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female
age
26-29,
*rinitymi
writes:Dating a man for a couple of months. He told me things like love at first sight, my family will love you, I can see you in my home, could you see yourself living where I live etc."joe" was in a relationship for 5 years with "Sally". She had maintained contact with her ex all throughout and left "joe" for the ex boyfriend. Sally and the ex boyfriend got married. The husband reverted back to his old ways and brought Sally home herpes.Sally and her family were going to be in the area to see a new baby. Sally's father called up Joe and asked if they could stop by. Joe said yes. Leaving me in the cold. Joe stated he had hopes that he and Sally could reconnect even though she was unfatithful to Joe during their relationship, she is now married and has herpes.Why would a man want to take that back?Hurt and confused.
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reader, OSCARS MUMMY  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 why would her dad call up on his own accord - i think he knows Joe is good for his daughter Sally and is trying to get them back together - i would have been furious with Joe for saying yes - men are slow but for heavens sake he didnt take your feelings into account one tiny bit. I think he has been very disrespectful to you and you should take a stand and say this is not good enough I(if she does end up coming with her family make sure you are there and act polite and look damm hot!!) but i would make him choose - nice, clean you or the herpes woman???????? gosh if he is talking about moving in etc one minute then you have every damn right to discuss what you want to happen in your relationship too - and should he still want those things with you he must cut her out of his life and ring her dad and tell the truth, no sorry, no offence but its not appropriate as i am in a new relationship. You are ther better woman, keep your chin up and dont take any rubbish!!
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