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I was too scared to talk to her and now she is mad! What can I do?

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Question - (11 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2009)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i really liked this girl for a long time and now she hates me. Ok i was at our breakfast table with the football players( which im not) and i got the crazy idea to ask her to the dance. Of course i had to tell my best friend before i did it and when i got cold feet he told her about it and i ran as fast as i could out of the lunchroom. later that day i saw her in the hall and she said hi to me and i blushed and ran away again!!!! i couldnt control myself and it took like a week before i could even say hi. time passes and christmas comes around i text her and she asks me who it is so i made up a guy to talk to her. when she found out 4 days later she was pissed at me. is there anyway i can be friends with her?

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A female reader, Blod United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2009):

Blod agony auntWow. I don't blame her for feeling like that. You've really been messing her about.

It's a good sign that she said 'hi' even after you left though. It shows that she probably didn't judge you for it.

Best thing to do would be to open up to her. Explain what happened and why you behaved like that. I'm sure she doesn't hate you. She just probably thought you were shy but you crossed the line when you lied to her and made up some person.

Just be honest with her. If it's easier, tell her by text or write her a note or something. Please don't do anything mad like run away or something again otherwise you could just make it worse.

Good Luck. X

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A female reader, YourDestiny11 United States +, writes (11 October 2009):

YourDestiny11 agony auntYou should talk to her and tell her everything, most girls are really forgiving and understanding! If she isnt, forget about her, shes not worth it! Good luck!

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