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Archived questions from: 7 September, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Why can't I bring myself to tell her "I love you"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I'm in hs and my girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We are close and in the early stages of our relationship use to tell each other that we liked each other a lot. Now I feel like I love her... not necessarily that she is the one ...

Why do I always end up being just the friend?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - in the last two years ive come across girls who ive like or fancied. but it always turns out that im just a shoulder to cry on, and they decide to get back with their ex boyfriends even though they've told me the think im fit and they wanna go out ...

Is there any hope for me to get her back or have I been put in the friend zone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Long story short, I went out with this girl for a month, and eventually she broke it off stating she liked me more as a friend and she wasn't ready for a serious relationship. A couple of months pass and we stay friends. And she starts behaving ...

Is he cheating on her or did they really break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Lots of advice on this welcome. I split up with my ex a year ago and he met someone else. I have a daughter with him and still have feelings for him. We email each other because he works away and for different reasons i had an inkling that he has ...

He seems undecided about what he wants from me. Should I keep on waiting or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I have been with this guy for almost a year we both live in different parts of Canada. I tend to have high expectations of men, and he tends to be a workaholic and has a relaxed nature. In the beginning things were great, he called everyday...

Is this just a silly crush or should I do something about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - At my work theres a new guy that has been spending an awful lot of time hanging around me. Hes very nice and respectful and has been flirting with me quite a bit lately. He absoultely gorgeous and i cant get him out of my head. I get so flustered ...

Why after I told him we should only stay friends because I saw him with no interest did he go back to flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Met this guy went on a great date talked about two to three times a week then the phone calls and texts just stop (we were seeing eachother for a couple of months). After a week of no contact i called it off and he said it would be a shame if we ...

She said she didn't date on the summer... yet she went out with two boys at that time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - There is this girl i like we have been talking for 6 months i asked her out in the 3rd month but she said she didnt date in the summer but she went out with 2 other guys before school started she said she was still in love with me after 6 months and ...

I am out of state right now so I cant meet him, how do I keep him interested in dating me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Hi everyone I recently met this guy who is the same age as me on Speeddate. Hes really awesome and we have a lot in common and seems to be interested in me. The problem is right now I am out of state doing a research internship at a hospital. So I ...

Should I worry that we have sex all the time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Me and my fiance have sex all the time. We love eachother and would die for one another, what we have is something special. We werent always like this. I was afraid to kiss her for the first 3 months we dated and after that i was terrified of sexual ...

My wife isn't attracted to me anymore and cheated on me, can we make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - my wife(together 5 years married oe year)says she isent attracted to me anymore, and that she loves me but isnt in love with me and had felt that way for a long time. i knew we had our differences but i did not see this coming. i asked her if there...

I can't let go of the past and the dreams I had with my ex-boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Thank you for reading this message. I feel as though my world is falling apart. I broke up with my boyfriend who I had been with for 4 years nearly a year ago now. It was a very painful and horrible breakup, but I was living abroad and threw myself ...

I'm the "new kid" at school. How can I fit in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I have just moved to a new school where everyone else knows each other and am finding it difficult to get to know any fun people and fit in, especially as they are not particularly welcoming. How can I "get in there" with people so that they make an ...

I feel left out since all my high school friends are paired off.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - recently this year, i did quarrelled with my only friends i had over a many reasons. firstly, last year we were all very close. simply because we are all single and have been going a rough patch in our love life. and this year, all of them got ...

I said I liked him, but his answer didn't tell me anything. What do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - There's a boy I really like at my school and before the 6 weeks summer holidays me and him got on really well and I thought we had a chance but we chose to wait until after the holidays to see what could happen. When I went back to school last week ...

In love with my sister's best friend who is straight. Do you think she is playing with me? Also, could my bi colleague like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - ok so here it goes. it started 2 years ago. i'm a girl and i fell in love with my sisters best friend. i had a boyfriend back there and it was the first time i actually had feelings for another girl. first it was just a crush u know i thought ...

Should I tell my boyfriend's best friend that I'm falling in love with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Hello, my name is Holli Me, my boyfriend and his best friend all work together. They spend a lot of time together and recently ive realised that im falling in love with him, Everything about him's so sweet and he's never awful to me. R...

He flirts at me and I flirt back, but I don't understand why his wife would be mad when I'm only in high school!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - About a year ago I met this cop in my town. Im only 17, and I never used to pay attention to him. Then I noticed he was really really cute, and I started talking to him. I found out he was married, but had only married a few months before then. He ...

How can I forget, once and for all, the guy I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - im heartbroken.....ive been dumped AGAIN for another woman....by the same man!! I should never of took him back after he did it the first time, but I did.....and I fell in love with him again, and now hes finished with me for someone else. I cant ...

We still want to love, but where did it all go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a girl for three-and-a-half years. We fell in love from the start. It was freshman year in high school during a school trip to Disney. We are the longest remaining relationship from our school and were voted High ...

What can I do to give him a great blow job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Hey I have a few concerns tht id really like some advice on. I've been with my boyfriend for about a month now, but ive had feelings for him for sometime. Recntly I gave my boyfriend and hand job and he did the same to me and then peformed oral sex ...

I just can't get through her! What else can I do for her to see what a wonderful person she is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) - she doesnt have poor self esteem...she has no self esteem. no matter what i say or do she thinks she is the lowest being on earth. ive told her how great of a person she is and how beautiful she is on a regular basis, trying to help her out, but it ...

I need tips on how to be better at sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I'm seeing this guy and I think we might have sex soon. I'm only had sex with one guy previously and I wasn't that great at it. I wasn't sure what to do when on the bottom and I REALLY didn't know what to do when I was on top. I'd like to actually ...

How can I ask her out when I have never done this before?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I am a freshman in high school and i have a crush on this girl who was in my class last year. We never really had a conversation but we do know each other. Also she is nice to me but she kind of acts this way to everybody so I cant tell what her ...

He's pushing me away! He doesn't seem to care.. what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Please help me, i dont know what to do. My best friend of 4 years found a boyfriend (yes he's bisexual). And since he came into the picture i got pushed out. To the extent that he stopped hanging around with me and would ignore me on msn. He had a ...