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Archived questions from: 9 October, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I had dreams that are now coming true! Were they telling me something?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Sometime in July or August I had the same type of dream about someone who I thought I was in love with. I had it 3 nights in a row, and the dream was about me trying to get her attention and trying to say that I'm sorry to her, but she'd always walk ...

I made love with my friend in a moment of weakness. What do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - okay me and my boyfriend have been going on and off for a year and a half. we always get in yelling fights and everything but at the end of the day its all better, but when we were in a fight i went to my friends thats a guy and he made me feel ...

I'm 17 and Confused about the relationship between me and a very good friend, can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - Right, Hello um...where do i begin... i am a recently turned 17 year old studying art in my second year at college. When I started my first year, theres this girl that was in my course but not in my that i found attractive but was to shy to approach...

I don't know whether he's a perv or maybe he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Well, today in the morning an old friend of mine came by to help me with math and I thought it was very kind of him to do so. In fact I learned a lot from him, but somehow we ended up slacking off. Then all of a sudden he pops a random question to ...

Is there some secret to figuring him out without scaring him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - My emotions are on a roller coaster right now. I have a great guy friend. I've fallen head over heels for him, but don't know what to do. He is a great, friendly, super nice guy, not just to me but to everyone. We've known each other for almost 10 ...

Why is he so intrusive when we are only FWB?

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9 October 2009 (F) - i have this guy who ive known since i was 13 (im 31 now) and we've been friends w/ benefits in the past but now we're just friends. He wont tell me nothing about his own life... absolutely NOTHING but when it comes to mylife hes gotta know every ...

Am I in "best friends for life" territory?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - hello everyone, i'm probably in 'best friend for life' territory with a girl i know from uni. i'm 21 (soon 22) and she's 20. i have feelings for her, massively. i told her over the phone in summer, and she took it very well. we're not together but...

Why would he knowingly hurt me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Since I got such great advice on my last issue I felt why not try this again on another that is a bit more complex in my eyes... I met my boyfriend about 4 years ago at work and we were just really good friends for a couple of years friends with ...

I lied and told everyone I had a brother!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - I just started college and am living on campus. I am an athlete and also play on one of my college's teams. I don't know why I did this, but I told some of my new teammates that I had a twin brother back home in a coma. I also said that my par...

She only visits my boyfriend when I am at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - I have a girlfriend of my brother who comes over to my house to see my boyfriend while I am at work only, My brother used to live with us but he moved away, He has since moved back and she is still coming around. I asked her months ago not to come ...

How do I make it obvious that I like this girl? I'm shy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - My problem is little long. Well i am 20,still single. My first luv rejected,from then i never found any girl attractive till last week. I go to college, so there is this new girl in my class . I liked her a lot. Its kinda luv at first sight or ...

How do I make it obvious that I'm interested in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - Me and my friends were at the mall the other day, and they bought me this purple and fluffy tiara to wear. They dared me to go up to this cute guy that and ask him to greet me. And I did. I just like ran up to him and his friend and asked if ...

I can't seem to stop calling it off! What's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - I realized I have a huge problem. It all begins with remembering how long each of my boyfriends lasted. Never did it go beyond three months. I've only had two before my current one. My current one and I were best friends before. I can't seem to stop ...

Could this tale be the beginning of something even greater?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

9 October 2009 (M) - Yeah so had this real good friend of mine for 4 years and we have always shown affection to one another, yet never have done anything about it. We are at the stage of our friendship where we are both real comfortable with each other and tell each ...

This guy teases me and looks at me... but then he's talking to this other girl. I'm so confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

9 October 2009 (F) - K. Im in highschool and im 14. I like this guy...lets call him....Mike. So I liked him since secondary 2 and I we would never talk. Only a few times we had our little conversations but it was nothing much. He did talk to other people but with me,...