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Hi, I have been through loads in my life. Marriage break up, boyfriend break ups, and been a single parent. I have been treated really bad sometimes, but i think this is all to do with life. I dont hold grudges, and have a good sence of humour. I just love all my friends and family, and have loads of support from them. So i thought i could share that with a few of you. I have asked for advice a few times. You dont always want to hear it, but there are some smart people out there.

I have now found, after a lot of searching, my soul mate. But lifes not all a bed of roses for us. But he keeps me smiling, well most of the time anyway.

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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   6 April 2009: Glad to hear that, I'm really pleased for you honey. Take care and enjoy your new life...you certainly deserve it. XXXX... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   17 July 2008: Sarcy, its only expensive because you both made it that way. I totally understand how upset and bitter you were, but you cannot stop this man from seeing his child, no matter how you feel about it. Because its totally un-fair on your son. You are ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   2 May 2008: Uncle Phil is right babe!! dont hang it out anymore than you have to. Except he is gone and have a good cry, but for goodness sake dont let those solicitors have any more of your money. Even if they get him to admit he is the biggest ar**hole in the ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   1 May 2008: Honey!! I cant believe that you called him. Its so obvious that he doesnt want anything to do with you, why keep hurting yourself. You know deep down that the only reason you called him was to get him to respond to you!! I dont know why you bother? ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   14 April 2008: I kind of agree with the last poster. Solicitors will do anything to earn some more out of the poor sod going through this pain. Really it doesnt matter what you divorce him for, its not as if he will have lying cheating sh** across his head. No b... (read in full...)

Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?

Q.   Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....

A.   24 March 2008: Very clever Tish, had to read that a couple of times to let it sink in. OMG maybe Toasty is right and I really am as thick as sh**. GULP... (read in full...)

Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?

Q.   Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....

A.   24 March 2008: I THINK I HIT A RAW NERVE WITH THE BUT PLUG THING, TOASTY. I must opologise completely, for my apaling behaviour, and lack of care for the poor girl in the post aged 22-25 that has obviously led a very sheltered life, and did not know the answ... (read in full...)

Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?

Q.   Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....

A.   21 March 2008: Toasty get a life, it was fun thats all. How do you know that it was even a serious question. Notice that the original poster has not added a comment. Take the but plug out your bum and have a giggle, they say its the best medicine. Tellu... (read in full...)

Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?

Q.   Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....

A.   20 March 2008: Blimey this question has gone down two route's now. Seamen and Tom Jones, Does this make it a Double Ender? Oh thats really rude, sorry I am ill and have a fever. XXX... (read in full...)

Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?

Q.   Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....

A.   17 March 2008: Well "It's not unusual" to love Tom Jones. Boom-Boom XXX... (read in full...)

Deep secret from my past!! Will it effect my future

Q.   I believe i was abused when i was very young by my father. I am still a virgin because I choose to be but I wonder why I am not really interested in having sex. I am scared that what happened when I was little(eventhough I cannot remember it because ...

A.   17 March 2008: Darling, How do you know that something happened to you while you were young. You need to get to the bottom of what's put this in your head to start with. XXX... (read in full...)

We want to get matching tattoos and I'd like some suggestions.

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years almost. We've been friends for a VERY long time. We recently decided we want to get a matching tattoo. Something that nobody really has. Does anyone have anything in mind?...

A.   17 March 2008: My daughter had a chinese word tattoo. It was suposed to say peace, but now it just looks like a barbeque.... (read in full...)

Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?

Q.   Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....

A.   17 March 2008: Oh my god!! did you know cows have two stomach's. No wonder they dont give blow jobs.... (read in full...)

My friend touched my girlfriend in his sleep, what do I do?

Q.   i dont know what to do.we were at a party and drank alot.my best friend couldnt drive home and i said he could sleep over.he shared the bed with me and my girlfriend.in his sleep he touched my gf and kissed her neck and the touched her vagina.he ...

