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I don't know if my boyfriend is serious about me or just playing around...

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Question - (27 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *89456 writes:

I dont know if my boyfriend is serious about me or just playing around. He said that he really likes me a lot. Everything was going fine last week, but now hes acting different.

Last week he would call me every night. He even called me at 4am just to tell me that he loved me:). He's really sweet, but he hasnt called me for a couple days now. And i wonder why he has not told me about his daughter?

He doesnt know that i know about his daughter. I found out because i overheard him talking to someone about her. He was also flirting with this girl online. I dont know what to do.

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A female reader, sugar_sugar United States +, writes (27 September 2008):

sugar_sugar agony auntWhere there's smoke there's fire, something has changed his behaviour this week and I guess there's a few possible options, he could be having issues in his personal life or it could be that he has lost interest in the relationship.

The fact that he has a daughter he hasn't told you about is a bad sign.

How do you know he was flirting with someone else on line? Was he doing it in front of you, is it someone you know in real life?

How long have you been together? - the fact that you are describing his behaviour based on a two week period makes me think it is a fairly new relationship - in which case if there are problems now don't wait for it to change.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (27 September 2008):

Well if you have only been going out for a couple of weeks and you are already having doubts then I think it may be better to end this sooner rather than later.

I could understand if he didn't want to bring up his daughter until the 2nd or 3rd date but after 2 weeks he's got no excuse.

And if he's flirting with other people online then he's not serious about you. At 2 weeks he should only have eyes for you. I think he's just seeing you because he can, not because he really wants to be with you.

If there are this many problems this soon then it's not worth seeing what else will go wrong later on.

Good Luck!! xx

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