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I have a boyfriend but I'm attracted to girls too.

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Question - (5 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

When I was younger I used to kiss my friend in the toilets.(yes a girl!). I know this may seem like 'oh she's young and confused' but I'm not. But I am confused about what I am meant to do.

I still have some feelings for girls and find girls more attractive then my boyfriend? I love my boyfriend with all my heart and really don't want to be without him. However, what do I do about my feelings for girls?

-Is this normal?

-Will this feeling change?

-Am I just wondering what the other way is like?

Please help, Thank you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009):

As Rachil had mentioned, you can be with one person forever, even if you're attracted to more than one gender. The idea is the same as if you're only attracted to one gender. It makes no difference. It just means you have a broader scope of people you're attracted to.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009):

this is simple your a bi-sexual you love your boyfriend but you fancy girls, you like both sex's explore both sex's and see wich you prefer your too young to settle so mess around and see which gender floats your boat its normal. do u watch skins? could be a bit like that.. loads of people are curios bout the other sex or what ever its normal your young like me enjoy it ! dont get dragged down by men or girls you'l know what you want when you have it itl just feel right when your with some one boy/girl you'l know its right when you dont doubt it hope thing go okay for you :) xx

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