A.   17 March 2008: Strange you didnt put yourself in the middle. No way would I ask a girl to stay with me and my man, and let him sleep in the middle. Especially if we had all had a drink. I know exactly what my partner would think (or wish) might happen. ... (read in full...)

He lies about porn, can I trust him?

Q.   I am currently with my bf of 6 months, we're living together already and although 6 months may not seem that long, it's like we've known each other for years. He was my first everything really and have given up allot to be with him properly. I am ...

A.   17 March 2008: Red has given you good advice. Dont ruin things between you over a little bit of porn. All men have fantasies about these women. But thats the point its because they are un-obtainable. You have to learn to love yourself, otherwise your jelousy will... (read in full...)

My husband has sex with me when I'm asleep....is it rape or "silent sex"?

Q.   my husband had sex with me when I was drunk and asleep - I woke up as he pulled out and was climbing off me, cleaning himself up with tissues, I have confronted him and he says he thought I was awake - there is no way he thought I was awake as we ...

A.   17 March 2008: I am just wondering how drunk you were. It seems odd that you didnt know he was having sex with you, but you know that you didnt say anything to encourage him. How do you know for certain that you didnt? Dont get me wrong I am not saying that this... (read in full...)

Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?

Q.   Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....

A.   15 March 2008: Whats your specialist subject, gottascrewlose86, "The bleeding obvious". That made me laugh even more. I think you might have missed the point of all the stuff below. Bless ya! XX... (read in full...)

Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?

Q.   Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....

A.   14 March 2008: Meant your jaw. Not your's Phil, your a man and they cant have babies. Even Tummy babies. If they could you could drink your own and make yourself pregnant. Can I be your manager...XXX... (read in full...)

Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?

Q.   Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....

A.   14 March 2008: Oh yes!!! Without a doubt. Just when you close your eyes and think your safe, it can get you. Of course it depends on the size of the smooch. Small ones will just make you dizzy. But a large one could lead to what they call "ADULT SEX". And then... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   14 March 2008: Sounds to me like she is trying to call your bluff. Only you can decide what action to take over this problem. Personally I would tell her that I was only going to come back, if she totally understands how much you wish things to change. If she is ... (read in full...)

Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?

Q.   Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....

A.   14 March 2008: Whats a but plug? Does it stop the baby from falling out your bum.... (read in full...)

How do I bring up my rape fantasy with him?

Q.   How do I bring up my rape fantasy? I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, I trust him and love him but i'm a little scared about how to tell him i have a rape fantasy. He's told me his other fantasies and we do some pretty outrageous sexual a...

A.   13 March 2008: Hi, I can never understand this fantasy, because he is your boyfriend, and you are willing so how can this be classed as rape anyway. Despite the real thing being the most awfull experience a woman could go through. Its not about the sex is it?, ... (read in full...)

Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?

Q.   Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....

A.   13 March 2008: I love it on here. Where else can you get to meet so many crazy people..... XXXXX to you all. ... (read in full...)

Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?

Q.   Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....

A.   13 March 2008: Is that your real age? Yes you can, and when the baby is big enough you will have to dislodge your jaw like a snake to give birth.... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   13 March 2008: Sorry Irish, But I think that you are being hard on this guy as well. I think its lovely that you believe in marriage and sticking with each other through thick and thin, but like Ask older sister says, how much should you have to put up with. Stic... (read in full...)

Is my husband up to something??

Q.   Ask Cupid, I've been married for 21 years. I was my husband's first lover. I had other experiences prior to marriage and have remained faithful. Our marriage has had its ups and downs-but we always find our way back to each other. Lately, he's bee...

A.   12 March 2008: I wonder if he is going through some midlife crisis. The thing is if he really is up to something you will be the last to know, believe me I have been there. Dont jump to conclusions though, it may be nothing to worry about. The best thing is to t... (read in full...)

I want to be the person I was before I had my daughter. Any advice??

Q.   I just had my daughter four months ago and ever since I got pregnant my entire personality has changed...for the worse!!! I used to be a happy go lucky get along with everyone kinda of person and now i am depressed and angry and rude an sarcasti...

