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He thinks of me only as a friend. Is there anything I can do to change that?

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Question - (1 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *anted4life18 writes:

I really like this guy. He is a friend from church and I have hung with him a while and went to dinner. Then the next day my dad was in the hospital and he came over to comfort me. He is a really good friend and I really like him. But he thinks of me only as a friend. Is there anything I can do to change that?

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A female reader, ellababesx United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2009):

ellababesx agony auntThe only way to change that, is to continue being a friend.

You need to wait until his friendly face towards you changes, and he feels a love and effection that he wants to share with you.

If things seem to be dragging and you feel that he is taking his time, then why dont you just make the move? For all you know, he wants to aswell but can't pluck up the courage.

A simple rejection from a kiss can leave you feeling sad and upset but you will then know how he REALLY feels towards you if he DOES dive in for that kiss your offering for or even if he doesn't.

Good luck! && Happy kissing! ;)

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