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I'm too intense when he's around. What should I do?

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Question - (5 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, *eriem1593 writes:

Hi! I love a boy, we go to the same school but we don't know each other and we've never talked before. I saw him staring at me many many times and even my friends did. One of my friends is in his class and when he sees me with her he comes to us and pretends he's asking her about something so he can talk to me but because I get really intense I walk away right when he comes. How do I know if he likes or luv me?He tried many times to talk to me so how can I relax and talk to him or at least not run every time he comes my way? I hope you answer and thanks!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009):

I'm thinking that if he is trying to talk to you that he is interested. If you really like him then you just have to swallow those butterflys and talk to him! Otherwise you will never know and he might get discouraged and move on! You can do it, after you get to talking to him the nervousness will go away. Good luck and let me know how it goes.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009):

yeah you probly should re-think running away in the future...original shiraz is right you'll give him the wrong impression...

he might think you hate him, or think he's repulsive, he might even think you think he stinks, and then one day he's gonna stop trying to talk to you....s

so make your move now.....and calm your nerves and start a friendly conversation with him...an dit'll get into more

in the future you could tell him the story of you running away an dyou both could laugh at it-lol\

gudd luck

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A female reader, Original shiraz! United Kingdom +, writes (5 April 2009):

Be honest with him, he knows his affect on you probably changes the person you really are so explain that he makes you feel 'different'. Talk to him with an open mind, act mature and be up front with him, its ok to be shy and its normal to act strange when a guy you like is around yet running away? likely to give the wrong impression, handle it differently and your likely to progress to a future!

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