A.   12 March 2008: Hi, Sorry to say, but it can take months to get back to normal after having a child. Dont worry or beat yourself up though, you will eventually get back to how you were. Go and tell your doctor how you feel, and he may be able to give you some... (read in full...)

I jokingly said he was gay and he lost his erection instantly. Any advice??

Q.   Last weekend when my boyfriend and I were having sex we were talking and joking, and out of the blue I asked him 'for how long have you been gay" and he lost the erection instantly. We usually have no problem in this area. Also that weekend ...

A.   12 March 2008: Just because he looks at porn, does not mean he is gay. Perhaps it just hurt his feelings a bit, and put him off. Men dont like to be refered to as Gay. Unless they are Gay of course.... (read in full...)

I'm scared my boyfriend will beat me!

Q.   Ive been going out with my boyfriend Steve for a year now. The thing is, he has troule erecting. He is always watching porn, and I am anorexic, which he finds extremely sexy. Also last year, Dan his friend raped me. I didn't tell Steve as I know he ...

A.   12 March 2008: Hang on a minute. Your boyfriend's mate raped you and you are scared to tell him because he wont come near you again? He thinks it's sexy because you suffer from anorexia?. And he is also violent and you are scared he will beat you up? What is wron... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   12 March 2008: If she is going to that extreme, I would say that she wants to try and do something about it. I think that you owe it to her to see that she gets all the help that you can. Go to the doctors with her, and make sure that the procedure is going to... (read in full...)

Making myself sick to lose weight, will it work?

Q.   I'm 15 and I weigh 11 stone. I look at myself as fat, but I know I'm not that fat but for my age I am over weight. Ii stopped eating for 4 days once and I lost half a stone. As soon as I ate again I put on half a stone again but recently I've bee...

A.   12 March 2008: Yes you will lose weight! and your teeth. And also you will get to a point where you will have to make yourself sick after everthing you eat just to stay at the level of weight you think is acceptable. My advice is to lose weight healthily. I used t... (read in full...)

Can a person male or female, truly have the belief or values which consider that cheating on someone they absolutely love is totally wrong and they have always considered it that and then go to a person.

Q.   Can a person male or female, truly have the belief or values which consider that cheating on someone they absolutely love is totally wrong and they have always considered it that and then go to a person; Who considers it just something which ...

A.   12 March 2008: I wonder! would you feel the same if your partner riped out your Heart and shoved it down your throat?. Can you really not understand how all the lies and deciet would hurt. Your not human, or you have no feelings, I cant decide which. Had you n... (read in full...)

I love him and want to get marry but he doesn't. What should I do?

Q.   I've met this man 18 years my senior when I divorced my husband of 22 years. He helps me to go through the divorce and get my life back on track. We get on well and been together two years now. I love him and want to get marry but he doesn't. ...

A.   12 March 2008: This is really weird, because I was with a man for nearly 12 years, and desperatly wanted to get married. I had been married before but got divorced years ago. I dont know why I wanted to marry him, for security I think?. But it ended because ... (read in full...)

My soon to be in laws want a traditional hindu wedding, we dont, what can I do?

Q.   I am about to be married. My fiance' is East Indian, I am white. He was born here in America, so he has a lot of the same beliefs that I do and agrees with me on how things should go. His parents, however, are from India and expect him and me to do ...

A.   12 March 2008: I think the answers you have been given are good advice. Is it not possible to meet them half way, and have some of what you two want, and some of what the family would wish. After all! you are joining there family as he is yours. It would be nice ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my best friend's younger brother!

Q.   I have had the same best friend for 10 years, and she is one of 8 kids. Her youngest brother (of 6 years) and I have always been really close friends. Finally last summer we were drunk one night and ended up together. It happened a few times after ...

A.   12 March 2008: You hardly held him at arms length did you?. You knew he had a girlfriend and yet you slept with him on numerous occasions. I dont think there is anything wrong with the feelings that you have for him, but you really need to see if he feels the same ... (read in full...)

