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Archived questions from: 4 September, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I'm ready to have sex with him, but it's my first time...advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Hey guys this is a really personal question and I hope you can help me with it I,ve been dating this guy for nearly two months. He makes me feel amazing and beautiful and like i,m the only girl in the world I,ve met his family and I think they...

What are purity rings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I recently heard about purity rings. What are they? Do they have a specific finger they go on? I know they have something ti do with premarital sex, I'm assuming that it means you'll wait for marriage? If thats true, do you have to wait till ...

I have a fantasy about my wife being with another woman. Should I tell her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - Hi I need some advice I've been with my wife for a while now and I know she is bi curious. I have always had the fantasy of seeing her with another girl. Do I explain I no about her curious fantasy and ask her if she wants to live it out? I no she ...

Is it too soon to say "I love you"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - Okay, so recently (about a month)I started dating this girl. She was my first girlfriend I did ANYTHING with, I even lost my virginity to her...Is it too soon to say "I love you" or am I just caught up in post sex lust? ...

I've uncovered the truth, but he won't say anymore!?!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I have a huge problem! I started dating this man, he told me that his past wife died, I fell in love, well through time things were not adding up, red flags. Come to find out his wife did not die! He is married. I confronted him and he said he would ...

How do I come clean with my man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - hello all. I need some advice on how to tell the man ive been planning on being in a relationship that i have just been diagnosed with herpes. We have not had sex, as we have been taking it slow for about a year now. I freaked out over it so im ...

My mind says do not go back to my abusive ex. My heart says yes. what should I do? Should I just stay friends and avoid relationships for a while?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - My ex-boyfriend wants me back. What should I do? He is 26 years old, I'm almost 17 years old. Our relationship was of 3 years. It was a long distance relationship. We met online. I broke-up with him 3 months ago but we still remained in contact on ...

I have serious trust issues with men....should I try dating women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - The last year ive been thinking about dating a women/woman. but im kinda in a boring, confusing, and unfaithful (on his part) relationship right now. im really attracted by the beauty of women. and im sexually attracted too. ive never dated a woman. ...

I have so much love to give. But how do I encourage my first Gay love relationship? Also low self esteem is another issue for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - Hi I'm 16 and I'm gay. The thing is I've never been in a relationship and I feel so lonely all the time. I really want to be with someone. I'm not desperate, but one of my greatest fears is spending my life alone, and not sharing myself at leas...

After ignoring me shall I give him another chance? or just chill out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Last weekend I went out for some drinks with a guy,he is 4 years younger than me so I was a little uncertain whether I wanted to or not. He insisted that he was looking for a relationship and seemed nice enough,so I went. Things really went well I ...

Should I try to fix things? Or move on? I feel so insecure now that his attractive ex is trying to talk to him again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - hi, so my bf of a year and i live together, and i just kinda broke up with him. we are perfect, except for that we rarely have sex. i tried to get him to open up and he talked about how he doesn't feel he fits with me sexually. I know his ex and h...

My friends have suggested my Gf is emotionally abusive. Should I try to make this relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years with a girl. I am 24, she is 23. First off I would like to say I know I am not perfect, I dont think its entirely her fault and no I dont know exactly where my fault lies, nor will she tell me half the time. ...

Why not cheat? I am interested in all your ideas and suggestions please

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I have been married over 10 years. Before marriage had a very active sex life. As soon as we were married, it became less, and less and kept getting less until it was 3 years. I brought it up to him, then we went to counseling, then I brought it u...

Is it me? Or do I need something? Low testosterone? No pheromones? Would supplements help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. It's not easy to talk about this but maybe you can help. I'm in my early forties, and all my life I've had almost no luck with women in terms of romance and sex. I had one girlfriend in school, and I've had a few dates over the y...

People keep calling me frigid. It pressures me and upsets me. How can I better deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Im ábout to turn 16 years old and i have never had sexual contact with a boy. Sure ive made out with a few, but never any further. Its not that im 'frigid' or anything i just havent found the right person. However, when anyone hears that i havent d...

Guys seem all over me. But I do not dress slutty. Why does this keep on happening to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - I don't dress slutty nor do I look slutty. But most of guys I meet all say am sexy. I do have nice features and I would say am cute. But of these guys I meet say am sexy and they just come on me so sexually strong. When I go out I wear clothes that ...

My Affair of the heart has ended. How do I get over my lover? I've been married 7 years/

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - I had an affair of the heart. I'm married and have been with my wife for 7 years, and we have a son. There is nothing wrong with our marriage in general, nothing I'm unhappy about. Anyway in February a woman came into my life. She works for t...