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Archived questions from: 1 September, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Do I face this situation now or should I just let it unfold later and face the consequences then?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - I have had a crush on my best friend D for a few years, a fact he has always accepted and appreciated as benign - he knows me well enough to understand that I am not the sort to manipulate or, for that matter, usurp. In turn, I know he is faithful ...

I had an email affair, but nothing more. Now I'm accused of cheating on him two times, which is a lie!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I've never felt so messed up in all my life. I'm so utterly confused. I've been seeing an amazing guy for 3 months. In such a short space of time, i've never cared for anyone or been so comfortable with anyone in my life. (Previous to this i was in ...

My boyfriend and my best friend deny the rumours (I was told they slept together) - now I'm hurt and don't trust them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - So about two weeks ago I was told by one of my bestfriends, that a previous rumor I heard about my boyfriend of 6 months was true. He had slept with my "bestfriend" of four years three or four times. I had confronted both of them about a month ago ...

I have fallen out with all my school friends and I don't want to be looking like billy-no-mates...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - hi there. well this is a rather strange question i guess. but im going back to school this week and i have fallen out with prcatically all of my friends (most of them anyways) and i think im going to find it really hard. i will be going into yr10 ...

We've always been good friends but he rejected my friend request!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - HI i've been known this guy all my life hes more like a big brother but we have never been that close seen each other now and then hes 21 im 18, i saw him the other night we had a quick chat and then went our sepparate ways, so then i saw his ...

I don't understand her motives for kissing me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - im a girl and ive liked my friend whose also a girl for a while and she knows and the other night while we were both quite drunk she kissed me, and told me she liked me, we went back to hers and went to sleep together it was so sweet but the next...

Wouldn't it destroy our friendship if I told my mate that I like his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - I am in love with my friends girlfriend: have been for a while, waaay before they started dating. I try and forget these feelings, but I cant. I just cant. One or two of my other friends know about this, and one of them seems to think I should t...

My best friend has gotten too close for comfort with my girlfriend!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year now, and I love her heaps. Everything has been going great except for one thing. Soon after we started dating, my best friend started talking to her via msn. I was completely cool with this o...

I'm in love & I'm pregnant, but his parents don't agree... PLEASE HELP!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I'm very young and am having a baby with my boyfriend (who is the same age as me). As anyone expects, his parents have reacted badly. But now it has come to an extreme. First his parents book him anger management behind his back, then they took awa...

My ex's best friend told me "you should tell him you want only friendship to clear his mind". What does he mean by that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Alright I am going to try to make this as short as possible but advice would be appreciated. So 4 years ago I broke up with the nicest guy ever who truly loved me and wanted to follow me. We dated for around 3-4 years and he is 5 years older than ...

Why my friends can talk to girls but not me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - hello got 1 more question how come when i talk to girls i get really nerves and scared and like if i ask them something they will take the piss and plus most of my mates can talk to girls really easily...

We can't be together for now but a part of me feels he's over me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I work together. In the beginning he pursed me heavily. Finding my email, phone, even following me home so he could talk to me. At the time I was in an abusive relationship. Once I told him this he became a great friend. He liste...

Is it jealousy that is clouding my judgment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - Hi. Last January I started talking to this girl in my math class. We started to get really close and we had a sort of unofficial relationship. But we talked almost every night for months. We got really really close and she eventually was comfortable ...

How can I ask this girl out who seems more interested on guys that are the opposite of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5723 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - ok the same girl that i creeped out by the exaggerated attention, i wanna make a move on her but shes into the more skinny popular guys, and she sees me as a nice and funny guy, soo is there anyway for me to land her no matter how big i am and how ...

Is he still into me or has he just lost interest since we are far apart now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I dated a guy over break for a few weeks but we go to different colleges that are significantly far apart. I really fell hard and fast for him and all the signs pointed to him really liking me (I am kind of a pessimist but that is what my friends ...

Why did he end his email this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Well, this guy and I have being in touch for a year now. We met on a business and since then we are kinda long distance friendship. I mean, we like each other but we are just friends. We enjoy our friendship and emailing, share thoughts, pics, ...

What do you do when you love someone who doesn't love you back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - okay i having a REAL hard time but can anyone PLEASE help....here goes. what do you do when you love someone that 1-you cant have 2-is not your age 3-doesnt love you back yet,you feel like they are lying you feel as if hes/shes yours and if you...

He's my best friend and I'm in love with him, but it seems that we will never be together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Well i like this guy sooo much and he knows that i do but he dosent have the same feelings as i do and it kinda hurts when he tells me about his gf's cause i know that we will never be together but he is my best friend he is like my personal i guess ...

Would our age difference play a part in the duration of our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - ive recently been seing a girl whos nearly 17, im 24. she s a very mature girl and dresses really well, and extreamly pretty,intelegent,funny. when we met i thought she was a bit older and and she thought i was a bit younger. it started as just fun...

He has just recently contacted his ex....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Girls, I need your gut instincts. I recently logged into my boyfriend's page for the heck of it and there I found him messaging back and forth with one of his ex from 2-3 years ago. Now while they were dating, he was into her, but she broke up wit...

My best friend is mad at me and I don't know how to apologize to her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - okay I have a friend, who i use to be BEST FRIENDS with, i loved her SOOOOOO much, and i still know EVERYTHING about her, its just that, she was normally more popular than me. Then after a bit, she got REALLY REALLY mad at me. And One of MY OTHER ...

We broke up in good terms but I don't understand why I'm still in love with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I know its only been a month and a half but I am still in love with my ex. We were together for two years and we broke up amicably for good reasons. He moved 2 hours away and I just got job an hour and a half further away. He kept calling and...

I like this girl but I think she would be more interested in my mates because they look better than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - well there is this girl i fell in love with but now ther is like tow ov my best m8's that like her but they look a lot better then me and she might not like me no more...

I didn't want to have sex with him and he went ballistic!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Please help me im so heart broken. Should i stay or not? We went to the museum today everything was so fun.. When then he said lets go to (his friends names house) and he wanted to have sex but his friend was home. So i didnt want to of cours...

I'm a virgin and I' mnot sure I'll be "enough" for my experienced girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - hello i have question i am with this girl but she has had sex but i anit im only 15 but i anit had sex yet, but i recon i will have sex with her pretty soon and i am very scared about and there is 3 reasons why and that is my penis size and that is ...

I like this girl, but all my friends hate her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - hello everyone, me and this girl has been getting long really well and she just asked me out, and i said i tell you tomorrow. but the girl that i have falling in love with is a girl how most of my mates dont like, but i really do love her and if i ...

He can't leave his girlfriend! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I've been involved with a man for 6 months although we are both in relationships. Mine has been going on for 2 and his for 4 years. He says that the passion is gone and it is the same for me and my boyfriend. he even calls me his soul mate. we tried...

How can I keep on flirting with him without getting too physical?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - So i have compleated my fiesr week of college and their is an older guy who is very intrested in me. We have a lot in common and he is absoultly perfect. We tease eachother a lot (verbaly and physicaly). I was wondering if anyone knows anything i ...