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

Q.   Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...

A.   11 March 2008: It is iresponsible of your wife to let herself get that size. What about the effect it has on her health, and how your children would feel if they lost a parent. I would lay down the law, tell her to see a doctor and lose some weight. If she ... (read in full...)

I'm falling for my friend's husband...

Q.   I need help! I started working with this girl about two years ago we don't work together anymore but we hang out. But I have a problem, I'm falling for her husband! He's super sweet guy and very sexy. We flirt quit a bit and when we have been ...

A.   11 March 2008: You need to show a bit of self control. If you cant keep these feelings to yourself and not try to damage their relationship, keep away from them. ... (read in full...)

How can I help him stop?

Q.   What do you do if you tell your boyfriend not to smoke weed, but he goes and does it but still tells you? How can i help him stop smoking, if he stops he will go mental, he needs something to calm him down, he has problems. What do i do? ...

A.   10 March 2008: Wow its just weed. Trouble is for the weak ones it doesnt just stay at weed. It makes you moody, bad tempered (when you cant get any that is) and you cant be bothered with anything. So yes its just weed, but look at the effect that it has. The only ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   10 March 2008: I wish I could give you a hug, I knew you would get there in the end. Hip Hip Horah XXXXXX... (read in full...)

My husband is in love with his affair but determined to work on our marriage! How do I convince him thsi woman is not as perfect as appears to him?

Q.   When I found out about my husband's affair 2 months ago we decided to go to relate and try to work out a better marriage for us both. And although it's been hard we have made progress and have learnt a lot about each other. we have been married 21 ...

A.   10 March 2008: Darling, He compares you to a plain box of chocolates, and says IN FRONT OF YOU, that she was the nice exciting box. Wake up babe, he doesnt want to be there. He should be begging you to forgive him, and do anything to make you feel good about yo... (read in full...)

How can I stop my boyfriend from dumping me before my birthday?

Q.   Hello. Im 14 in 7 days =] my boyfriend dumped me 2 day b4 valentines day and we got back together on valentinesday i think its coz he ddnt want to get me anything. but now im worried he will do the same for my birthday. we are really close but i...

A.   10 March 2008: Honey... Just tell him that all you want from him on your birthday, is for him to be with you and have a lovely day. If the guy dumps you again, then for goodness sake dont bother with him anymore. Learn from it, and never let any man treat you like ... (read in full...)

How can I bring my dad round to accepting my boyfriend?

Q.   I am dating a 21 year old i am 15, we have been dating for 4 months, we really like each other and we have a special connection. He has not tryed to get me into bed he respects my choices my mum didn't like us dating a first, but now all of my mum's ...

A.   10 March 2008: Read back your post. Can you blame your Dad being worried about him. Even if he only had a criminal record, and thats bad enough. But the age gap is of a concern to any parent, of a 15 year old girl. The only way of getting your whole family to exce... (read in full...)

How can I help him stop?

Q.   What do you do if you tell your boyfriend not to smoke weed, but he goes and does it but still tells you? How can i help him stop smoking, if he stops he will go mental, he needs something to calm him down, he has problems. What do i do? ...

A.   10 March 2008: Honey thats just an excuse. We all have our problems. Are you strong enough to leave him if he wont give up?, I may be wrong but I dont think he will give up no matter how much you plead with him. I'm affraid its like being hooked on anything, the ... (read in full...)

Can anybody help with dress suggestions for my semi-formal??

Q.   I am in 8th grade and in June after graduation my school has a semi-formal and i cant wait but i am rlly worried about finding a dress and i am already looking but i am no very thin and i am picky can. Can anyone please send me the website of dress...

A.   9 March 2008: Hey, stop putting yourself down. I cant tell you any websites because I live in England. But I do know a lot about fashion, so here's my advice. If you are on the larger side, stick to something plain and well fitting. Go for a darker shade (thi... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   5 March 2008: Thank God!!! you are actually staring to fight this man back. I can also tell you why he cant look you in the face, it's guilt nothing else. For whatever reason he has for his actions, does not mean you have to take it laying down. Go for what... (read in full...)

