls fault, would you have wanted your husband to stay with you and lived a lie. If he's had an affair, then good riddance but that doesnt make them a scum bag. Also how can you wreck a marr... (read in full...)
My ex may have a new guy, and I fear they slept together yesterday. How can I stop torturing myself??
Q. Since I found out my ex has met somebody new, I just can't get her out of my head... AGAIN!! We hadn't spoken for a long time, but about a week ago, we got back into the habit of talking to eachother again. We had done this before, but last...
A. 18 February 2008: Everyone on here is trying to help you in thier own way. Dr V though!! thank god your not a real doctor.
You really need to listen to them and not see this girl. She may well have the best intentions, and want to stay friends with you. But unfo... (read in full...)
Dating a married man for 3 years and he treats me like a queen. But I'm starting to worry. What should I do?
Q. I've been dating a married man for 3 years. I ignored him for a year because of that reson but he pursed and treated me like a queen. He says he's leaving date after date but their's always an excuse. He's been w her since he was 12 has 2 kids and ...
A. 15 February 2008: I just wanted to add.
Although I see the point of the wife being upset by finding out that her husband is having an affair (I was one of them once). I am glad that I found out, because if it hadnt been the girl that he went off with, it would have... (read in full...)
Dating a married man for 3 years and he treats me like a queen. But I'm starting to worry. What should I do?
Q. I've been dating a married man for 3 years. I ignored him for a year because of that reson but he pursed and treated me like a queen. He says he's leaving date after date but their's always an excuse. He's been w her since he was 12 has 2 kids and ...
A. 15 February 2008: Hi,
I dated a married man (and I am not proud of that by the way) he had been unhappy with his wife for many years. He cheated on her quite a few times, but she never knew. I was his mate for years before we finally got together. So I knew exac... (read in full...)
My ex may have a new guy, and I fear they slept together yesterday. How can I stop torturing myself??
Q. Since I found out my ex has met somebody new, I just can't get her out of my head... AGAIN!! We hadn't spoken for a long time, but about a week ago, we got back into the habit of talking to eachother again. We had done this before, but last...
A. 15 February 2008: chlez has given you really good advice honey. As did Annalisa. You need to let go and move on, otherwise like you say you are torturing yourself with all the heart ache. You are not together for a reason, that reason is that it didnt work. And I ... (read in full...)
Site News: We hit another milestone :-)
Q. For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...
A. 13 February 2008: You know the best thing about this site is that if you ask for advice you get straight answers. Not like asking your mates and they tell you just what you want to hear.
So I am not surprised it's done so well.
Congratulations Young Andrew. ... (read in full...)
Work mate said he wanted me, but he is married! HELP!
Q. Dear Aunts... Well i have a little problem.. I have been seeing some one from work! We havent actually done anything and i dont know what he wants.. It started like this.. A couple of weeks ago i was out in town with a friend and we seen some people ...
A. 13 February 2008: Blah Blah!! Im not happy with my wife, she's is no fun anymore. How many times have you heard this speech.
You would think that they could come up with something more original by now.
This is how it should go.
"My wife is really tired looking afte... (read in full...)
Pretty sure he's cheating on me..so what does his e-mail he sent (see posting)...really mean?
Q. I really could do with some advice please. To cut a long story short im pretty sure my partner of 10 has been cheating on me, he also lies about everything even when i have prof. I have caught him asking for sex on the internet and he has had n...
A. 13 February 2008: Hi,
Well firstly!! Does he really think he would get the kids if you prove that he is on drugs, if he does, the man is an idiot. Also I know exactly the kind of guy this is, and I can read him like a book.
I dont need to tell you that you deserve ... (read in full...)
Pretty sure he's cheating on me..so what does his e-mail he sent (see posting)...really mean?
Q. I really could do with some advice please. To cut a long story short im pretty sure my partner of 10 has been cheating on me, he also lies about everything even when i have prof. I have caught him asking for sex on the internet and he has had n...
A. 12 February 2008: Well the email sounds pretty OK to me. He is obviously worried you will think badly of him, and seems to have resonable explanations.
I am wondering though, if you think he is that bad and he always tells lies how can you live like that. Also the ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 November 2007: Hiya!
I am so pleased for you, your sounding so much better, and a hell of a lot more positive. Good for you.
Its so nice when you try and help someone and they feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel, and then they begin to see that... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 20 September 2007: Hi,
I have been sitting reading what has happened to you with a lump in my throat. Its so sad when you are in love with someone who falls for someone else. I should know this has happened to me.
But surely by now you can see that the only time he ... (read in full...)
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