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Hubby and I argue all the time, I'm at the end of my rope. Help!

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Question - (17 April 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Me and my hubby have been together for 11 years now and married for 5 years, we have 4 lovely chilren. We argue all the time about things that don't matter, so much now to breaking point, it's depressing me... when I try to tell him this he says it's my fault, I bring it on myself. Is this true?? We argue over money, he has his own money and wants mine too, I don't go out with friends drinking or smoke, he goes to golf, drinking with friends and smokes, when I buy summat I see it as... well he smokes and drinks, I don't do any so why should it bother him I bought something cheap for myself?

Are we incompatable now? Have we grown out of each other love??? I do know I can't cope with the arguments any more, it's getting me down so much I'm shouting at the kids. I just don't know what to do... there is no talking to hubby about this situation, I just get told to shut up and it's my fault we are like this, please help!!

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