Leaving marriage for affair partner is that a good thing??

Q.   I'm pretty much down to my last option. I'm a 37 year old married man, with two children. Have been married for 8 years, have been together for 15. I am in the middle of an affair. Not real proud of it, it is with a co-worker and it just happened...

A.   4 March 2008: Your girlfriend is right, there is never a good time. Having been through this myself, I can tell you that it is really hard to start with. Of course financially you wont be as well off. But will you be happier! now thats the question. If only ... (read in full...)

We had sex but she says she loves her husband too much!

Q.   I'm in love with a married woman. She has 7 months of marriage. We had sex one night. She loves me but says she will not leave her husband because she does not want to make him hurt. I can't really let go. What should i do ?...

A.   4 March 2008: She cant think that much of him, to have sex with another man after a few months. Do you really want to be mixed up with a woman that can do that?... (read in full...)

It hurts like hell that he doesn't care about me and acting cool doesn't seem to be working!

Q.   Hi, I have been on this site before and got some good advice and it helped me loads. Please can someone give me some advice on my current situation? Well it's been 2 months since my partner walked out on me and my 6 month old son. At first I did...

A.   3 March 2008: He has moved on with his life alright, but it doesnt sound like he wants you top move on with yours. He knows that you are upset, so he is keeping his options open. He probably knows that he could worm his way back as well, if the going got tough. T... (read in full...)

She Says "I JUST DON'T FEEL YOUR PENIS"!! omg...

Q.   I'm Pretty sure you guys get a lot of penis questions but I wonder if you can answer this. I've been with a lovely girl who after 3 years we decided to get together. We've been together since early 2007. Now I can make her orgasm in a variety of ...

A.   3 March 2008: Coca Cola Can?. Who on earth could fit something that big in there. All I can say is I dont think its you that has the problem. It must be like waving a wand in the Albert Hall.... (read in full...)

He's with another girl now, but I think I love him... could he feel the same?

Q.   I like a guy from work, but recently he was in a car accident with his girlfriend, she drove off the end of a cliff, and he was really hurt. Despite my efforts to get over to the hospital to see him i couldn't manage it before he got discharged, but ...

A.   3 March 2008: At the moment you are just guessing. But asking how he is when you see him would not be crossing the line with his girlfriend (if he still has one). Was she hurt in the accident, you could always ask how she is, to test his reaction. They must have... (read in full...)

Please help me win my husband back!!

Q.   Hi my husband has left me due to how I was treating him. Over the years I took him for granted and I would lower him and call him names whenever I was upset with him or even with other issues. It got really bad. The problem is that I never meant to ...

A.   3 March 2008: You say you have changed, but is that just because you want him back. How long before you go back to how you were, when! by your own admission you were so nasty. To my mind people dont change, they can bend a little but they cannot actually chan... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   1 March 2008: Hi Honey, Reading your post, I can see that you have still got extremely strong feelings for this man. I know that its hard to let go of any hope, but I think that your husband has proved over and over again that you have no option. He has move... (read in full...)

My husband is in love with his affair but determined to work on our marriage! How do I convince him thsi woman is not as perfect as appears to him?

Q.   When I found out about my husband's affair 2 months ago we decided to go to relate and try to work out a better marriage for us both. And although it's been hard we have made progress and have learnt a lot about each other. we have been married 21 ...

A.   25 February 2008: Hi, Having been through this myself, I can tell you that he is not trying to save your marriage. If he were he would have lost all contact with this woman. Also you cannot put all the blame at her feet, she did not force him to have sex. He went... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   13 November 2007: Hiya! I am so pleased for you, your sounding so much better, and a hell of a lot more positive. Good for you. Its so nice when you try and help someone and they feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel, and then they begin to see that... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   20 September 2007: Hi, I have been sitting reading what has happened to you with a lump in my throat. Its so sad when you are in love with someone who falls for someone else. I should know this has happened to me. But surely by now you can see that the only time he ... (read in full...)

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