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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok here is the situation i have been dating my girlfriend for 9 months now and ever since we met i has been a quickly advancing relationship now i live 60 miles away and am still going to high school. we have always had problems not huge ones mid you but just little things that we have always been able to work through' there was even a stint where for 3 months we were limited to talking 15 minutes a night because i got in a little bit of trouble' but through the whole thing she stuck it out and have always loved each other. but last night we we talking and it sounded like something war really wrong and after about 3 hours of her not telling me she final said that she felt that our relationship was missing something, it eventual evolved in to that when she met me she was in love with someone who took no notice of her, but this guy has a very similar personality and mannerisms to that of mine. and that guy drifted into the background until recently, she said that because i live far away i have only been able to fulfill the lover part of the relation ship and not the friend part, the friend part she finds in this other guy and that has caused her to have feelings for him. now i will graduating in 2 months and i was willing to move to where she lives so that we can strengthen our realtionship. How should i feel about this situation and what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 October 2009):
I'm going to be honest and say that this girl isn't the one for you. She likes someone else andhas said that. You would be far better ending this now, giving yourself time to heal and going on to find a woman who really will be i love with you. It just sounds to me like you're going to get really hurt. Better to move on.
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