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Archived questions from: 11 November, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

We broke up after five years -- is there any hope of getting back together?

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11 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with be because she saw a note on msn under the contact list telling a woman that I used to chat with her 5 years go and wanted to talk to her. I used to chat with her befor I met my gf. She thought I was planning ...

I'm really excited about this new guy, but suddenly he seems distant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I broke up with my ex back in March and we havent been on speaking terms at all for the last couple months (we decided that we cant be friends right now because it would always be more, and he had a new gf) he broke my heart but i am ove...

How did I get here? Why would I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I've made such a horrible mess out of my life. 6 months ago I had a job that I loved, a beautiful home, a fiance and a dog. Now, I reside in my mothers house, broke, single and dogless. Most people would have picked themselves up by now b...

How do I know she's telling me the truth and that nothing else happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - hi i am seeing a girl, i started liking her, before i even proposed i asked her about her past relationship, and she said she liked someone on the 1st day i met here but there was no commitment. later on when i was deeply in love i came to know a...

My girlfriend's texts to her ex-boyfriend confuse me. Is she cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 10 months and I have go through some serious issues - her manipulative ex disrupting things to begin with, big age gap, medical problem meaning no sex for months, meeting my kids. We've joked about how the things we've go through ...

Does he love me or is he stringing me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - hi i've been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months. everything seemed to be going really well. It seemed as if we both liked each other but I noticed that he seemed a little distracted with his phone, he seemed to be always texting someone ...

Lost my girlfriend.... but should I keep her as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - 18 months ago I fell in love. I'm 31 now. The sad thing is, this is my first real relationship. She was the first person who ever saw past my weight, etc, and gave me a chance. This is probably because I got to know her, and she got to know me, for ...

How can I get my ex boyfriend back?

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11 November 2009 (F) - Hey, Recently my boyfriend and I broke up and I want him back. We broke up over a week ago and are on speaking terms. I see him at school every day and today he told me that the reason he broke up with me was because he was the one doing most of ...

I had just started to get over her and now she texts me saying she wants me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - ok so my ex and I were in a long distance relationship. I was in love with her and she told me the same. we met in person after a few months and we had a real good time. soon after we got back home to our own places. she broke it off and didn't give ...

My girlfriend's ex is overstepping the line!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I met my girlfriend a little over seven years ago. She was still married and living with her husband. We did fall in love, however, I told her I did not want to be in a relationship with a married woman. She told her husband about us and then she ...

Should I check in on my sick ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I just found out my ex that treated me bad and we broke up, he broke up with me though he had called, apologising, preaching love and wants me back is sick. He has kidney stones. Is it okay for me to call him a lot to know how he's doing or wh...

He broke things off and never told me why!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I was in a relationship with this boy for almost a year.He had proposed and wed planned for our future, he couldn't have children, so we decided when the time was right we'd adopt. Well just 3 weeks later, everything changed. He was driving me ...

He has naked pictures of his friends on his laptop

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11 November 2009 (F) - So he has naked pictures of friends of his who like him and send it to him. He and I broke up but we trying to get back together. I really love him. It really bothers me that he keeps this pictures. I know I have no right to tell him to get rid of ...

The ex and me--he was bad but sometimes I forget and miss him!

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11 November 2009 (F) - I need help getting over my ex! He and I dated for a year and a half, but he ended up being a huge jerk to me and a pathological liar, so I ended it about six months ago. We were on and off for about a month after until I finally cut off all contact ...

Am I over analyzing our past relationship?

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11 November 2009 (F) - my ex and i might get back together...were apart for a year and have been talking for two months. I was randomly mentioning on the phone that there are two girls at work that still dont say hi to me for whatever reason..sometimes people just dont...

Why do I still think about my ex girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - my girlfriend left me six months ago. she never game a reason but 3 weeks ago she she sent me a request to chat on yahoo messenger. she wanted to know if i had deleted her from facebook and if i still go out dancing, because she goes out dancing ...

The new guy seems suddenly distant. Did my ex say something about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

Is it weird to friend an ex on facebook?

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11 November 2009 (F) - Is it weird to friend an ex on facebook. I'm not sure what I'm trying to do, if I think that friending him will spark his interest again or if I'm trying to show him I have moved on but a large part of me wants to show him no hard feelings we can ...

I just don't get him! Why after 11 months is he still so bitter?

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11 November 2009 (F) - i broke up with my ex of 6 yrs its been 11 months and im over it,we have a 5 yr old son and up until lately we didnt have a problem speaking.ive noticed that the last 4 months he has refused to communicate with me at all only talking and texting ...