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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

We broke up then got back together, she asked me to marry her, but now she is backing off, help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I am a 25. i have been with my g/f for about 3 years with a 1 year separation. I moved away to go to college and she cheated on me and then broke up with me. We recently got back together a couple of months ago and she asked me to marry her. Last ...

My ex has a pregnant new gf and I feet guilty for the kisses. Still love him, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 46 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i ...

I want to leave my husband for my secret boyfriend, but am afraid my family will be angry

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I am in such a difficult situation that I am feeling really desperate with nobody to talk to about it. I have been married for 11 years and have been unhappy for the majority of it - although I have tried to dig in and keep going trying and hoping ...

I caught him cheating and now I found out he married the 'other woman'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 436 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - i went to visit my long distant boyfriend for almost two months, whilst in that country and a few days after i had arrived i realized he was seeing another lady. i confronted the lady when she called the house and told my boyfriend to put a stop to ...

I am cheating on my fiancee!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - I'm having a big issue in my life. I got engaged at the beginning of 2006 with my fiancée who's been with me since 2004. I'm 28 and she is 23. Initially in 2006 when we got engaged things went great..it was refreshing for our relationship…it ...

I'm very confused

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 436 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - hi need some help i have 3 children from previous relasionships. the bf i had before has left me feeling hurt and with a barrier holding all my felings inside. the problem is that i have recently met a lovely man who is so lovely and kind his ...

I feel trapped, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 436 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I dont know what to do i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months living together for 3. i do love him but 3 weeks ago an old friend of my late husbands turned up to see how i was and then a few days later he texted me to say he wanted to see me ...

I find her offer extremely tempting, but I have some concerns about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 436 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - Hi i have been given the come on by a mates wife, he recently had a affair and she found out. now she want to try and see what its like with someone else. she proposed that we should get together and try it. we have done some kissing and pe...

Is 'phone sex' cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 436 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Is phone sex cheating? me and my bf have been going out for six months. i found out he had pics of naked woman and he had talk to girls on the phone. I think it is cheating but im not sure....

Please Help! I can't get rid of the feeling that my boyfriend is cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Please help! I have this burning feeling in my gut that my boyfriend is cheating on me. Even though i have tried to convince myself otherwise, the feeling just won't go away! Here's the deal: we have been together for quite some time- almost 3 ...

I cheated and I know its wrong, but it takes two to tango doesn't it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Do you think it's true that it's not ONLY the person who cheats who is at fault when it happens? I guess I was just wondering about your opinions because I would consider myself a very good person who was caught in a "grey" situation and un...

I'm going away with my classmate, he fancies me, and me him, but he has a girlfriend, what do I do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 436 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I have recently started at college and i am really loving it. In one of my classes their is a lad, i have always found him attractive but he has a gf so i never went through with anything. He always compliments me on how good looking i am (wh...

I love my long distance boyfriend, but I've also liked another guy, and I feel like I'm breaking my boyfriends trust. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 378 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hi. im a teenager. I have this mind buggling question. It's about my boyfriend and I. we've been going out for about 4 years but he's studying in another country because his family had to relocate.it's about a year now. we really love each other, we ...

She cheated and I'm scared of making the wrong decision.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - My wife of 5 years has had an affair. I'm devestated, but prepared to forgive (I think). Just one thing I can't get over, I don't want every gorey detail, but when I ask her to explain why she did it, she says. 'I don't know, It just happened...

Why do men always find someone else first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Why do most men always get another woman before they break up? Are women braver than men? ...

Can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I have been very un-trustful with my fiancee since I found out he had cheated on me 2 years ago. I forgave him but will never forget. So now I find myself looking through his e-mails and have recently found out that he has been registering onto sex ...

Is he having a mid-life crisis? Should I go for divorce?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 429 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Not sure where to start. I found out my husband was cheating because he was acting wierd and then my 4 year old daughter said that daddy's friend and her kids met them at pizza. It kinda got my wondering... I confronted him and he said they were ...

