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Archived questions from: 11 October, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Am I wrong to want my guy friend to care about me more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I'm I in the wrong to want my guy friend to care about me more? We have been friends for more than a year. My close family member just died and I asked him for a favor but he never texted me back to ask what I wanted him to do. I only want a hug ...

Am I just around to clean up his messes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5317 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - About five years ago I met a guy, and we became close friends almost instantly. I've helped him through so many things and he always swore he'd never had a better friend than me. Cracks are starting to show in our friendship though, and he doesn't ...

I lied to my parents and now I'm afraid its going to blow up in my face

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - i messed up a little last year and did stupid things , one of these things was telling my parents that i'm staying at a friend's house to study when i was staying over at my bf's place , didn't get caught . now that friend's mum is calling at the ...

I have been with this guy four years and he lies about talking to his ex! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - please help. I have been with my guy for about 4 years now. the problem is he is still very much in contact with his ex who he was only with for a year! he has met up with her behind my back and they are always txting and calling eachother.. he l...

Do men sleep with anyone they can?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - In your average friends with benefits situation so obviously we're talking frequent sex here, do you think a guy would sleep with just anyone? I mean if a guy is good looking and he knows it surely he would choose someone that he finds attractive? ...

She sees me as a lover and has developed feelings for her friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - Ok here is the situation i have been dating my girlfriend for 9 months now and ever since we met i has been a quickly advancing relationship now i live 60 miles away and am still going to high school. we have always had problems not huge ones mid ...

My ex is confusing me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - me and my ex broke up a couple months ago after she cheated on me with the same guy she left to be with me. Over time I forgave her and tried to be friends. We would text each other every now and then. A few weeks ago she texts me and says she made ...

She won't acknowledge our past and wants me to be friends with her new guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - Who is being selfish here? "Jane" and I have been friends for about 5 years now, but for the first 15 months or so it was something more than that. Now, going forward, she wants to disacknowledge there being any history between us to any new people ...

I'll always be thinking that it could have been me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I've just found out that the love of my life will be moving back to my hometown in a few months.... with his fiancée! I'll have to tell you guys a little bit of our history so you'll understand the situation I'm in - right now I'm terrible unhappy...

I feel really alone now that I've finished school.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I feel really alone now that i,ve finished school. I,m 17 years old , I didn't get into any of the collages i applied to and I can't get a Job , I dont really talk to my friends , I can't drive , I hate asking my parents for a loan of money so i ...

Is he flirting with me or is it something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Okay so I been working at my job for about 3 two months and its been great so far. I get along really well with all my co-workers, however, I been noticing that one of my coworkers likes to tease me, we bicker for any little thing…is all in good ...

My friend says she wants to talk, but when I call or email she takes too long to respond!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - My friend (who I would love to make my girlfriend) and I have a great relationship. However it is long distance and we can't see each other as often we'd like. Communication has been good. We email each other regularly and when we didn't, we call ...

I love her and shes told me she loves me, but because shes not out of the closet, she is reluctant to try anything.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Im a gay girl and out, and 16 and so's my best friend (though shes not out). I love her and shes told me she loves me, but because shes not out, she is reluctant to try anything. I'm dying to kiss her and would love for us to be together , but i ...

Older man, is he worried about the age gap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - OK so there is this chap I like he is around 20 years older than me. I have always liked older men and my ex was 21 years older than me except it faded and we both went our seperate ways. It was someone else that first said that this man mi...

I am 21 yrs old, living with my parents, and I just hate my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I am 21 yrs old, livin with my parents. i just hate my life, i can't go out with my friends everyday, when i am with my friends, so my parents would call me 100 times and send sms 50 times..when i come home late, they will yell at me, my father's ...

He said "not now" when I asked him if he would get with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Okay.. there is a guy I really really like and he sort of likes me back. He said "not now" when i asked him if he would get with me. Then he said to my friend that he doesn't "fancy" me now but he thinks he will "fancy" me in the future which is why ...

Should I tell my friend that his girlfriend kissed me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I have a good male friend that has a girlfrind that he has been dating for a few months.She is a really cool person,but for the last month or so,i having been getting this flirty vibe from her.At first i thought that i was tripping a little bit ...

How can I get her to take my calls without fake blackmailing her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - After breakup i called her my ex-girlfriend last night. we talked for hours. i got her taking my call by blackmailed her that i would call her dad that she was having affair with me for years. when i tried to take my call being nice with her she ...

My husband's friend said that he really likes me! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Husband's friend says my husband should b nicer to me. He said that he really likes me. He doesn't want to break us up, he says. But should I be wary anyway? He's always nice to me, teasing,ect.Hopefully he will b moving to Houston in 2 months 4 ...

I was too scared to talk to her and now she is mad! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - i really liked this girl for a long time and now she hates me. Ok i was at our breakfast table with the football players( which im not) and i got the crazy idea to ask her to the dance. Of course i had to tell my best friend before i did it and when ...

He said I remind him of his ex-gf!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Okay, so there is this guy that I like but we're not dating. And one day, we were chatting on MSN and he suddenly said that I'm so much like his ex-girlfriend... =.=''' He's really nice and he doesn't talk bad about his ex, but I somewhat hav...

We are talking about marriage, but he can't tell me he loves me more than his best friend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - So I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now. His best friend is a girl. They have been friends since they were 13 and now are 27. They have hooked up a few times during their friendship, even cheating on one of his girlfriends which he ...

I'm not in love with him, but I feel a chemistry and would like to try things out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - My good friend and I met around 7 years ago in college. He's liked me since day one and we dated briefly about 4 years ago and again 2 years ago, but things never worked out between us because of our vastly different personalities and values, and I ...

How do I dump him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy since October 28th, 2007. Our 2 year anniversary is coming up here shortly, but I find myself not being in love with him anymore. I'll try to make this as short as I can. He was in the Army when I met him, but he hadn...

Could there be legal consenquences for kids watching horror and inappropriate comedy movies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - here is a weird question for the canadian agony uncles and aunts. my buddy shes got a 3 and half yr old son. she also has a 5 yr old daughter. they all love to sit down and watch, i know, this is a shocker! -house of 1000 corpses. amongst other ...

I would really like to talk to her and get to know her, but I don't know how.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

11 October 2009 (M) - I live in an apartment complex and these past few months I have noticed a girl about my age around. Sometimes when I walk my dog I saw her go to her car. I would really like to talk to her and get to know her, but I dont know how. With winter ...

I don't know if he really wants a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - Hi, sorry for my bad typing.... I met a guy in the city where i live but he lives 400 miles away from me we visit each other once a month, he introduced me to his family at the first month that i met him not the whole family but his mother and his ...

This has been the worst mistake of my life! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

11 October 2009 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 months, with his older brother's best friend who is 4 years older than me. I lost my virginity to this guy when I was drunk (and it was my first time drinking), but I really want to stay with my boyfriend. This is the ...