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*onely021
writes:Me and this girl are wantin to have sex, but she dont want me to use a condom. She takes pills, can she still get pregant, if i dont use a condom
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reader, huneygyrl +, writes (7 January 2009):
 She can tell you she's taking birth control pills however, you need to take extra caution on the "what if's". What I mean by that is, what if she's not taking the pill?, what if she gets pregnant? What if I catch some type of STD? Things like that you need to think about. Does she have multiple sex partners?
I've mentioned this situation in a couple of these brief summary issues. There's this teenage couple, the female mentioned (also shown on documentation) she's been taking birth control pills and gotten the shot to prevent pregnancy unfortunately, she's pregnant, due in next month. She's a teenage pregnant female possibly graduating from high school along with her boyfriend (this story relies within my daughter's dad son). Both parents lack active lives in their kids lives but claim to do so.
Think about it. Be smart about it.
Good luck!!!
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reader, ggunit  +, writes (7 January 2009):
also depends what kind of condoms you use, only use latex, the other condoms like snakeskin that don't stop std's i wouldn't trust with my sperm. you also get condoms with spermacide, so if starts couting her uterus so if any seaman gets in there that will help to kill it. there is also jelly she applies to kill seaman, as well as diaframs.
maybe she would feel better with a diafram and jelly as it would seem like she is in control of the birth control, which is most prbably why she is taking the pill, most girls think that if she gets pregnant then she will suffer more than the dad, or the guy that got her pregnant.
anyways, she can read up on the stuff and make a decission that she likes, if she feels uncomfortable, she won't enjoy the sex as much.
good luck
GGunit
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reader, lonely021 +, writes (7 January 2009):
lonely021 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks, it help a little
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (7 January 2009):
 The "Pill" back in the 80's was over 98% effective at preventing pregnancy. And unlike condoms never breaks or slips, etc. If Pregnancy was the only issue it would be sufficient. But there are Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD's). The pill provides zero (0) protection against those. So as you two are in a new relationship I would recommend the condom as well. Personally I'm in a faithful monogamous relationship so I don't worry about the STD's. I do recommend that type of relationship to anyone.
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reader, The Gentle Man  +, writes (6 January 2009):
 Well its very unlikely that she will get pregnant if she is on the pill. Of course you only have her word that she is on the pill, so that comes down to trusting her. If you do then go ahead.There is about a 1% chance of pregnancy on the pill as they are 99% effective. The condom is 100% on the other hand.Also the pill does not protect from STI/STDs. If you are going to have unprotected sex I would advise that you both get a check up. It might seem a bit drastic but its just a checkup and you should both make the time.
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