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Archived questions from: 17 April, 2009 (see latest in Family category)

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Family: Help and advice

I saw my grandma in a dream...

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17 April 2009 (F) - My grandma passed away last week (Tuesday) from cancer. I was somewhat prepared for this, but not really cuz she seemed alright even though she was very weak. Last night I had a dream that I was in Florida, which is where my grandma and auntie ...

Is it worth continuing with him, in the hope of things ever getting better? Do people change or at forty is he set in his ways?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - hi, I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years, he has cheated on me once in the past (during our first year together), as far as I know he has not since. In the three years we have been together, I have never met any of his family o...

Hubby and I argue all the time, I'm at the end of my rope. Help!

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17 April 2009 (F) - Me and my hubby have been together for 11 years now and married for 5 years, we have 4 lovely chilren. We argue all the time about things that don't matter, so much now to breaking point, it's depressing me... when I try to tell him this he says ...

My ex said he loved me up until 3 months ago. Has he moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for 5 years after a 14 year marriage. We had a lot of outside pressure and split very often!! We have a 3 year old daughter together whom he doesn't see. I still love him but we have been seperated now about a year, he ...

Mom's house has a picture of his other woman and lost daughter.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - my man had a daughter with another woman and now they are divorced and the girl is in foster care. It's been 10 years the little girl was being abused but not by her mom. Her mom gave her up for drugs, the woman that was abusing her was her step ...

Pregnant by my cousin!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - oh God we and my cousin are in love with each other and have been for about a year we started having sex 3 months back he is older than me he is so nice he takes care of me protects me we love each other so much but i just found ...

He keeps calling me his ex wife's name by mistake... and it hurts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and have been dating for 11 months now. He has been sweet and all those things good and bad, yet it's all good. A few times he has called me by his ex-wife's name. He done it once or twice... The problem came in when this afternoon we ...

My partner's children say they never want to meet me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - 6 years ago I met my partner in work and he was married for over 15 years with 2 children. Wrong I know! We fell in love and 5 months later he left his family and moved in with me. 5 months later he went back, but left again after 2 weeks. She ...

My marriage is in trouble. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - I've been with the same woman for over three years. We have a little girl and we have been married for over a year. I'm sick of it. She has literally sucked the life right of me. It has been over a year since I have played golf, been fishing, or b...

I think my partner's parents have some peculiar habits. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My partner has divulged that his mother sat topless at the dinner table once in front of him and his brothers (he was about 12 or 13 and is the eldest). Apparently she said she had wanted to see their reaction but her husband told her not to be s...

How do I tell my mom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - i am 15, i leave school in 5 weeks, i do use tampons but i dont know how to tell my mum. helppp ?! what shall i say ? ...

I think my sister is up to no good. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - hey a quick question im 19 and my sister is 23 and never had a proper boyfriend, she's had internet r/ships but in a yr n a half she only seen him twice.. me and her dont get on! we haven't spoke in 5yrs (even tho we share a house) she used to beat...

Should I be a self sacrificing dumb a*s or a self preserving b***h?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - ok so i have a problem. i have never been in a real relation ship, so i do not know how to handle this. There is a guy i have know since i was eight and he was twelve. i loved him from that moment on. im twenty now and he is mine and my brot...

I think I'm pregnant yet we're not supposed to be around each other.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Now i'm 16 and his 20. I have no clue what to do i think i'm pregnant by him which cause a problem cuz we're not suppose to be around each other. that's my mother's doing....

Caught my daughter using a vibrator.

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17 April 2009 (M) - im a dad and i cauht my dauther using a vibrater in her room shes 12 and what should i do...

Is this fixable? Should I give it another try? Should I let it go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I am 23 years old with a 10 month old son. Abit of a long story//sorry! Please Help ME!! I met this guy who was 13 yrs older than me when I was 17 years old. He convinced me to go out with him, keeping it secret from both our families, until I ...

Why do I still love him and want him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hey guys.Here's my question:I lived next door to this one girl and she had a boyfriend who used to talk to me.Then the girl moved and I never saw them again. Well,I was 9 at the time.It's been 5-6 years later and I finally found her boyfriend agai...

How can I make my Mom trust my boyfriend/best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

17 April 2009 (?) - Hello! My mom doesn't like my boyfriend at all. She doesn't trust him. He broke up with me once for a day and I was shattered, but even before that, my mom never liked him, back when he was just my best friend. Any tips on how I can make her see...

Family problems and how to tell teacher she is my "mother figure"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I;m 15 and my family is going through a rough time. Always fighting now. one of our close family friends died last month and our best friends got divorced. My parents are always fighting. Alot of it gets pinned on me. I really want to reach...

In Love and Uncertain

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - My question: I'm single mom of 8 year old boy. He is also a fulltime single parent of a 14yr old daughter, and he picks his 9 year old boy (of another relationship) every weekend from out of state. It's been over a year. Most everything betw...

My life is full of bad stuff. What can I do to make it better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 13 (account age is wrong) and I just started high school. I think my life is just crashing down on me and I think I really need help. Well basically, life at home is no better either. I'm embarrassed to say that my sister is possibly mad ...

I feel like something out of the Jeremy Kyle show, help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I feel like I am on the verge of a massive break down and everything is compouding onto my chest. I was sexually assaulted 3 years ago by someone who I thought was a mate, 2 months later my badminton coach and close mate of my dads started perving ...