Is she giving me the 'come-on'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - Hi my wife is currently working away so for the past few weeks i have been going next door for tea each week. i have always liked the lady next door and more i see her i think shes giving signs to make a move on her. she was sat with her legs ope...

He won't admit to cheating, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 364 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I have been with my husband for 7 years. This year he moved to another work premises. He was "working late" but we never seemed to have any extra money as a result of this. I noticed one evening when I was out that a number had shown up on the ...

I feel guilty about having cheated, the relationship won't be the same if I tell her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - ive been with my girlfriend for a year and a month now. last night i cheated on her, i dont know what came over me. i feel so ashamed and guilty since my girlfriend is so amazing. i do love my girlfriend and she loves me, ive been thinking i should ...

I want a future with him, but if he marries it may ruin all chances.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 436 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I am hoping that someone can help me. I have noone I can talk to about this, and I'm so depressed I don't know what else to do. First, I am an unhappily married woman. I have only been married a little over a year but together for 6. I also ha...

He ignores me, now I've got someone who wants to be with me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend. We have been together for over six months, and I have never had a problem with how much time he spends with his friends or what he does while he's with them. But lately we never spend time together unless I go over to his house ...

I'm moving in with my long distance boyfriend, but now my ex is back, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I have been in a long distant relationship with my current boyfriend for 2 years. I am preparing to move to Florida with him within the next couple of months to begin our new life together. I broke up with my ex-boyfriend from 15 years ago, because ...

Should I have a sexual relationship with anyone even though there are ways to prevent spreading herpes? - may have caught it from the current husband, sometimes I resent him for it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 365 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I am still in love with my ex husband and I am remarried. We have done a lot to hurt each other in the past. We were young when we got married and he cheated the whole time. I know I am not happy in my marriage now, but I have several things holding ...

I think my boyfriend cheated and now I don't trust him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Hiyah, well this is probably gonna be reali confusin n long and you're all gonna think omg when you read it but its worth a go.. I'm 13 and I got with my bf in feb.. at the beginning everything was fine.. I trusted him round other girls and when ...

Is he playing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Hi all, thanks for reading this. I've been dating a guy casually since January of this year. We're not exclusive. We hang out in the same social circle. He says he doesn't want anyone to know we're dating, because I once dated someone else in the ...

I can't get divorced because of religious/ culteral reasons.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - I have been married for 21 years. I have 2 children, both teenagers.My husband is a workaholic, we rarely spend time with each other. Since the birth of our last child in 1993 our sex life has dwindle to almost nothing. If we do have sex, i usually ...

She has long term sex issues, advice please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - Hi there. I am 33 years old, married to my schooldays sweetheart since 1998, with 2 boys, aged 4 and 7. Over the last year or so, our sex life has dwindled away to pretty much zero. My wife is almost always real tired at nights, falls as...

Husband acting strange about escourt wife's activities.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - i am working in an in-call escort service and i am married. i love my hubbie and we have a pretty good sex life, but he is getting older and wants sex less frequently. but that is no problem for me, since as an escort i am getting all the sex i ...

Why do women stay with cheaters?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 298 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - Why do some women stay with husbands who cheat on them....

I'm confused and very angry.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 October 2007 (M) - Hello I don't know if you can help but this is driving me mad. I was married and wife had affair so i divorced her. I'm 38 and met a woman online over two years ago. We chatted for around 4 month. Being totally upfront and honest about our pas...

Do I need to stop this affair, how can I when I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - How can I stop this affair. Im so confused I've been having on off fling with a lad who is also my best friend, I'm in love with him. This would be great and would work perfectualy except he has a gorlfriend who I persuaded him to ask out around 2 ...

Should I quit my job to get away from the married co-worker I'm having an affair with? Tried to end it many times, but cannot.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I have been having an affair with a Married co-worker (Man) for the past 3 years. I have tried several times to end, but can not. Should I just quit my job all together to get away from the urges??...

Am I lying to myself, or am I still in love with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I've been with my BF for almost 2 years. He is my first love and boyfriend, my first kiss, i lost my virginity to him, bascially he's my first everything. He's dated and had experience in the past which is fine. Anyway, from the moment i met him i ...

