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writes:First of all I'm a girl not a guy and so I've been with my gf 8 months now and it's a online realtionship, well right now I'm going in 33 days to go be with her.... I'm so in love with her, she's my everything... we talk about sex all the time and I'm not gonna lie, I'm a little nervous like I can't wait for it to happen but it's my first time and I don't want to hurt her at all and I don't want her to get bored with it. It's her first time too. I wanna make sure she has the best orgasm ever. I know it's lame but jw if I could have some advice on this and any tips, ideas thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): the first thing i will say to you is be sure that the person you intend meeting in 33 days is actually the person you think they are. Please ensure someone responsible knows where you are going and kep contact so that they know you are safe. (sorry my mothering instinct kicked in)
That aside believe me when you and your girl get it together if the chemistry between you is right you'll know exactly what to do without anyone other than her guiding you. Good luck hope everything is magical for you. xxx
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reader, just wondering +, writes (17 April 2009):
Wow as a guy my intentions have not always been perfect so what if his are not. If you are so in love why can you not meet and enjoy each others company to see if he talks as well as he types. Once you have sex the intimacy over powers the hey lets hang out and get to know each other and that is way more important and fun. If you hurry sex you put yourself at a disadvantage cause then you do not know if he loves you for you or a peice. True love can wait cause then truth is found in the relationship. The other reasons is think of all you do not know about him. I would rather know that before i threaten to bring a child in the world by him. It can happen it happened to me and i was to smitten to see any bad. If i was your dad save sex for marriage. You can wear it out then and have peace with a partner to deal with whatever comes your way, for example, babies, sickness guys are not always virgins, house rent, utilities, savings, etc. And that is TRUE LOVE; sacrifice for another. If he wines what else is more important than the way you feel.
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reader, xcrazygirl08x  +, writes (17 April 2009):
I was extremely nervous with my first time. It's just a matter of making each other feel comfortable so that both of you can relax and then the rest will follow. She probably feels the same way, really. Flirting, touching, talking, start off slow and everything should pick up pace. If there's anything you don't feel comfortable doing, tell her and take it a little slower. It'll be great for both of you if you both are relaxed and happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): girl, i think you should just do what you feel is right! if you two are truly in love, she will understand if its not such a good idea.
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reader, Mummy08 +, writes (17 April 2009):
 as a woman you will no yourself what turns you on this helps because you can do the same to her just take things nice and slow and ask her if she has anything she would like to try remember its both your first time so will be nerve racking my first experience with a woman was so nerve racking but i just tried what turned me on when i pleasure myself and it worked. also remember this is a partnership and communication is the key if you can talk about the things you like and dont like that goes a long way.
Hope this helps
Good luck
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