Is this texting cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - I recently found my boyfriends phone bill hidden and after looking through it i noticed that just weeks after our baby was born he was constantly texting a number whilst he was at work. The were 41 texts to this number and lasted for 6 days then ...

Is he the one for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - few months ago, I met this amazing guy. we chat everyday and met couple times, shortly I fell in love with him. but unfortunately, I found out that he's still in a relationship with other girl and just broke up 4 days before I know about their ...

Do I stay safe or take a passionate gamble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - Alright, how to makes this short... I love two men. Man one I have been with for almost a year and a half and was engaged to for a week. But a big problem, he's cheated on me and he lies...ALOT! But he's stopped lying to me... I think. Man t...

How can I ever trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - How do I get passed the doubts of him cheating? In June of 2007 I found out by my boyfriend's co-worker that he asked another woman to party that he told me was a guys only get together and that he had already met this woman out before and she drov...

My fiance booked an appointment with an escort a year ago. Can I believe him that he was 'only mucking about'?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

26 October 2007 (?) - Hello, Three weeks ago I discovered that my fiancé had visited some websites of local escorts (i.e. prostitutes). Absolutely shocked, immediately I checked his e-mail account and found out that he had sent an email for appointment of one of them ...

Me and my pal tricked him into exposing himself on the webcam. How can I trust him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - i'm 19, and the guy i was seeing is 21. we used to be good friends before all this. we started speaking on myspace after not having contact in a while.we sent flirty emails and texts and met up the following week. he came round mine and we kiss...

My ex husbands new girlfriend has become like a buddy to me, I told her the truth, was this so wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 420 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - My ex husbands girlfriend is always the one I deal with when its anything that has to do with our daughter, simply because he is not man enough to talk to me or show up in front of my door when my daughter goes over his house. Every time his girl...

My girlfriend started college and is "too busy" for me, can she be cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - My Girlfriend and I have been dating for two years now. In september she started college. When she first started she always told me we could hang out the next night becuase seh was to busy with "things" this night, but the next night never came for ...

I broke up with my boyfriend who cheated on me, Is it bad for me to have feelings for his best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years!!! uhh i know, I am now 25. I come to find that he continously chaeted on me throughout the entire relationship. I moved to fla with him so he could go to school and all. I had absolutly no idea. He ...

He cheated on his stag night, now she's pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - I have been with my husband now for 13 years we have 3 children and another one on the way. We got married in August and i have just recntly found out that he has been having an affair with somone who he met on his stag night, now she is saying ...

I'm dumping my cheating partner is there still hope for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - I have been in a relation ship for almost ten years. We each have a daughter from our past relationships and together we have a little boy with Down Syndrome (who is gorgeous). My trouble is that my man is not my man, he seems to be everybody else's ...

Am I cheating on my long distance boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship with this guy for about 6 months now - we've both decided to keep it open since I am rather indifferent to long distance relationships(for the fact I've had both good and bad long distant experiences) and he ...

Do I have something to worry about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - Can you all shed some light here on this ? Once I happened to casually look at my husbands computer screen and found out that a girl was sending him intimate forwarded mails which he saved. He lied and said that it was one of his guy friends mails. ...

I'm having an affair with my boss.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 436 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - I have worked at PH for about a 1.5 years. My boss and I are having an affair. He is married with 4 children. He has a wife that I like and admire, and I have a very loving boyfriend. He has flaws that I cannot handle sometimes such as he is lazy ...

Finally admitted infidelity after 17 years

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 366 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - I am posting to this group hoping to get some support. 17 years ago, I was married for 5 years just had our first baby. My husband tells me has some kinds of bugs in his pubic hair. Stupid, naive, catholic school girl like me looks it up and finds ...

I read her secret diary

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - In my wife dairy, she has a crush for a marry man at her work. In the dairy she stated that how much she love his smell, touch, and hug. She also mention that she have problem concentrating at work when he is around and dream about making love to ...